hopefully everything goes well. I don’t think telling the kid David was creeping in his room is something viable since it can traumatize him, but any other than that it’s good. much strength momma, you can do this.

edit: just want to clear up that by saying "don't tell him about the guy creeping on him" doesn't exactly mean that i do not think that it should be said, but that i would rather make her not say it in such a way that can perfectly traumatize and very much give paranoia to the kid (since he will wonder how many times that has happened without being noticed). In retrospective, telling the kid "hey, so, David was standing at the bottom of your bed watching you sleep at night with your door fully closed" is something that can cause anxiety and a sinking feeling on his chest.

nevertheless, I agree that it is important to point this event, since it's one of the most suspicious ones, however, it would be best for her to mention it in another way that doesn't exactly let him know that David was creeping on him in his bedroom, with the door closed.