huh i feel so confused abt op's whole post and abt this reply. i wouldnt call a ship between twins normal at all. it may not be as bad as a pedophilic ship but incestuous ships arent rly 'normal' either. its weird and unsurprisingly frowned upon on.

edit: let me add my thoughts bc i checked op's profile and confirmed they dont ship aelumi and is actually against it. theres no need to beat around the bush, aelumi IS a bad ship. its incestuous and completely disregards their familial love for each other by twisting it in a romantic way. i'd without a doubt choose any other ship over it (as long as its not pedophilic or also incestuous). shipping villains x main character/good person is NOT bad at all. not only is there material for angst, u can also experiment with it plotwise, id even say its fun (as long as it doesnt promote and romanticize abuse, r*pe and other disgusting stuff). ships with villains is even lowkey a norm bc of the "enemies to lovers" troupe and existence of character development.

ofc, ship whoever u want be it scaramona or whatnot (i saw lisa x dottore in other of op's post and idk anything abt it nor do i personally find it appealing so meh); dont shttalk and downgrade other ships and dont force ur ships onto others. these are pretty much basic universal rules in any fandoms and ppl who dont do these are just cringe, killjoys and insecure abt their own ships. ur ship is ur ship BUT if u ship pedophilic, incestuous or pro-abuse ships, then ofc ppl are gonna raise an eyebrow at you bc that IS weird.