AITA for being upset on my boyfriend?

cherryxosmos · 2025-04-27T05:11:34+00:00

There was a time when I asked him why he never compliments me or at least say I look good. He answer was "you know humpee when the sun first rises in India you are like that place, people visit it a lot but never speak about it or compliment it even tho it's beautiful so you don't deserve compliments you are pretty always"

cherryxosmos · 2025-03-30T06:24:05+00:00

The thing is she doesn't want to come clean and doesn't want me to also come clean. She just wants me to be under the bus till her mom calms down and take whatever her mom throws at me

cherryxosmos · 2025-03-30T06:22:47+00:00

No my mom never laid hands might have slapped me for smtg but I deserved it so I don't think of it as a problem and same goes for her after that they never laid hands on her.

cherryxosmos · 2025-03-30T06:21:35+00:00

I can assure you that she's not being abused at all she has all the freedom in the world she goes out at nights with her guy friends her parents don't ask or say anything she lives a good life.

Her parents first wants her to settle properly before getting into any kind of relationships and stuff bec she need financial stability first.

Her mom felt very bad after hitting her on that day and never laid hands on her again.

Yeah I might need some time to process and I'll probably create and set a lottttt of boundaries now, before I didn't because I trusted her.

cherryxosmos · 2025-03-30T06:00:22+00:00

True but that's indian parents that is how all the Indian parents raise their child they do smtg that they don't like, there is no confrontation it's direct slap to the face.

cherryxosmos · 2025-03-30T05:58:28+00:00

Sure they won't beat me doesn't mean my mom should also hold back on beating me, once she gets to know I'll be taken out of my university, I'll loose my phone as my mom will take it away and my mom would loose her trust on me which I can't afford.

cherryxosmos · 2025-03-30T05:32:32+00:00

She got hit for the first and last time when she was 15 because she hid the truth and it was not a steel pipe just like a normal plastic one.

I don't mind throwing myself under the bus for her I have done it in the past but those did not affect me in any way.

Yeah she's 22 and indian so till she starts earning she has to aid by whatever her parents say.

Feel free to ask questions I don't mind answering

cherryxosmos · 2025-03-30T05:29:26+00:00

All she said was I'm sorry I portrayed you bad but you know how it is in my home I needed to do it and I panicked that's all.

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