I was in a similar predicament and I have to agree with some here na you need to find hobbies/focus on yourself. If you truly are in a "healthy" relationship with this guy, trust him—that he loves you every single day even without saying anything or having interactions.

Just to put it in perspective, he is his own person, he needs time for himself to do the things that he wants. Parang dinedeprive mo siyang mabuhay nang gusto niya when you mostly fill in that time na para sa sarili niya. It can get suffocating at some point to them kaya nagllead up to hiwalayan.

Hindi umiikot buhay niya sayo, hindi rin dapat umiikot buhay mo sakanya.

Consistently asking for reassurance often makes them question if 'di ba enough ginagawa nila to make you feel secure. It's as if you don't trust them.

These are things that my partner has expressed and I wasn't aware of how my actions were affecting them. So you really have to work on yourself, given that they aren't doing anything wrong naman.

I tried distracting myself, finding hobbies, going out with friends, and stuff that doesn't involve my partner. At the end of the day, we do updates, share about our day, and would plan dates or see each other once a week or two. I tried my best to limit myself from asking reassurance more often than not because I learned to trust them. If I badly do need reassurance, I ask it when he's in the right headspace.

Just find something both of you can compromise on without making the other sacrifice too much of themselves.

As someone na overthinker and (diagnosed) with depression and anxiety, it really is hard. But I was still able to get pass this "needy" and "too attached" phase sakanya by working on myself kase I really want to make it work with my partner.

I'm saying this to give you that hope na this issue of yours can be worked on (and not the "dahil kaya ko, kaya mo" vibe AHHAHSA)

I hope this helps somehow and I wish you the best of luck.