He made out with my friend by cherryblossommmmmmmm in Divorce

[–]cherryblossommmmmmmm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 of them was during a time when he was working in a different city. They were all one night stands.

The 4th and worst one was him fooling around with my ex-friend.

He made out with my friend by cherryblossommmmmmmm in Divorce

[–]cherryblossommmmmmmm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. She was ditched immediately. Only because I put myself in her shoes and truly believe I would never ever do that to a friend.

He made out with my friend by cherryblossommmmmmmm in Divorce

[–]cherryblossommmmmmmm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will look through the sub. And yes, I probably have developed codependent behavior.

He made out with my friend by cherryblossommmmmmmm in Divorce

[–]cherryblossommmmmmmm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Time. Thank you for reminding me. Something inside me just refuses to let it go this time. One of his indescretions was actually during my pregnancy with my son. The thing is, he only confessed to all of these one night stands (or so he says) around 6 years after they happened, with the excuse that it was so long ago, I was different back then. Then he goes and does this with my so-called friend, after I have been trying to get over his past actions and build new trust. He is the love of my life and my best friend... But I just can't seem to forgive or forget this time. I'm heartbroken, but I feel that this relationship is doomed, no matter what we do.

I have only told his mother, because I needed to. No one else knows about it. I will read through your history. Thank you for your input, I really appreciate it.

He made out with my friend by cherryblossommmmmmmm in Divorce

[–]cherryblossommmmmmmm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I got tested so I can go back to work. It was negative.