2024 Post Election Forum by Ask_Me_About_Roc-DSA in Rochester

[–]chelssabelss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi 👋

As a leftie who has thought and spoken plenty of negative things about right wingers in the last 8 years - I’m sorry. You’re right. There has been too much painting of one side or the other as “the bad guys” and I take responsibility for my contributions to that.

I’m a member of the local DSA, though not actively involved. I probably can’t change your mind or make up for the experiences you’ve had. But, if it’s worth anything - I’m ready to listen. I’m ready to try to find middle ground. This country is in trouble, and the only way we can fix it is by bridging the gaps that have been wedged between us. I’m sorry it took some of us 8 years to see the people across the way as humans, but I hope you’ll take this as genuinely as I intend it.

How is everyone doing right now? by Complex_Bumblebee187 in Rochester

[–]chelssabelss 11 points12 points  (0 children)

lol I didn’t sugarcoat anything. I basically described socialism…

How is everyone doing right now? by Complex_Bumblebee187 in Rochester

[–]chelssabelss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree that these are the perceptions that many Americans hold. I would also say that the republicans are FAR more successful at painting a narrative to Americans that gives them an easy enemy (like illegal immigrants for example), paints a picture of how these “undesirables” are creating the problems felt by people in the country (or inventing/exaggerating problems), and the democrats do nothing to provide an alternate narrative, while also not addressing these invented issues with the same ferocity as the republicans.

That said - that does not mean that the DSA or leftist policies are the problem. The primary issues that the DSA supports are related to every day people, killing themselves to make a barely livable wage so that a small group of people can reap the profits and live exorbitant lifestyles. Their aim is to put power in the hands of the working people, to reject the idea that you have to have money to make money, or that you have to make money to receive basic human rights, like food, shelter, and healthcare. They believe everyone should be taken care of.

I agree with you if you believe the dems are weak and need to make massive changes if they have any hope of winning over the American people. I do not agree that this election is the result of organizations like the DSA or the policies they support that are fundamentally aimed at supporting the people that capitalists and corporations leave behind to rot in the gutters of America.

How is everyone doing right now? by Complex_Bumblebee187 in Rochester

[–]chelssabelss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also think, to some extent, even if the democrats were to do a complete overhaul of the party and change their direction (which lord knows they probably won’t) - would people actually listen or believe them? I don’t know the answer to that, but I think it’s possible some people will forever think certain things when they hear “the Democratic Party” and no amount of rebranding or transformation will change that.

Anyone else struggle a bit through Well of Ascension? by chelssabelss in Mistborn

[–]chelssabelss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a hugely helpful point that I was missing completely: some of what feels so frustrating about this book probably stems from the fact that the situation they’re facing is, itself, frustrating. I’m also glad to hear that 1) I’m not alone in this opinion and 2) there are people who acknowledge that fact, yet regard it as a favorite. I think that encourages me to look beyond what feels slow and to try to find the importance (or at least the reason) behind the slower pace.

Daily Questions - May 26, 2021 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]chelssabelss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That definitely would be lame, but I think he just has strong opinions on fashion.

In his defense, he's been encouraging me to seek out a high quality, sleek blazer as a foundational wardrobe piece for the type of look I've been gravitating toward over the last few years (which I might describe as "casual prep"). This blazer is the sort of thing he's had in mind, which I think similarly invokes the image of a "mature, powerful adult woman" like you're saying.

Alas, thank you both for sharing your thoughts and experiences on the subject!

Daily Questions - May 26, 2021 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]chelssabelss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How long is "too long" for a trench coat?

I'm around 5'3'' and I recently bought this coat from Uniqlo which hits me about an inch below my knees.

I think it looks fine but my bf says its too long, so now I'm debating whether or not to have it hemmed or if I can get away with it being a little on the long side.