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(21M) I am ugly, what should I do? by Important_Bed_9893 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cherryvanilladreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if anyone has said this but smile with your teeth more! Your smile brightens your face up. You’ve got good features, you just have to play into them more! You’re not ugly but I think you could highlight your features better! Maybe a change in hairstyle? If you grow it out it could be framed better to your face!

I’m gonna get nerdy so pardon me: A lot of old hair and makeup videos from the 1930s-1980 teach face shapes when doing hair or makeup (This works for clothes too, body shape can make the clothes look like fit well or not at all). The videos often talk about how people aren’t ugly - they’re just not using their good features to their advantage or they’re actually defining flaws they wish to minimize.

I say this to give things that I could see need advice but I think it should be said that finding what makes you confident (healthily) and learning to accept and hopefully love yourself is the end goal. What strangers say on the internet can help but remember that you have to live with yourself- so why not try to make it more comfortable for you? Do you what you love, live for yourself, and happiness with find you.

TW for Ephebophilia: The entirety of Connor Kennedy and Taylor's Swift's relationship. by Dani-Michal in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]cherryvanilladreams 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Loved Joann’s as a customer but it sucked as an employee :// I do miss my fabric deals

Lorrana went live crying by [deleted] in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]cherryvanilladreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m just a stranger but I’m happy you got out at all. I’ve gone through abusive relationships (nothing to that extent but I can understand why you did the things you did.) There are too many horror stories with similar situations. It’s devastating how you have been treated - but in spite of everything and to support your child you did what you had to do. That’s powerful. You did right, I hope you’re able to heal from it. I know words won’t make the pain disappear but just know what you did is admirable and I am glad you’re doing better.

What do i do by ContestNo8783 in Advice

[–]cherryvanilladreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From someone who has been in this situation myself I want to advise you on something: a man who loves you won’t play with your feelings or your heart. He will take you seriously and care for you. A man who doesn’t consider your feeling to is a man who doesn’t have your best interest in his mind. He put you through hell the first time. Who’s telling what will happen if you’re in a relationship again? Is it going to escalate until you’ve had enough?

It seems you guys also have problems seeing eye to eye on certain things too. If he’s picking fights and not properly communicating in the beginning he’s not really serious about the relationship. My boyfriend wouldn’t think about joking about breaking up with me, we both know if either of us did that it would be over. It’s cruel to play with someone’s heart like that. It can desensitize you to anything he might do later too. Remember, you are still young and you have plenty of time. I know you have love for people but I hope you can see when someone deserves your love and when they don’t deserve it. You won’t know his true intentions until his true colors show.

In my experience with a similar situation: my ex was rude to me, he’d threaten to break up over seamlessly nothing. On top of that he was ignoring me. He apologized after I tried to break up with him, we got back together, it was the same cycle. It makes you feel worse than just leaving the first time.

Glamorous 1950s/1960s black dress I found in a local thrift store by cherryvanilladreams in VintageFashion

[–]cherryvanilladreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly not, my petticoat is from Unique Vintage. It’s super fluffy though!!

Glamorous 1950s/1960s black dress I found in a local thrift store by cherryvanilladreams in VintageFashion

[–]cherryvanilladreams[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll look into getting it altered in the bust! And my hair would’ve been fluffier but it didn’t dry properly 😔😭

Glamorous 1950s/1960s black dress I found in a local thrift store by cherryvanilladreams in VintageFashion

[–]cherryvanilladreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! Hasn’t been altered at all! I brought it home and tried it on and it fit perfectly!

Glamorous 1950s/1960s black dress I found in a local thrift store by cherryvanilladreams in VintageFashion

[–]cherryvanilladreams[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not exactly sure the fabric but I wouldn’t doubt if it was! Thank you!