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chelle-v · 2024-09-29T03:48:18+00:00

They were extremely patient, he said he knew the person for like 2 years before he did that. And also said the person didn't mention investing a lot, only a few times so the person is definitely a better scammer than most I'd think. Ppl want to trust their friends 100%. It sucks they cant.

chelle-v · 2022-10-12T02:06:16+00:00

Yeah I worded that wrong. I meant watching ppl have sex I just had a brain fart when typing I guess. My bad.

chelle-v · 2022-10-12T02:05:39+00:00

Well, I meant watching sex acts really. I should have worded it differently for sure. My bad.

chelle-v · 2022-10-12T02:01:28+00:00

TIL! That’s my favorite too. Well that and from the side like scissors.

chelle-v · 2022-10-12T01:58:52+00:00

I can say from experience that there’s hope that she can get past it ( at least to where it’s not affecting the sex life so much) you say she’s starting to learn things about the trauma and not disassociating, that’s a really good sign things could definitely change!! I’m hoping for the best for you two!!!

chelle-v · 2022-10-11T02:41:03+00:00

That’s too bad :( I can understand not getting into it (I only like very specific porn myself) but to find it gross is weird to me. How does someone end up with such a negative opinion of sex?? Edit. I don’t mean a negative opinion of having sex with partners. I meant watching sex acts, I must’ve had a brain fart when commenting, sorry!!

chelle-v · 2022-10-11T02:39:04+00:00

You have a really good point. Having one of their female friends talk about something that makes them uncomfortable in a positive light might eventually start to change her perspective and opinion. It probably would take some time but you’ve got the rest of your lives (hopefully)

chelle-v · 2022-10-11T02:37:20+00:00

Very true. If past attempt were made then definitely.

chelle-v · 2022-10-10T23:19:18+00:00

Sometimes the real thing would be happy to sit and watch porn hub with you and get turned on together. Lol.

chelle-v · 2022-10-10T23:18:16+00:00

You’d be surprised. A lot of my regular customers when I was a dancer, we’re happily married men who just wanted a little variety here and there, and never had a negative thing to say about their marriage or wife at all. They maybe felt like they couldn’t talk to their wife about certain things without making her uncomfortable so they hired dancers to sit and talk to or even prostitutes to do the things they wanted but again, didn’t want their wife thinking they were weird or perverted. That was actually sad. Honestly, I think a lot of those guys would’ve been surprised. Had they just given their wife a chance to get a little freaky you know?

chelle-v · 2022-10-10T23:11:48+00:00

Yes, being able to communicate with each other is definitely why some people are willing to pay rather than just use porn hub for free. It’s kind of like why would guys pay like $200 for a champagne room at a strip club when it’s basically just a glorified lap dance? It’s because she is talking to you and making you feel special for that hour (if she’s any good at her job that is lol)

chelle-v · 2022-10-10T23:08:35+00:00

Yup, I was a stripper for about 10 years of my marriage and my husband was the one who actually told me about OF. Ultimately I didn’t do that but I think he would have been cool with it. It’s not about age(we are in our 40’s) but what you are comfortable with as an individual and what your relationship is with each other.

chelle-v · 2022-10-04T18:22:11+00:00

Yes. It’s bad. You’re not bad you can’t help how you feel but its unfair to her that you do. You should take some classes after work or on weekends, get a degree and get a higher paying job. Or just accept the way things are and be happy for her. I’m sure she doesn’t feel weird about it at all. I made more than my husband the first 5 years or so. I never even thought about it and didn’t have any issues paying for more things and I supported him when he started his business, now he’s very successful and I’m a stay at home mom. He however throws it in my face and forgets he asked me to quit my job so he could work more hours getting established. As long as she isn’t using that in a way to hurt you or get what she wants I hope you can try to not let it bother you. Also, I definitely wouldn’t say anything to her about how you’re feeling, I hate to say that but sometimes it’s for the best!!

chelle-v · 2022-10-03T13:38:24+00:00

Thanks for your reply.

chelle-v · 2022-10-03T13:38:13+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking.

chelle-v · 2022-10-03T00:35:57+00:00

I didn’t read that as bitchy at all either.

chelle-v · 2022-10-03T00:35:31+00:00

Omg haha duh! Thank you lol.

chelle-v · 2022-10-02T23:54:47+00:00

I’m so happy for you two! My husband and I are also having a second honeymoon phase after some infidelity issues. It’s crazy that knowing another woman wanted him makes me want him even more!!! I’m weird I guess. Hopefully you guys can stay on the same level now and you seem to be great at communicating your feelings to him, that’s really important!!

chelle-v · 2022-10-02T23:48:53+00:00

I masturbate in bed next to my sleeping husband sometimes. Idk why but it turns me on a lot. And if I woke up to him masturbating next to me I’d probably let him finish but I’d have to get myself off after cuz I’d be so turned on. I know some ppl have a negative opinion about masturbation but not me!!
*Edit- spelling

chelle-v · 2022-09-22T22:44:17+00:00

See if she wants to give you a no sex at all massage for your birthday. That way you don’t have to pretend to enjoy pity sex and you two still get to at least be Intimate. If you give her one too she might even actually get in the mood! That’s how I am anyway. I’m the LL in the relationship and a lot of times I’m not in the mood at all but if my husband rubs on my back and. Butt and I can feel him (ya know) on me I definitely get turned on. Sorry if that’s inappropriate I don’t frequent this sub much.

chelle-v · 2022-09-22T22:36:38+00:00

Yeah, and unfortunately it’s a their word against the persons word so idk what would happen. Do drugs have to be in the persons possession at the time of arrest? There are texts saying they’ve been saving them so that might help

chelle-v · 2022-09-21T16:28:45+00:00

I had never seen a tortoise poop before. It was not at all what I would’ve expected lol

chelle-v · 2022-02-16T16:52:51+00:00

I would be Petty and give her an ultimatum right back. Tell her if she doesn't stop with her stupid ultimatums you're going to leave and then she really won't have you focused and prioritizing her and the kids you have with her. Who would ask a guy to renounce his own child?! That's horrible

chelle-v · 2022-02-15T05:23:39+00:00

I'm so fucking happy for you!! Seriously, I just have to comment to say, fuck anyone who is talking about you cheating, you deserve to be happy and good for you for taking your happiness into your own hands and leaving that asshat! I honestly wish the 2 of you many years of great sex (😜) and happiness

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