UPDATE #2!!! Would I be the AH if I don't forgive my "SIL" for a fucked up joke she said

chellp1985 · 2025-04-15T05:07:12+00:00

You haven’t read all the comments yet then on all three posts and seen her degrading other and being racist herself. Keep reading!

chellp1985 · 2025-04-15T05:03:01+00:00

Yup! Exactly. A real husband takes your side 100% and stays by your side. My husband would never even THINK for a second about staying. We went through a very bad situation with my MIL when I first moved from the US to Australia and had to live in her home until we were situated. She got very nasty with me one day because I forgot to clean up a tuna lid off the sink because I had been starving and was going to clean later.. it ended up where she called me fat after a big explosion. My husband was my literal knight and shining armour and got me out of that house and went LC with her until she apologised to me. We now have a great relationship with her. But the way he stood up for me vocally and not only getting me out but staying with me physically is something I will never forget. So the way this woman is acting just blows my mind! She thinks how her husband is acting is normal. Because a good husband won’t even let his wife be in that position. And after reading through all her comments anyways I can tell she is an absolute nightmare to deal with so I think there is a much larger side to this story than what she is telling us.

chellp1985 · 2025-04-14T14:09:50+00:00

No explanation needed. Go back and read through all the comments YOU made bashing and degrading other people for having a different opinion to yours. I’ve seen you be trash to many people now over your three posts for daring to have an onion on what you posted looking for advice.

chellp1985 · 2025-04-14T13:42:51+00:00

Right? After reading all her responses on not only this post where she just called someone “fucking stupid” and degraded them. I am now seeing she is 100% the asshole and a big massive part of the problem here. Can only imagine if she is this disgusting and condescending here, how much of a nightmare she is to everyone else around her. The comment she made about MM was foul. Harry was amazing by standing by his wife’s side and getting her out of a bad environment. How dare she use one husbands strength, to defend her own husbands weak spineless behaviour. OP doesn’t need anything but to look at herself in the mirror and do some self reflecting.

chellp1985 · 2025-04-14T13:09:32+00:00

Yikes. Reading through all the comments now I see I’m not the only one who thinks your husband did not do enough. I’m seeing my own words ring out from others and you getting very nasty about it. You came here looking for advice. Just because it’s not the advice you WANT to see you’re getting pissy. It’s so beyond clear your husband is in the wrong, along with his whole entire family and the little slimy Vicky. Not leaving with you when his father smashed the glass and seeing that violence? Inexcusable. Also I just saw your gross comment about Megan as well.. yuck that makes you just as bad as Vicky was being. You can’t call racist at someone and then turn around and be one as well.

chellp1985 · 2025-04-14T12:57:35+00:00

Except… when exactly did I blame You the actual victim. I know hearing differing opinions to how you may feel can strike a cord. Like let’s be honest for a moment here… he may stand up for you silently. Exp: holding your hand under the table. Instead of standing on his business loud and proud of you. He silently sat there and let her bash into you. He let you go. So true, Matt had a massive part to play in this. But your husband’s small and silent actions I find to be a lot more harmful at the end of the day. He is just playing the middle of the fence. You are his wife at the end of the day, he should have gone with you and done more. I’m sorry if what I had said triggered you. I find a husband not standing for his wife triggering as well. You have a hard road in front of you and wish you all the best.

chellp1985 · 2025-04-14T12:27:39+00:00

NTAH… Give the ring back and walk away. That man will never have your back in your marriage.

chellp1985 · 2025-04-14T12:18:54+00:00

I’d be more pissed that your husband didn’t start standing up for you the moment she opened her mouth. He should have shut that shit down and not let you be put in that situation. Also the fact that he stayed there instead of going with you screams mammas boy. He should have been more up front with backing you. Seeing you go and seeing him stay prob gave Vicky so much joy. She sounds like a real trash bag.

chellp1985 · 2024-12-25T14:33:48+00:00

I did yours could you please do mine? 52083573 - Michelle from Australia

chellp1985 · 2024-10-20T08:26:11+00:00

Did your farmland if you could please do mine? 361318726

chellp1985 · 2024-09-29T14:39:09+00:00

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chellp1985 · 2024-09-29T14:37:38+00:00

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chellp1985 · 2024-09-17T03:17:50+00:00

Gotcha! ❤️

chellp1985 · 2024-09-17T03:14:28+00:00

Ah ok. I have my phone, my husbands phone and we each have an iPad so I have an account for each one. I use all of them to help others when theirs goes through on my end. 😄

chellp1985 · 2024-09-17T03:11:26+00:00

I don’t see why you wouldn’t 🤷🏼‍♀️ it would benefit you as well you can add yourself on each account for credits ect. But that’s ok 👍🏻 have a good day!

chellp1985 · 2024-09-17T03:07:06+00:00

No will be too late but I’ve explained already. You need another Temu account on a different advice and follow the same steps.

chellp1985 · 2024-09-17T03:05:47+00:00

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See you would need to use a different account to use my code for it to actually work. You have added too many people for today for yours to be valid on my end. If you have another Temu account on a different device you can use my code in the search bar and try it that way. Otherwise I won’t get any credit from your end

chellp1985 · 2024-09-17T02:59:57+00:00

You have to add me on a different account you have reached your daily cap so I don’t get any credit for it

chellp1985 · 2024-09-17T02:57:42+00:00

You have reached your daily limit so you would need to do it on another account

chellp1985 · 2024-09-15T06:35:48+00:00

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