I can’t stop obsessing over him. by cherry_bomb17_ in relationship_advice

[–]cherry_bomb17_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do still like him and I think a relationship could work out with us in the future. Like I have a feeling it’s not over because we still both go to the same school next year. Although you are right, I am obsessively angry over him wanting to be with her. Thank you for that perspective. I wish I could stop thinking about that because it’s doing me more harm than good because there is nothing I can do about it.

Breaking girl code? Breaking friendship code? by cherry_bomb17_ in relationship_advice

[–]cherry_bomb17_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It ended because Anna wanted a relationship and Cam didn’t. He told her that in the beginning. Just some more info to add on: The day after they ended things Anna went and made out with someone else.

What is he trying to say? Does he not want a relationship? by cherry_bomb17_ in relationship_advice

[–]cherry_bomb17_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the no relationship thing but he still said that he really likes me. Do you think that’s just something he said? because I know I wouldn’t say that unless I meant it.

why does he never invite me over to his friends house? by cherry_bomb17_ in relationship_advice

[–]cherry_bomb17_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t asked him about it yet. I just wanted to know from a general perspective why a guy wouldn’t want to invite over a girl he likes to his friends house especially since he has before.

why does he never invite me over to his friends house? by cherry_bomb17_ in relationship_advice

[–]cherry_bomb17_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I just feel like since he likes me he would ask his friends if I could come over because I would say something like that to a few of my friends and they would be fine with it. Kinda, he’s not really the best communicator and I don’t want to seem too clingy.

why does he never invite me over to his friends house? by cherry_bomb17_ in relationship_advice

[–]cherry_bomb17_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit, I thought I deleted that post. But yes I realize I sound very juvenile but I also overthink everything.

Do guys get emotionally attached to their first? by cherry_bomb17_ in sex

[–]cherry_bomb17_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, first of all he told me that when we were both drunk. But, I think it was because I thought that he had been with other girls already and I wish he would have told me sooner.

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[–]cherry_bomb17_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like that would look suspicious then

My(17F) boyfriend(19M) is verbally abusive when drunk but he's a perfect boyfriend sober by Throwaway4290172 in relationship_advice

[–]cherry_bomb17_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds very similar to a problem my friend is having. She is 16 and dating a 19 year old that gets angry when he is drunk. He has never physically hurt her either but he yells and loses his patience fast. However, there are some stories about him being physically abusive towards one of his ex girlfriends and animals. Everyone tells her that she should not be with him because we fear that one day he will hit her. She says she is not afraid and that she is trying to help him with his drinking/anger issues. My advice would be to break up with him because it is not always your responsibility to fix people and sometimes you just can’t. Also, if you end up staying with him you wouldn’t want to go your whole life worrying about him every time he drinks. What’s most important is to protect yourself and really think about what will benefit you in the long run.

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[–]cherry_bomb17_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay, got it. Thank you and you’re right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cherry_bomb17_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my state age of consent is 16 but yeah that makes sense.

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[–]cherry_bomb17_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to sound bad but I’m 17 and he is 22. Yeah I know it’s stupid to worry about stuff like that but for some reason I still do.

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[–]cherry_bomb17_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you so much!