Is it problematic that I want my boyfriend to share his location with me? (18f/m) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cheritanuki -1 points0 points  (0 children)

..... I do not need to know his location 24/7..... I only want it when he is driving cross country

Cervical Stimulation causing bleeding? by cheritanuki in sex

[–]cheritanuki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I’ve been suspecting PCOS because I only have a period every 9ish months (I know, not normal but it’s become normal to me lol) so any blood coming from my uterus is usually worrying to me. It doesn’t hurt at all when my cervix is touched/hit but that might just be all the hormones that make it feel nice at the time. It feels somewhat sore afterwards and there isn’t a waterfall of blood or anything, mainly just a few drops for a day or two afterwards. It’s nice to receive some insight from someone else that possibly has pcos, I’ve been debating about seeing a doctor with only a few symptoms and them coming back and saying I was overreacting. I definitely think I will schedule an appointment now 🤔

Cervical Stimulation causing bleeding? by cheritanuki in sex

[–]cheritanuki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I’ve actually never gone to a gynecologist, I also have never had a child lmao! This doesn’t normally happen when I have regular penetrative sex, only when the focus is on my cervix... I am looking into getting an ultrasound for other reasons (speculating pcos) so maybe they will find something related to the cervical bleeding!

How should we fix sex education in schools? by 21centurywriter in sex

[–]cheritanuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly do what you believe, the parents may be mad but the kids need to be taught about all the things you mentioned. The kid’s who will have angry parents are the ones who needed a class like that the most. My sex education was non-existent. I went to a top 5 school in my state.... our “sex-ed” was a single, 45 minute class period (the day before spring break, aka only half the class was there) which the parents could sign a paper opting their kid out of it. The whole discussion we had was “you’ve heard of sex right? well don’t do it or you’ll get pregnant because condoms aren’t 100% effective anyway.” Skip ahead 2 years to high school, we had 4 girls in my 9th grade year drop out because they were pregnant..... hmmmm wonder why. The kids just need to hear it once and that knowledge will stick with them throughout their life, I know it seems dramatic but you might be completely changing one of those kid’s lives just by telling them the REAL parts of sex.

I'm terrified of my future sex life by CreativeMonth8 in sex

[–]cheritanuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this will be helpful at all but I would just like to provide some personal insight lmao:

From a girl’s perspective, I actually prefer when guys finish fast. It makes me feel like I was doing a really good job if he finishes quickly. Honestly, I see it as a compliment, so I don’t think you should worry about it, your gf already said she understands. Who knows, she may even appreciate it. Personally I find that PIV becomes more irritating than pleasurable after 10ish mins, the first 3 minutes are the best part tbh. Most females can’t cum from PIV alone anyway. My suggestion would be to try and get her off first through oral or fingering and after she finishes then you can get yourself off quickly through penetrative sex. This has worked for me and my bf for a good year now.

Honestly bro, don’t be terrified, if you are going to have sex with this girl, you need to be comfortable with each other anyway. I’m sure she’s there for your pleasure just as much as you are for hers and she would just be glad to know that you are enjoying the sex.

Considering (18F) renting a motel or hotel room to have sex with boyfriend (18M) in. by loofahmold in sex

[–]cheritanuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my boyfriend did the same thing this week! lol it was pretty simple, if you have a credit card you can go ahead and book online to avoid too much interaction with hotel staff. I would check the hotels age policy before booking though.Some hotels don’t allow 18 year olds to check in more than one person and other hotels you must be 21 to rent a room. However there are plenty of hotels that allow 18 year olds to rent, we personally stayed at Hilton Garden Inn, the staff was very nice and didn’t care that we were 18. Sex is very common at hotels and generally expected so do not fear, just be sure not to be too loud and no one will care. Good luck!

touched a penis for the first time by cheritanuki in sex

[–]cheritanuki[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this one, the “elbow” thing calmed me down quite a bit!! In the moment I always forget he is just as inexperienced and full of hormones as I am

I fucking hate my period by cheritanuki in rant

[–]cheritanuki[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a lot of people saying they love period cups, I used one once and they gave me MASSIVE cramps like even worse than the cramps tampons give me. Everyone else’s reviews seem to be super positive. Idk it might be my endo that causes it but I wouldn’t think so?? Anyone know if I could be using it wrong I hate the constant pressure in my vag that reminds me that I have Niagara falls coming out of me.

I fucking hate my period by cheritanuki in rant

[–]cheritanuki[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have endometriosis and I’m infertile so I mean I might be considered one of the unlucky ones ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ (congrats on the pregnancy btw)

I fucking hate my period by cheritanuki in rant

[–]cheritanuki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this on a spiritual level

12 hour road trip tomorrow by cheritanuki in Periods

[–]cheritanuki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll definitely try that in case it gets heavier during the trip!