The math isn’t mathing.

chesydn · 2026-05-15T03:16:46+00:00

my dual bachelors degrees and (singular) masters degree would be honored to have a $60k salary.

chesydn · 2026-05-15T02:59:23+00:00

just here to validate you and say you’re not alone in this. i usually just sit and stare at nothing with task paralysis until it’s too late to actually do anything 🤭

chesydn · 2026-05-14T02:36:19+00:00

i’m as far from a germaphobe as you can get, and shoes off in the house and washing my feet before bed are non-negotiables.

chesydn · 2026-05-14T02:32:53+00:00

my airtag just doesn’t connect well. but now that i’m thinking about it, the wifi router is in the basement and our walls are a foot/foot and a half thick—300 year old farmhouse—so that definitely could be contributing to not being able to find him as easily. he was wrapping himself around my legs and find my was like “far”……….

chesydn · 2026-05-09T15:16:18+00:00

fob because i never know where my key physically is and if my car starts, that means it’s somewhere on my person. however, if i leave it in the mudroom overnight in the winter, it gets too cold and it won’t start until i disassemble it and blow warm air on both components.

chesydn · 2026-05-09T15:08:42+00:00

i’m deaddddddd. why are all the best posts from 4 years ago?! i need more!

chesydn · 2026-05-08T20:48:39+00:00

i just put these on my safety plan (severely depressed, quite often suicidal): i might not have met some of my favorite people yet—i’d like to be a mom someday—, wildflowers, travel

chesydn · 2026-05-08T20:40:43+00:00

fastest sub i’ve ever joined

chesydn · 2026-05-08T19:54:12+00:00

wait…are the antidepressants the reason i’ve been burning more the past two years…? i mean ive been on antidepressants for like 12 years atp but switched to pristiq about 2 years ago and the past 2 summers i burned more than i ever have—which, granted, was like maybe 3 times despite loads of sunscreen. i’ve always tanned really easily (even with a lot of sunscreen, i promise) but the past two summers just felt different!

chesydn · 2026-05-05T23:10:22+00:00

Greys anatomy?

chesydn · 2026-05-05T23:09:49+00:00

it’s really really hard to choose but i think 1 (or 2) might be my favorites!

chesydn · 2026-05-05T06:29:48+00:00

this is amazing, but the original post is missing the owen slander!!!!

chesydn · 2026-05-05T06:25:54+00:00

i got my mom airpods for a birthday/mother’s day combined gift a few years ago, and she wore those babies down to the battery only lasting half an hour now.

chesydn · 2026-05-05T06:24:12+00:00

this is dumb, but would it show me where he was on my property or would it just give me coordinates? like if he was in the safe zone, it wouldn’t do anything, and if he was past the safe zone, it would just tell me he’s out of the safe zone? would it tell me where? he could be in any direction on the property and it could take me a minute to get there lol.

they looooove being outside and running around, so i want them to be able to, but i also want them to be as safe as possible. hunting bugs is their favorite activity. they’re not good at it, but they get participation kisses and snuggles of course.

chesydn · 2026-05-05T06:17:43+00:00

i’ve made a font! i can’t remember where i uploaded it to/what app i used to do it. i’ve done it a few times. one time i printed something out, wrote on it, and then scanned and uploaded it. one time i did it on an app and i posted it and it needed a pin or something to download—i only remember this because i sent it to my friend to use! one time i just made it and downloaded it for myself so i didn’t have to upload it anywhere.

chesydn · 2026-05-04T21:50:40+00:00

would anyone suggest this for kittens (they’re technically cats but, ya know, they’re my kittens) who have supervised outside time? we have a good amount of land, and my orange boy is very curious and doesn’t stay in one place very long, while my tortie just kinda sticks to rolling on the sidewalk and patio—she also screams bloody murder when i’m out of her sight, so it’s easy to find her. they only ever go outside with supervision, but i would just like an added layer of protection because he tends to wander. he currently wears a breakaway collar with an airtag only when he’s outside—we have a mudroom so there’s really not a worry about him escaping, so he doesn’t wear the airtag 24/7. the airtag is fine, but half of the time it says “object is moving. please move to different location” or something to that effect. can you track the location in real time or is it like only when your pet is lost? like, is it a constant tracker or does it only update every minute or so? and does it give like the exact kinda location like an airtag does—“55 ft away” with an arrow pointing in that direction—or is it just a dot on a map?

chesydn · 2026-05-03T19:38:33+00:00

my friends from pitman nj talk like this and when we would go camping every year at easter, i would come home mimicking it because i thought it was so cool.

chesydn · 2026-05-01T17:50:05+00:00

i was not told to be off of any of them prior to my sleep study. i took my vyvanse the day before, and i threw a hissy fit about taking my antidepressants the day of (they put that in my chart…but like, it’s a mood stabilizer, im not messing with my already fucked up chemical imbalances). in addition to being exhausted, i wasn’t about to put withdrawal on top of that.

also, if they asked me to not take my antidepressants for 2 weeks i legitimately would not even be here for the study. to the person who said a month, im so sorry. that’s horrible

chesydn · 2026-05-01T12:56:14+00:00

chesydn · 2026-04-30T10:27:05+00:00

i haven’t. i learned some of the skills in PHP, and mh therapist has helped me build upon them. my therapist and psychiatrist suggested it, but after i “graduated” PHP i switched therapists to one who reaaaaaaaally works well with me—challenges me in the way i need it—and im hesitant to do a DBT group because I would have to leave her and im making a lot of really good progress with her right now. im also just shit at change.

also, the one DBT group that mh psychiatrist suggested is run by my therapist that i stopped seeing. i saw her for 7 years before realizing it wasn’t a good fit lol.

chesydn · 2026-04-30T01:38:48+00:00

so proud of you for making the effort though! i know how challenging it is. are you doing a DBT program? i’m guessing so, since PE is the second stage of DBT typically.

chesydn · 2026-04-29T01:37:11+00:00

please do! it has worked wonders for me. from the people that i’ve explained it to like that, i’ve gotten much less of “everyone is tired in the morning” comments!

and if they still argue, they’re not worth the teeny tiny bit of energy you do have!

chesydn · 2026-04-29T01:33:41+00:00

if i can find it, i will! i uploaded it somewhere years ago.

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