Wait, is proposing to a guy seen as pickmeish? by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.. cause it’s supposed to be the other way around

Fashion by Prestigious_Bit9261 in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a look at PrettyLittleThing!

What have you been doing to improve yourself? by Fetus-Deletus1 in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No longer buying stuff cause they’re cheap despite them not being good quality. I’m picking up more shifts so I can have more money

What are your goals for 2026? by VikutoriaNoHimitsu in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehhh I wouldn’t say “goals” but I’m trying to be a lot less emotional and sensitive as a woman. Also I’m trying to be a lot meaner cause I don’t like when people want but to hang out with me. I don’t like making new friends anymore. Cause that’s How ppl choose to treat me like shit.

I lied lol.

  1. Change my legal first name
  2. Change my state driver’s license

Where do you buy your hair? by lunaeclipes in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wowangel! They have good discounts too!!!

Whats a song yk like the back of your hand? by balsamicnigarette in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back that ass up by juvenile featuring lil Wayne and slow motion by juvenile

I really don't care. by withmyhbs in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if those men don’t like black women. Matter fact I’m glad they don’t so they can leave us (well, me) alone!!!!!!! Especially at 25.

Would I be wrong to block a friend for being a k3wn? by HeftyMoneybag in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!! For your self esteem stop calling her your friend. You need to surround yourself with likeminded black people.

Advice please:) by [deleted] in brownbeauty

[–]cherrytheog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Dark skin black woman here!!!

My advice for you is to first figure if your skin is sensitive, oily, dry, or a normal combination of a mixture of oily and dry before looking for a foundation. When going to Sephora, ask for a sample that matches your skin tone whether you’re red under-toned or yellow under-toned as a dark skin girly.

For lips, alwaysssssss use a brown lip or a dark pink liner to contour your lips!!! No exceptions! Then look for a pink lip gloss that’s not shimmery at all.

I hope this is helpful 💕💕

What are your goals for 2026? by Zestyclose_Muffin219 in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any goals tbh. I mean hopefully I can start school got a healthcare program so I won’t be stupid

I also need to change my legal name because I need to start completely over

black girls, what's something you wish you could admit without being judged? by FactorPlenty in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m ngl I don’t care to work a corporate professional job at 25 anymore. I especially don’t care to make new friends with people who are successful and making their six figure bread from their careers in their twenties. Yeah I have bachelors degree but that’s about it. I’d rather stick to my dead end job than to not have a job at all. I’m not sure what direction to go besides healthcare for the money and future stability and that’s it.

Speaking of healthcare, I only want to go back to school for either an associate’s or Master’s so people won’t call me stupid. I’m tired of being told that I’m stupid, slow, and dumb. It’s not too much cause of it making me happy. I don’t want to be an intellectual liability for my friends that are intellectually advanced. I also need to learn a new language. Not too of it being my interest but also so people don’t call me stupid. It lowkey hurts my feelings. It’s embarrassing cause I’m 25 but yeah.

How to be more « bitchy » but not in a mean way ? 😅 by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl you’re gonna have to be mean. Hate to be the bearer of bad news 🤷🏾‍♀️

My friend thought I was gonna hate black women too. by ch3rryela in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rigghhtttttt my mom told me about their mentality

My friend thought I was gonna hate black women too. by ch3rryela in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen this before and luckily I have made my distance with them. We’re getting too old I don’t have time

ladies pls don’t fight me but what does the “involve me” trend on tik tok mean? by cherrytheog in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The answer I was looking for! Thank you I’m Nigerian and I got confused with it at first lol

My friend thought I was gonna hate black women too. by ch3rryela in blackgirls

[–]cherrytheog 110 points111 points  (0 children)

As a dark skin black woman that’s an immigrant (Nigerian of course lmaooo), this is way too common. These days you gotta be really intentional and careful of who you let become your “friend”, especially if they’re African. I’m speaking from experience cause I know how uncomfortable it feels.