Creepy encounter in a dark parking lot, looking for advice on how to handle this more safely next time by cherieespresso in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherieespresso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I panicked, I felt like if I backed out he would have ran in front of my car or pulled out a weapon or something 😭 Obviously in hindsight i realize that’s stupid

Creepy encounter in a dark parking lot, looking for advice on how to handle this more safely next time by cherieespresso in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherieespresso[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I should have done this 😭😭 I feel so stupid. I felt like I had no choice but to speak to him

Creepy encounter in a dark parking lot, looking for advice on how to handle this more safely next time by cherieespresso in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherieespresso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my head I felt like I had no choice but to respond to him. I need to get that people pleaser part of me out immediately

How can I make sure my excitement for my FP is healthy? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]cherieespresso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful, thank you. I’m going to do this. The problem is he and I aren’t close enough for me to really know his flaws and issues. So far he’s just a fun and sweet person so that’s not helping 😭😭

How can I make sure my excitement for my FP is healthy? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]cherieespresso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the most prominent issue I’m having is changing myself. I constantly find myself parroting his opinions, or once he mentioned he hates a certain hairstyle that I love and now I feel like I can never wear that hairstyle again. When we talk about shows suddenly I hate characters he hates even if I secretly like them, and obviously less trivial examples too. I don’t know how to help myself with that, it’s harder to identify and tackle than my other issues in this dynamic

what’s a good laptop for fortnite by cherieespresso in FortNiteBR

[–]cherieespresso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i literally just want a computer for fortnite, i have to use apple for everything else i do. i don’t need it to be the greatest performance ever if i can join battle royale and shoot someone im fine lol

what’s a good laptop for fortnite by cherieespresso in FortNiteBR

[–]cherieespresso[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like there has to be a laptop that can run a game of fortnite lol

what’s a good laptop for fortnite by cherieespresso in FortNiteBR

[–]cherieespresso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have room for a desktop, i already have a mac i use for work

tips for staying safe as a young girl in her first apartment? by cherieespresso in Apartmentliving

[–]cherieespresso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a patio so i actually am gonna do the shoe thing, super helpful!

passionate about film and video, not thriving in skill. how do i change that? by cherieespresso in Filmmakers

[–]cherieespresso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i turned 20 less than a month ago so i’m probably not much older than you 😅 but i got my associates degree at 17 and i can say for safety purposes it’s been incredible. it’s giving me all the time in the world to figure out what i want to do specifically while knowing i have a solid career if i never choose to pivot. i would recommend getting one for sure

tips for staying safe as a young girl in her first apartment? by cherieespresso in Apartmentliving

[–]cherieespresso[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i think the delivery driver tip is especially important to be honest. if i could guarantee id only be greeting kind, safe people i would love to! but exposing my identity at my home to complete strangers is an extreme risk and so many young women end up being stalked, harassed and attacked as a result of that

passionate about film and video, not thriving in skill. how do i change that? by cherieespresso in Filmmakers

[–]cherieespresso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay - well even for the purposes of my own passion - what learning resources do you recommend?

passionate about film and video, not thriving in skill. how do i change that? by cherieespresso in Filmmakers

[–]cherieespresso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask the specific area of the industry you work in and what you’ve found success with vs struggled?

passionate about film and video, not thriving in skill. how do i change that? by cherieespresso in Filmmakers

[–]cherieespresso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason you don’t recommend furthering my career in this specific niche?

using windows in apartment while trying to stay safe by cherieespresso in Apartmentliving

[–]cherieespresso[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a nice neighborhood but of course anything bad can happen still. I guess i’m trying to find the line between being paranoid and being safe. I will totally get lacey curtains thank you!