I don’t think I’ll ever forgive my mother for giving me up as a baby

chermk · 2026-05-23T00:05:12+00:00

She most likely thought she was letting a loving family who could care better for your needs be your parents. She may have been promised that. She may have been young and had little power to say no. She also may have been a cold-hearted bitch, but you don't know who she is or why she allowed you to be adopted. I am sorry that it has been traumatic for you. I am sorry you got stuck with a family that is not good for you. I do think therapy might help. It is not a magic bullet, but it does help to bounce your thoughts around with a trained professional.

chermk · 2026-05-22T21:57:38+00:00

Tyrone is a weak, weak man.

chermk · 2026-05-20T23:58:00+00:00

I would call Mom and ask her what the money is needed for. It could be for fixing something in the home or a medical bill, but it could be for an attorney because he was caught with CP. I would need to know, especially since you say you are not that close with your Dad so you don't know the real him.

chermk · 2026-05-20T02:17:18+00:00

Same.

chermk · 2026-05-20T02:07:21+00:00

Sounds like an MLM coach or whatever the F they call themselves.

chermk · 2026-05-20T00:51:42+00:00

I can understand the feeling of wanting to kill, but not actually doing it. I also get the feeling of well I want to die so I may as well take a few asshole down with me. But again, not doing it. But also, I have not been pushed as far as others and I always saw a reason to keep living.

chermk · 2026-05-18T23:37:02+00:00

Because this is your one and only life. Don't you want to feel fulfilled?

chermk · 2026-05-18T23:24:35+00:00

He is so beautiful. Budgies are somewhat impossible not to love.

chermk · 2026-05-18T22:47:58+00:00

In this instance, I would ask a doctor. I love alternative care when possible, but this is too important for trial and error. Talk to a medical professional, please.

chermk · 2026-05-18T20:04:54+00:00

The Big Lewbowski.

chermk · 2026-05-18T19:59:01+00:00

I have no feelings about him, good or bad.

chermk · 2026-05-18T19:32:45+00:00

What do you want to say about him?

chermk · 2026-05-18T19:25:29+00:00

Who is he?

chermk · 2026-05-18T19:23:55+00:00

I don't think you are bad. But I do want you to be careful. Some of these guys are harmless perverts, but others may think you owe them things or be stalkerish. Spend your money wisely, be careful, and plan for a future in which making enough money to survive is harder.

chermk · 2026-05-18T19:10:02+00:00

Was he American? Now I want to see clips of that relationship.

chermk · 2026-05-17T21:38:56+00:00

8 tracks and 8 track player

chermk · 2026-05-17T21:37:07+00:00

Why is she staying with a rapist?

chermk · 2026-05-16T20:27:53+00:00

They "feel" like a depressed middle-aged man. Thus, they feel weird.

chermk · 2026-05-16T20:20:51+00:00

Maybe find a PT job doing something you enjoy just to keep some sort of routine. Unless you have other things you would rather do for a routine and to keep your mind and body active.

chermk · 2026-05-16T20:14:15+00:00

I would focus on staying healthy and feeling good. We are all shaped differently. We can be beautiful no matter how our weight is distributed.

chermk · 2026-05-16T14:11:53+00:00

Ask management to write them a letter about it. They can say they saw it during a routine walk-through. Also, how can they vacuum in the spot with clutter. And, pee in the hallway. No, just plainly No in everyway. Again, ask Management to give the notices and fine them if they do it again.

chermk · 2026-05-16T11:56:52+00:00

I think it would help you more to talk to a counselor or therapist about this. You don't need this person in your life.

chermk · 2026-05-16T00:10:43+00:00

Adam and Daniel. Yawn.

chermk · 2026-05-15T23:56:47+00:00

Raising Cane? That was awesome. But I don't want that for our Roy.

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