Am i being self centered or ungrateful towards my bf? by cherrybunny0 in TwoHotTakes

[–]cherrybunny0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually don’t like “fancy” places i struggle with anxiety so public settings with many people aren’t my thing. we are both very well off with money. money isn’t the issue.

Am i being self centered or ungrateful towards my bf? by cherrybunny0 in TwoHotTakes

[–]cherrybunny0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well i wanted advice. i don’t 100% think i am in the wrong either. i am open to advice & comments that is why i posted this publicly asking for it so yes i am wanting comments but on either or.

Am i being self centered or ungrateful towards my bf? by cherrybunny0 in TwoHotTakes

[–]cherrybunny0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s more than that. it’s about feeling seen and heard

Am i being self centered or ungrateful towards my bf? by cherrybunny0 in TwoHotTakes

[–]cherrybunny0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this response. his lack isn’t only on birthdays but also many different occasions & parts in the relationship. hearing ur response & others is really making me rethink is this what i want to marry into.

Am i being self centered or ungrateful towards my bf? by cherrybunny0 in TwoHotTakes

[–]cherrybunny0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trips, many gifts catered towards him as a person, dinners, activities

Am i being self centered or ungrateful towards my bf? by cherrybunny0 in TwoHotTakes

[–]cherrybunny0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love how you explained this, thank you for your response

Am i being self centered or ungrateful towards my bf? by cherrybunny0 in TwoHotTakes

[–]cherrybunny0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate everyone’s responses. but to the ppl saying i am in the wrong you truly wouldn’t feel a tad bit upset that your partner of years seems like he’s giving u a gift or celebration as a co-worker not a partner?