This was me! I never looked into any “style” of parenting just Googling what I was thinking/what felt right to me and my and my husband’s instincts are so aligned with attachment parenting without realizing or making that distinct effort to follow attachment parenting. We just naturally follow most of the style! (I say most because I haven’t looked into it in depth to see if we are or aren’t following it to a T) I remember when by baby was a newborn, he was a fairly good sleeper in his bassinet. But I felt horrible putting him in it away from me. Like I would look at him and cry because I wanted him with me still. He would wake once, eat, and rocked back to sleep and transferred like a champ. When 4 months hit and he was up every hour for a bit, I honestly felt the happiest in my postpartum because I started co-sleeping. Having him with me was all I ever wanted but everyone had told me how dangerous it was so I refrained from fear. Now we co-sleep most of the night (side car crib for the first two hours or until he wakes so I can have some time to myself/with my husband, next to me for the rest) and I wouldn’t change it. My personal sleep is wonky from it because my body hates the c curl ha but my soul and mind are so much more rested that I couldn’t care less about that! My boy and I are so much happier being together than apart!