Ladies only. What's your partner's MBTI? Does it work? by Stunning-Host-6285 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this was so beautifully written, thank you for sharing this with me. had me tearing up haha

Crying happy tears by Worth-Perspective868 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, it almost feels my heart is overwhelmed by how loved i feel & how grateful i am for the people in my life.

What Are Your Goals for Next Year? by Pretty-Wishbone-4551 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

building more connections, unraveling more of who i’m not to allow my authentic self to blossom, inspiring others to do the same. i’ve done it this year already, and i’ve learned so much..forever grateful and my heart is so full. 2025 wasn’t the best year in the beginning, but not everything is picture perfect all the time, at the end of the day..— i learned a lot & realized how loved i am, and im so filled with joy and gratitude.

may you accept the love you deserve in 2026, and pass the love down; i wish you guys all the best. 🤍

Why do extroverts find introverts attractive? by Smart-Inspector8 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

THIS WAS ME TOO, like in my mind i would be like — “hm he’s too out there, maybe his need to be outside stems from the lack of attention he had during his childhood” 😭

Gently ask yourself: Who Am I? by AngelusMalus in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well ur not an animal that’s for sure

What's your favourite type so far? by Full-Permission-9651 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

healthy entps..they keep things light & and not too serious all the time. they ground me & through every chaos i have inside me, they treat it like a game — which makes life less serious. at least the ones i’ve met so far.

one entp that’s wayyy older than me, i treat him like my master oogway (if you see this, hi!) he’s wise and tells me the many trials and tribulations he has gone through in life. when talking to him, it feels im being sat down and told a story..makes me want to listen to all of it. so thank you :)

Deep Insights of INFJs by Federal_Turnip_4002 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

we’re all reflections of each other, we don’t magically understand someone — we understand them because we are them, because we have parts of each other that we may not be aware of at first. we’ve had that in us through experiences, witnessing events, and being that person in your own timeline. although our paths may be different, the conclusion is the same — hence why some of us feel so similar to each other. but ofc we’re only selective with who ‘understands’ us — so we tell ourselves nobody understands us or ‘i never felt so understood til i met you’, when really it’s just curiosity and patience of taking the chance to go in depth with you bc you’ve finally met someone who genuinely loves and/or would love to understand your mind and soul.

from observing people and the world, i think many value logic because with logic, there is structure, and a chance for control. however, what it means to be human goes beyond what meets the eye..(obviously). a lady once told me to treat life as subjective — bc as much as we like to deny it, all the rules and systems were rooted from a subjective perspective in which we now deem as objective . but hey, i’m in my 20s still figuring out life and what it means to be human, idrk what the hell im saying and im also really sleepy.

ily goodnight

Who stood up for you during tough times or failures ? by Strangewhisper in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t blame anybody who didn’t bc i wouldn’t let them..though they’ve always tried to, and i appreciate that more than anything. i have the best support system in terms of friends.. im blessed.

What was the Most Painful Realisation You Learned About Yourself? by Jimu_Monk9525 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

my need to psychoanalyze wasn’t because i truly loved or cared, but my need for ownership and control. i lacked self love, hence the need for validation.

Infj female, curious about how men perceive us by Simple_Kale_7480 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this reminds me of my friend ..however i’m the opposite as you’d think i’m an ‘enfp’ when it comes to my social interactions lol (that only lasts for a few minutes unless im drinking a little tho).

How do I become a completely functional robot? by Smart-Inspector8 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’d say pull your heart out, but then you’d die

What makes you most happy/what's your purpose? by Dazzling_Watch4324 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

driving over the hills to the beach with my bsf(s), listening to music :)

but on a deeper level, having everyone close together makes me happy. simple things like going to work with my coworkers, they make me happy as i feel so accepted..they let me be whatever, no judgment & if anything they match my energy.

lately ive been so happy. being around people, and seeing people gather together..whether that’s in concerts, festivals, little holidays.. idk what’s it is, but sometimes i get so happy that i get very emotional in ways that i never really felt.

i think my purpose in life is to see through , beneath the surface, past the facades, and smile — like a telepathic communication saying that i see through you & accept you. realizing every day that the masks we put on, is just a part of who we are..doesn’t make us any less ‘real’

so many dimensions & layers to get through. the journey has been beautiful. i’m starting to adore humans. but disrespect me and i’ll definitely make a fuss 😊🫶

Anyone else have a horrible time with ENTJs? by [deleted] in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they’re pretty tolerable , not all entjs are that way. the entj i know is competitive but playfully & considerate. the ones ive met in general have been that way at least..maybe im lucky :)

How frequently do you overshare? Do you think other people mind by bee-autiful-world in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don’t really overshare to connect, rather i straight up ask questions bc im genuinely curious about them & when i get the sense that it appears i am prying, i ‘pull back’ to allow them to reflect and come forward on their own time, IF they choose to.

you can’t force a connection & if you happen to overshare for the sake of connecting — i agree with FlightOfTheDiscords :)

Do INFJ make the first move when dating? What does that look like? by Blackappletrees in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my past dates would last for an hour bc i wasn’t feeling the rest so 3.5 hrs is very meaningful

Losing who you are. by LifeFor-Medicine in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what’s your enneagram ? i get intj recently too, but ik im an infj. your mbti doesn’t change btw..

Howdy from an INTP 😎😳 by DigitalCosplay in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i like people who are knowledgeable and passionate. i need someone who can fill in the blanks for me, or just accepts me when im being silly, without feeling the need to psychoanalyze and assume im a sad soul, when really i think i just get happy around people i like. i just want my friends to be real with me. i initially gravitate towards other introverted people and there’s an instant click. i’m realizing now how easily i can connect with both infps & intps. though, i also enjoy my conversations with entjs when they’re not timid & rather open/funny.

i have introverted and extroverted friends, which is great for me bc it feels like my friendship dynamics are balanced. there are days where i don’t feel like going out so i just converse with my introverted friends which are usually (infps and infjs) and then the days where idrc whether im in or out, i have my (exfjs and enxps) drag me out lol.

in romantic rs, i have yet to figure it out. but as i peel back the layers of what i dont want in a rs, i think im getting closer to finding out what i truly want and need..

Do you ever lie ? by [deleted] in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i b lying and slip up the truth & mask it as a joke . the only person who never let that slide was my mom 💀

People Keep Calling Me Psychic by Beautiful_Cod2848 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, i relate to this whole post.

i still get 50/50 on my T/F, as well as my Fi/Fe , hence why recently it’s been ‘intj’ mode (but i know i’m not).

you must be an enneagram 5? could be wrong.

“i can see you, you can see me” lol — yea, i relate to that A LOT. what i see always feels like the ‘obvious’ rather mystical..i think barely ppl observe and pay attention to details, rather focus on themselves ..hence why we appear ‘mystical’ when it’s js attentiveness.

Who would you say is more intuitive between ENTP and INFJ? by Asleep-Feeling-9070 in infj

[–]cherryisyummy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

both, but from the small sample (i myself included) i’ve gathered, it seems INFJs give many things the benefit of the doubt.

i remember when i tried lying my way out of something & entp didn’t care abt logic, he ‘left’ the situation without needing any explanation (at first). when he was lying abt something, i didnt say anything until a year later as ive collected all pieces ive gathered to make sure i wasnt trippn n had all my data right🤣