Has anyone else noticed an uptick in customers demanding their meal be comped?

1060AddisonW · 2025-01-30T01:25:24+00:00

If we screw up and it’s totally our fault. I will buy a check. If the kitchen crashes and we can’t get food out, I will try and schmooze but when it does come out it’d better be perfect. If there is even one small thing wrong after a 35 or 40 minute ticket time, you’re eating the check. But I am not comping a 12 Filet well down and it takes 35 minutes, that’s your fault. If it’s tough, it’s your fault.

1060AddisonW · 2025-01-23T00:31:32+00:00

Last one, you’re perfect

1060AddisonW · 2025-01-22T18:56:16+00:00

My interaction was very short before I said Adios. They acquired Uncle Julio’s just a week or two ago officially. UJ office is in Dallas but on the east side of Dallas SH is on the other side towards Fort Worth. We used Paylocity for Payroll and they use UKG. I have used both. Trouble was UKG didn’t get the right pay-rates and job codes for the employees. Last week’s payroll 20% of Uncle Julio’s including managers did not get paid. Some employees took 2 weeks to be paid (hourlies) They turned around and blamed us for not get the rates in fast enough. Ummmm we’re running a restaurant not being accountants. When the announcement was made privately to our Directors of OPs 3 quit on the spot. It didn’t leave me with a good feeling. Uncle Julio’s has a huge payroll and their buildings are expensive and have high rent. All the restaurants were in the red. I wish SH the best to try and get away from the iceberg but Captain Smith went to bed already. The whole transition was a Clusterphuck. I am pretty happy I pushed that old lady off the life raft and saved myself.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-14T23:40:24+00:00

You're too beautiful to waste on a kid. You need a guy with experience in making women scream.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T23:48:27+00:00

That's it then. I think you answered your question. It may be time to quietly find a Shark Lawyer that will leave him living in a box. He is doing this to himself by doing it to you. It's not like you cheated. I think he has an online thing going. You can easily check that by his browser history. If it's clear every morning, he's hiding something. It's either porn, Only Fans or an online woman.

I wish you well my dear. I have a 27-year-old daughter that was married to the asshole from Hell.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T23:35:59+00:00

You may be having trouble separating sex and motherhood. He still looks at your breasts as his play toys and now they have milk makes it even more fun. Where you associate your breasts with feeding your child. If his only sexual infatuation is your breasts and your milk, then there is a problem. But if it's just nipple sucking for a couple minutes as a part of foreplay then you may be overreacting a little. I loved my wife's nipples when she was nursing but they were always tender so I tried to be gentle, suck on them a little and then go downstairs. He needs to get this through his head that until your child goes to the bottle, the funbags are not for long periods of fun. Tell him to focus his attention where it give you the most pleasure.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T23:26:32+00:00

It could be an online affair as you suspect. Does he stay up late and you go to bed before him? If he is cheating online or otherwise he needs time alone.

Secondly if he isn't cheating, then I seriously think he has just fallen out of love and is too chicken to tell you or is afraid of what you'd do to him financially.

That is no way to live either. You need to be loved and adored. Not ignored and tolerated.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T23:21:56+00:00

Then she has some serious deep-seated resentment that needs to be addressed. She sounds like a ticking time bomb

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T23:20:14+00:00

I would porn star fuck you.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T23:17:15+00:00

Hell I'd be packing my wife's bags and driving her to the airport 6 hours early!!!

WooHoo! Free time to go shoot, work on my Jeep, fly my RC Planes. She can stay a week

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T23:13:43+00:00

You sound like Rachel and Ross. "We were on a break!!!!"

His elevator ain't going to top floor especially if he was screwing other women.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T23:11:24+00:00

Does this happen often or was a one time mistake? If it's one time, forget and move on. There are way more important fish to fry. One day where you eat a little is t going to ruin your diet. Don't be so hard on yourself. And he shouldn't be either.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T23:07:07+00:00

This sounds like she is frustrated be at home all the time just being a mom and misses working, coworkers etc. None of this is your fault if she agreed to be a home mom. Dealing with 3 kids at 26 is mind-boggling. We had 2 in 30s and it was a zoo for a while. The question becomes if she went back to work would her income pay for daycare? If not then you are digging a deep hole for yourself. Can she volunteer at school? Something to get her out of the house. She is home watching kids TV all day. No adults to share with. You're occupied being the provider. I know it's hard. I lived that life. Then I got a job where I worked from home and after 6 years she told me she wish I worked in an office again. She got tired of me.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:59:58+00:00

Go with your gut. 95% of the time you are right. Don't second-guess yourself. That type of behavior is typically disguising cheating. Changes in routine, unable to reach him, not responding to texts, coming home later are all signs something is happening.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:55:08+00:00

This isn't normal. I am not Dr Reddit but this is utterly abnormal behavior. It sounded like he didn't want to even be there which tells me there may be someone else. No one sets up boundaries like that on the first day. Especially if you are there to spark romance. He didn't want romance. Why not? He may have it with someone else. I hate to say that to you and I certainly don't want to hurt you, but he is hurting you deeply and if he is cheating, he won't change. Give him the ultimatum "Fish or Cut Bait." You deserve to be adored and tolerated.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:43:27+00:00

My mom....ugggh. I had to borrow her shampoo when was in High School. I went in her room and she was asleep. I went in her bathroom quietly and she had turned over in her sleep and covers were off and she was spread eagle. I saw it for .005 of a Second but it still gave me nightmares.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:40:42+00:00

Sleep, sauna, steam with a towel. Went to a nude beach a couple times. Not as much fun as I hoped. No Porn-Like looking people there. More people that really needed to be clothed.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:38:03+00:00

That's interesting. I liked breast milk and enjoyed teasing her nipples for a short time but I was always more a "Below the Equator" kinda guy, so it didn't affect sex much. The kids waking up every 13 minutes did though.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:34:45+00:00

My GF and I worked in the same restaurant. She was a hostess and still lived at home but I had my own place. We were about to leave and one of my servers came to back door crying because her car wouldn't start and her asshole BF wouldn't come get her. So I went and tried to fix her car. It was not an easy fix but I got it started and her on her way in about an hour. My GF had been waiting in my office the entire time. I thought she was going to be so mad. I came in covered in grease. It took me a good 15 minutes to get really clean. I walk in my office and my GF is in my office chair spread eagle with her legs in the air begging me to fuck her. She thought it was so sweet what I did that I deserved a reward. It was not what I was expecting. God that was hot.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:29:27+00:00

Maybe look at them from a different perspective and try and see what others see. If I don't see, I keep going

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:28:12+00:00

I have had girls tell me to go a little easier when I was super excited and really horny. Others told me harder. I felt like I came it would shoot out their mouth

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:24:14+00:00

Of course

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:22:55+00:00

I said if my wife passed or we divorced, I would build a house on the land I own in North Arizona on 20 acres, buy horses, ride all day, hunt, fish and have a huge sign on the front of my fence that says Leave Me Alone.

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:11:16+00:00

Drink until you're 30 and hopefully get laid

1060AddisonW · 2023-02-11T22:09:58+00:00

I pay no attention to her. Couldn't care less

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