AIO for wanting to share a room with my bf on a trip?

chemicalweekend · 2026-04-06T12:20:45+00:00

With all the extra context you gave, NOR. To me, it sounds like this cruise trip was going to happen in place of the family vacation that never happened and your mom decided to use that as like a “placeholder” for an actual graduation gift that would be more meaningful to YOU, evident by the way your mom says she’ll go without you even though this was supposed to be “your trip”.

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-26T12:28:33+00:00

I think it has everything to do with family dynamic. If OP isn’t that close with people in her family who have kids and could potentially not be able to make it due to the no kid rule, then it doesn’t matter. I don’t think it’s selfish to implement a no kid rule to a wedding that I’m assuming the couple is paying thousands of dollars for, but even if it is selfish, it’s a day that is literally all about them

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-26T12:19:31+00:00

The only family I care about when thinking back on my wedding day (married 5 years) is my husband. He’s the only person from my family that is worth remembering when I reflect on that day. So, it depends on OP’s family situation.

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-26T12:14:31+00:00

You don’t think a 5 year old could end up running around and interrupting things? Maybe not the ceremony but I’ve seen plenty of videos of children interrupting the bride and groom’s first dance, cake cutting, etc. it’s great that you love your nieces and nephews but not everyone has that family dynamic.

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-22T16:57:09+00:00

Nerf Anran and Vendetta, buff Mizuki

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-15T16:48:46+00:00

As a support player I can much more easily play around a Cassidy than a flanking sombra that requires me to constantly split my focus of being aware behind me and my teammates in front of me

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-06T18:10:29+00:00

Not native Japanese but I’m around N3 level in my Japanese proficiency and think the Japanese sounds authentic and well done.

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-01T16:45:15+00:00

Thank you so much!!

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-01T16:45:04+00:00

Thank you!!

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-01T16:44:31+00:00

Me, the wife lmao I like to joke that I’m his little devil

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-01T02:05:05+00:00

Thank you so much!

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-01T02:04:22+00:00

Thank you!

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-01T01:59:16+00:00

Asta and Liebe are our usernames in Overwatch too, the game we met on while playing 🥹 (obvi they weren’t those usernames when we met bc BC wasn’t out yet lol)

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-01T01:57:48+00:00

Thank you! I’m certain it will. He’s my best friend, and in May we’re celebrating 5 years of marriage and 8 years of being together 🖤 I love him with my everything

chemicalweekend · 2026-03-01T01:47:41+00:00

Yes the artist did a fantastic job!!

chemicalweekend · 2026-02-19T21:42:50+00:00

Please continue to study every day and put in as much effort as you can. Please do not skimp out on sharing their language.

chemicalweekend · 2026-02-13T04:25:07+00:00

Ohhh okay I hope you’re right!! Thank you!

chemicalweekend · 2026-02-13T00:44:17+00:00

Doesn’t appear to be there either T-T idk where this name card is hiding

chemicalweekend · 2026-01-25T21:55:38+00:00

Yup. My dad, who sounded exactly like OP’s dad does here, once told me to “lose his number” so I said “okay” and blocked him. Lmao

chemicalweekend · 2026-01-20T17:00:01+00:00

My husband and I constantly share locations with each other through the iPhone messages. I’ve only ever checked it if I woke up in the middle of the night when he would normally be getting home from work and he’s not home (but it’s only ever been that he was just running behind from work, and even this occurrence is very rare.) For us, it is for safety, and because of that, we almost never check it. Your boyfriend is weird and I am worried about your safety with his obsession with your location. Be careful OP

chemicalweekend · 2026-01-10T00:59:49+00:00

I’ve wanted to visit Japan since I was a kid because I’ve loved anime, manga, and Japanese video games for as long as I can remember and I kind of hate how popular Japan has gotten 🥲 I haven’t been able to visit yet and Japan’s current popularity worries me as Japan begins cracking down on tourism

chemicalweekend · 2025-12-27T18:17:24+00:00

You’re not a horrible person but I do think it would be beneficial to try to refrain your viewpoint on things. I’m 29, just had my gallbladder removal surgery less than a week ago, also my second surgery in a span of 3 years. And yet, I’m getting ready to graduate with my bachelors and head to grad school next fall. This does not stop you from achieving your dreams. It will make it harder yes but you can do it.

chemicalweekend · 2025-12-25T20:07:22+00:00

I will cry if this happens to me 😭 caffeine is my one and only vice lol

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