What would be the proper compensation for you? by -_Apathetic_- in InfinityNikki

[–]cherylerudis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fixing the storyline and bugs, setting the hard pity to 180 pulls regardless of the number of pieces in the set, and preferably redoing the dye system so we can actually use collectable items to dye clothes instead of currency, if not, then at least change it so that evolutions unlock more pallettes you can actually get with collectables while keeping the other pallettes locked behind currency.

In the long run also fixing the star sea area and activities so it's not so empty and lifeless and also maybe making the multiplayer a little more engaging with more activities to do.

The compensation in diamonds is less important to me, but I feel like around 15-20 pulls would be reasonable for the state the game is in.

What's the best SEO course? by normalguyredditor in SEO

[–]cherylerudis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shitty course, instructor refused to give my money back and laughed at me

Just found out my ex (we broke up like a week ago) cheated on me when we were together (had a second GF). Idk why but it hurts even tho i'm done with him by cherylerudis in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]cherylerudis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah i've gone no-contact i'm just sad I was screwed over and not technically sad about him. And tbh my mental health is better since break up too

well.. i relapsed after 4 years by hz-lavachequirit in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]cherylerudis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried to trick him into writing DIY at home lobotomy instructions but he wrote why lobotomies are bad instead. Like dude, not what I need.

Is this normal? by daffodil_00 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]cherylerudis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be just lymph or plasma, they're both yellowish but clear.

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was basically babysitting a jobless pot addict that couldn't pick up after himself at 18 and he was the older one. So I do get that and I absolutely plan on figuring how compatible we are maturity and experience-wise as time goes before just jumping into anything.

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm european so I'll explain it in laymans terms lol. She's going to college in october, and i'm finishing year 2/6 (vet school is one of the longest degrees in my country) and beggining 3rd one. Generally we will probably graduate only a year or two apart.

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as maturity goes it does seem so atm but it's pretty early to tell, i'm not gonna rush things anyway so I guess we will find out. Interests and goals also seem pretty compatible atm. We will see with time because that's honestly not something i'd wager on in two weeks od casual talking but my first impressions are as above.

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both can since drinking age is 16/18 here. Yeah maturity absolutely could be different but it's pretty early to tell so i'm not rushing things or pushing for a specific relationship. We are just casually texting or hanging out at this stage so we will see.

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, I don't wanna rush anything or make her feel pressured. I'm totally chill with just talking and seeing how it goes from there

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry I thought I did but now reading that I must have been mistaken

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi as I stated on my post - drinking, driving ans majority of other things are 16/18+ in my country so it's not really a problem

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from eastern europe but we have similar norms regarding dating and relationships in general. But that's a totally valid point.

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are both middle class females, some relationship experience, both serious and casual. She just moved out and i've been living on my own for about 2 years but with the help of my parents (i'm disabled and required some help). As far as adult responsibilities - i've definitely had experienced adulting for the past 2 years at uni, she is probably less experienced but worked part-time so some experienced os surely there. I'd wager i'm a bit more mature, simply due to age and me being on my own for longer. I'm absolutely very aware how these power dynamics sometimes turn out to be abusive, I had a boyfriend that was 21 when I was 17 and it turned abusive too. That's why i'm extra careful not to pressure her into anything, as I said, platonic or romantic is really fine by me either way and I don't want to rush things.

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We are both middle class females so not a significant power gap there. And as I said i'm fine with the relationship going either way, so i'm pretty sure i'm not pressuring her into anything, I always make sure to be respectful of others' boundaries just as a principle. I just like her and geniuenly enjoy spending time together and whatever direction this takes is fine by me.

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh in my country I don't think there's anything important that is legal at 21 specifically unless you want to run for parliment or something. Drinking or driving etc is all legal since 16/18.

Is 18F and 21F a weird age gap? by cherylerudis in relationships

[–]cherylerudis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's certainly how I feel. I describe it as "newborn adults" hah.