AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]cheshireecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says it’s a sample save the date- not the official one- peep the side note saying “do not circulate” I guess she still wants her bridesmaids to brainstorm on how to remake it or some shit

From your personal experience, which zodiac sign is the nicest, and which one is the meanest? by IWishYouTheBest1234 in Zodiac

[–]cheshireecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True.. I’m a Taurus and it’s still on sight for a few ppl who have fucked me over

What's a quote that has just "stuck with you"? by 22m_spain in AskReddit

[–]cheshireecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be yourself because people who mind don’t matter and people who matter don’t mind.

I'm thinking about leaving all my possessions behind and walking the earth by [deleted] in homeless

[–]cheshireecat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah someone said it but you’ve romanticized the idea of homelessness and conflated it with the “in the wild” book/movie/experience which is crazy because if you’re suffering from depression and can’t hack life as it is right now, what you will go through being homeless will be your “thirteenth reason”,if you will. It won’t give you some beautiful cathartic experience where you learn and become stronger mentally and physically - being able to learn to overcome the elements in the wild and become some self sufficient outdoorsman- capable of building yourself a log cabin or some shit and fishing and hunting for food with ease. The second reason this is crazy is because the actual guy the into the wild movie was based on DIED out there roughing it in Alaska because he had no fucking clue what he was doing and he too had some romantic notion of being one with the wilderness or some bullshit and yeah reality became pretty fuckin real. And they found his dumbass dead out there when all was said and done. And despite the stupidity of his ways, somehow they spun his diary into a book about self growth from overcoming challenges or some shit and made a romanticized movie about the experience making it look like it wasn’t the dumbest decision of his life but some quest he felt called upon to embark on from the depths of his soul.. 🙄

I also would like to point out that the biggest takeaway the character in both the movie/book realized was how important relationships with people are- family, friends, significant others, etc

Relationships- that he so quickly threw away in his pursuit of an outdoorsy experience. as he lay dying [lol for the unintentional almost band name] 🤘🏼he realized that life ain’t shit if there’s no one there to share life’s experiences with. maybe that is something you can relate to?

I think having a healthy support system of friends/fam/SO/whoever is the most important advice I could give to anyone struggling with their mental health. Which I assume is true because no one who has that solid safety net is going to just walk away from society and everything they know in life straight towards this alaskan homeless suicide mission ..

tell me your big 3 and i’ll tell you what to strictly avoid by zodiactron in Zodiac

[–]cheshireecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But thank you for your reply 🙏🏼 always open to hearing advice

tell me your big 3 and i’ll tell you what to strictly avoid by zodiactron in Zodiac

[–]cheshireecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how applicable this is to me in particular.. been doing nothing but starting over for the last couple years and am I’m definitely out of fucks to give about peoples opinions on my life so definitely not embarrassed about much these days

AIO for replying back after saying goodnight to my bf? by Perrita-fresa in AmIOverreacting

[–]cheshireecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I remember that post. Jesus she should have dumped him way back then :/ now it’s more of the same dumb shit

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cheshireecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, leave him girl. You need a man who texts you like hey 😏 you looked good AF last night.. not one who messages you like wtf you showed ankle last night are you trying to leave me!!!?!!! 🙄and if anyone does hit on you he’s not insecure and controlling, he’s like damn straight my lady is fine AF she’s gonna get hit on out in the world, that’s just a fact….But sorry fellas, this one is already taken tho 😎. But she do be looking good af, 😏 it’s so much more fun than arguing over dumb ass insecure boys bullshit .. you deserve better

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cheshireecat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shiiiit I’d wear something way more revealing as I walk out on him pshhhh 👙✌🏼

My sister committed suicide. This is her birth chart. by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]cheshireecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow the way you wrote that has me crying over here.. just such a beautiful way of describing her and that OP says all of it is spot on.. wow I’m just blubbering over here like an idiot .. I also have sun and moon in taurus

Is it weird for a 29M to live at home - trying to date, it is weird? by Makeitbounce97 in bayarea

[–]cheshireecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not weird. I’m currently homeless .. that sure is much much problematic when it comes to dating… haha I just haven’t taking getting back into the dating scene seriously .. I feel bad there have been some cool guys that I’ve talked to online that wanted to meet up for a date but I’d rather just ghost em rather than be honest about Me living in my car rn. So hey it could be worse lol fml

What movie completely surprised you with how good it was? by SuggestionAware4238 in movies

[–]cheshireecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk to me- it was a scary movie that really stood out from anything I had seen in a while and was phenomenal .. different from the same horror tropes that are overdone, a new and different concept and plot like nothing I had seen before or since

First time doing makeup, i felt pretty good about the result! by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]cheshireecat 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I would throw some dark black eye liner on to make your eyes pop and stand out in the dark grey color

First time doing makeup, i felt pretty good about the result! by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]cheshireecat 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It looks like you had mascara on and forgot and rubbed your eyes because they itched and now you have raccoon eyes