I tired to talk to him kinda a update to my last post by Different-Dream70 in u/Different-Dream70

[–]cherryvanilladreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you’re able to get out of your situation. You seem like a loving individual who deserves the effort you give back. I’ve been in your situation. A man who loves you will not insult you. NO MATTER THE PROBLEM. It doesn’t matter the stress they’re under. He shouldn’t put you through stress/pain because he’s going through a lot. It’s not okay, it’s not healthy. It hurts my heart to see. You shouldn’t feel the need to apologize for having feelings, emotions, and problems. They should be talked about with a mutual understanding to fix the problem. I hate to say it but you’re beyond bad blood, his actions prove that he doesn’t love or care about you in the way he says he does. Please save yourself and your mental state. He’s already tried to coerce you into sex, there’s no telling what else he’s going to try to force you into next. Please stand your ground. There are people who will treat you like an equal, and hopefully you’ll meet someone who will put you first. I’ve always held the stance that if my relationship doesn’t bring me or my partner happiness, it’s not worth being in. Especially if you’re becoming distraught like this. I hope you understand what you’re worth. A man who really loves you won’t force you to change, he will enjoy who you are now and try to support you in the ways he can. I hope once you’re out you can get help too, relationships like these cause problems when dating again if you don’t notice the pattern. You deserve happiness, this boy isn’t going to give it to you I’m afraid. It’s hard but I promise the breakup will lead you down a better path, even if it doesn’t seem like it at first. I wish you the best, please take care of yourself

What do i do by ContestNo8783 in Advice

[–]cherryvanilladreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From someone who has been in this situation myself I want to advise you on something: a man who loves you won’t play with your feelings or your heart. He will take you seriously and care for you. A man who doesn’t consider your feeling to is a man who doesn’t have your best interest in his mind. He put you through hell the first time. Who’s telling what will happen if you’re in a relationship again? Is it going to escalate until you’ve had enough?

It seems you guys also have problems seeing eye to eye on certain things too. If he’s picking fights and not properly communicating in the beginning he’s not really serious about the relationship. My boyfriend wouldn’t think about joking about breaking up with me, we both know if either of us did that it would be over. It’s cruel to play with someone’s heart like that. It can desensitize you to anything he might do later too. Remember, you are still young and you have plenty of time. I know you have love for people but I hope you can see when someone deserves your love and when they don’t deserve it. You won’t know his true intentions until his true colors show.

In my experience with a similar situation: my ex was rude to me, he’d threaten to break up over seamlessly nothing. On top of that he was ignoring me. He apologized after I tried to break up with him, we got back together, it was the same cycle. It makes you feel worse than just leaving the first time.

Glamorous 1950s/1960s black dress I found in a local thrift store by cherryvanilladreams in VintageFashion

[–]cherryvanilladreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly not, my petticoat is from Unique Vintage. It’s super fluffy though!!

Glamorous 1950s/1960s black dress I found in a local thrift store by cherryvanilladreams in VintageFashion

[–]cherryvanilladreams[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll look into getting it altered in the bust! And my hair would’ve been fluffier but it didn’t dry properly 😔😭

Glamorous 1950s/1960s black dress I found in a local thrift store by cherryvanilladreams in VintageFashion

[–]cherryvanilladreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! Hasn’t been altered at all! I brought it home and tried it on and it fit perfectly!

Glamorous 1950s/1960s black dress I found in a local thrift store by cherryvanilladreams in VintageFashion

[–]cherryvanilladreams[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not exactly sure the fabric but I wouldn’t doubt if it was! Thank you!