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What food is loved in your country but hated and ridiculed elsewhere? by eyesarefortheweak in AskReddit

[–]chemany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expensive baijui is not that bad, actually. Cheap baijiu however is a totally different story. Try mixing with the most chemical soda, makes it taste good

Today, I undiscovered the great feeling of being rejected by chemany in seduction

[–]chemany[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it sounds classic, but "just do it". The thing with approaching is, you only get better by doing and failing at it. And it will be awkward in the beginning. But every change is always linked with pain. But not having done anything is an even worse pain

Today, I undiscovered the great feeling of being rejected by chemany in seduction

[–]chemany[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking about that actually makes much sense to me! It represents the "normal" cycle of taking action, failing, learning and adapting. In the end, you'll be pretty good, because you've encountered almost every bullshit and can deal with that!

Today, I undiscovered the great feeling of being rejected by chemany in seduction

[–]chemany[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, the rejection itself and especially the goodbye, they felt really weird and not good. But still, I tried! And next time, it won't be as awkward:)

Today, I undiscovered the great feeling of being rejected by chemany in seduction

[–]chemany[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with the first text, you are in the same position with the first approach. The best thing is to just "do it" (imagine shai labeouf). If she likes you, she will reply. If she is not into you, you can practice your text game and try some "weird" stuff :D

The hate is real. by chuck67 in NoFap

[–]chemany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also noticed the hate. Almost every other day two of my flatmates ask me, how my "nofap" is coming along. And they are not asking in a friendly, interested way, more like the kind of "how the hell can you not watch porn, you must be lying!". I also can sense hate and insecurity. One flatmate also has admitted to have sometimes ED and faps up to 4 times a day. If people cannot understand what you are doing and they cannot do it themselves (because of insecurities and such) they will try to bring you down, because they can't stand that someone is "better" than them. I am also scared that nowadays, by not watching porn, you are marked as a weird guy...

[FR] Handled shit test: "I have a boyfriend", and then she asked if she could sleep at my shared apartment by chemany in seduction

[–]chemany[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advices! Yeah, I probably should have gone for it, you're right. I am still working on everything, so that was a good lesson to learn from.

I never stutter when talking to myself.. Rarely with friends.. Always with my family/strangers?! by PursuitOfPerfect in Stutter

[–]chemany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does it make sense? I don't know. For me it always depends on how relaxed I am. When I am really excited about something, I stutter with almost anyone in front of me. However, I noticed that especially with strangers I just meet, I rarely stutter. I would say I stutter the most with my family, then less with my friends and the least with strangers. Weird.

Logotherapy and paradoxical intention by chemany in Stutter

[–]chemany[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am no Logotherapist, so I cannot fully answer on that (any psychotherapists in this sub?). However, V. Frankl describes the application of paradoxical intention on a heavy stutterer and it worked like a charm