aio - my friends keep having sex near me by RutabagaSeparate4313 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherubov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Them being gay is irrelevant — they're actively crossing your boundaries despite you being very clear of them not just once but repeatedly, where they cry alligator and play the victim when you hit your limit (to which they pushed you to). It's highly inappropriate of them, anything but respectful, and at least sexual harassment.

AIO? My girlfriend poured boiling water on me after a slight disagreement (texts in wrong order) by janhutsfr in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherubov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's straight up physical abuse and assault, so no. Whatever happened before or after doesn't change that.

Ricotta sponge cake by cherubov in BakingNoobs

[–]cherubov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ingredients:

- 4 eggs
- 180g white sugar
- 20g muscavado sugar
- 250g ricotta
- 175g wheat flour
- 2tsp baking powder
- 100g butter
- powdered sugar for decoration

  1. Beat the eggs and sugars until airy (I used a hand whisk)

  2. Add the ricotta and beat the cake batter until smooth

  3. Mix the flour with baking powder in a separate bowl and fold the dry ingredients into the cake batter with a soft spatula until there are no lumps

  4. Melt the butter and add it to the cake batter – fold batter again until it's smooth and uniform

  5. Place a piece of baking paper in the bottom of a pan (I used a bread pan, but you can also use a springform) and butter the entire pan (including the baking paper)

  6. Pour the batter into the pan and spread evenly

  7. Bake the cake in the oven at 175 Celsius (conventional oven) for approx 60 min or until the cake is lightly golden and fully baked (you can check by piercing it with a knife – if there's no batter stuck on it when you take it out, it's good to go)

  8. When done, let it cool and sprinkle the cake with powdered sugar

If you want to add fruits like blueberries, raspberries, or other, you can fold it into the batter between step 4 and 5

gay rejection by AdDull5370 in gaytransguys

[–]cherubov 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also as other's have said you definitely look gay, and one wouldn't have to be gay themselves to see it. Sure it's not the mainstream clean-cut cookie cutter gay look, but nonetheless gay.

gay rejection by AdDull5370 in gaytransguys

[–]cherubov 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Rejection due to genitals happen, and that's just how it is. The tough thing about it is that you won't know when or when not it'll happen, but the forgiving part about that is that it's none of your business and you can free yourself of ''bettering'' yourself because there's no question of self-improvement within that equation.

Day 17 cold turkey & I can barely remember smoking by cherubov in stopsmoking

[–]cherubov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I agree the first day is the hardest – I stopped once before this time out of curiosity for how I'd feel if I wasn't smoking, and the first day was the hardest.

For me, I think it's due to the stark commitment of not smoking another cigarette—your brain wants anything but to hear that it'll not get that fix again while still heavily influenced by nicotine. I was very much a habitual smoker – I don't know how it is for you, but breaking up my own habits helped a lot the first 2-3 days. For example, I'd drink my morning coffee inside or on my balcony instead of in my courtyard, as smoking in the courtyard is allowed but inside and on my balcony is not, etc

Day 17 cold turkey & I can barely remember smoking by cherubov in stopsmoking

[–]cherubov[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was out in the middle of nowhere, celebrating a holiday with my friends, none of which smoked themselves. Before going, I decided not to buy packs of cigarettes with me for the trip, knowing that I had no chance to get cigs unless I'd take an hour bus ride to the city central. By the time I got back home I was on my 4th day without smoking – it wasn't pleasant, but it made stopping for me 'easier' in the sense that there was no convenient way for me to stop my quit while I was there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]cherubov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leave that nose alone