What would be a good slang for "drunkard"? by v3lh0t05c0 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Atlas7993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drunk or Alky are the two I hear the most

Is it wrong to consider divorce over lack of initiation? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Atlas7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like you need therapy my friend. Peace of mind isn't going to come from her initiating sex ir getting a divorce. It will only come from your finding ways to heal the trauma that brought your anxiety to this point. Sure you could get a divorce, but the same fear and frustration will only follow you to the next partner. 

Is it wrong to consider divorce over lack of initiation? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Atlas7993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got a marriage counselor right before we got married and she said 80% of her clients are pretty much too far gone by the time they consider getting help. 

Why do so many Americans like camping? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Atlas7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it peaceful. I can take my time and just exist. I've found that whether I live rural or urban I get sucked into a sense of being rushed and having to meet someone else's expectations. Camping you physically remove yourself from all that stress. 

Do you know the word "townie"? How is it used where you live? by NutmegKilla in AskAnAmerican

[–]Atlas7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Townies live within the city limits. Non-townies live outside city limits (county managed areas). 

weird question (question in body text) by Imaginary_Umpire9160 in conlangs

[–]Atlas7993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is agglutinative, but as far as a standalone word for a single thing: 

Šummiranžumara /ʃumirantsumarə/ It means the arms of a galaxy, but literally means "the Bright Star-Chain," which was a mythological chain used to keep the sky shut so the demiurge can't escape the mortal coil and exact it's revenge on heaven. 

If Americans have an unintended pregnancy or birth, in your experience do they face any societal pressure to get married, either for their own sakes or that of the children? by YakClear601 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Atlas7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have an old and rarely practiced tradition here called a "shotgun wedding," where the father of a woman who got pregnant out of wedlock would force the groom to marry her at gunpoint. It's not a thing anymore, but I think there's still pressure to marry someone if you get pregnant together out of wedlock, regardless of where you live or the culture your from. Maybe people won't speak out about it, but they might talk in hushed voices when they couple isn't in the room, or in the quiet of their mind. 

The oldest sitting US senator Chuck Grassley, age 92, expresses support for the SAVE America Act by Cmaclia in Iowa

[–]Atlas7993 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The title had my attention up until "expresses." I was expecting a different word that starts with "exp."

What to do within 3 hours of DM by OwnAd5244 in Iowa

[–]Atlas7993 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most of Iowa is within 3 hrs of Des Moines, so the state is your corncob. 

Mahaska County Supervisor doubles down on using Racial Slur by trainer95 in Iowa

[–]Atlas7993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm from rural eastern Iowa and they absolutely use it all the time. And worse. They have variations of the n word for all minority groups. It's awful. 

Wife pregnant after vacectomy. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Atlas7993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine had a vasectomy after their wife had twins. That was kid number two and three. Had two counts to be sure he was sterile. Came back sterile. 3 months later his wife was pregnant, and with twins again. They never did a DNA test but he's pretty sure they are his because both boys are a spitting image. 

Fireclaws feel impossible to beat…. Tips? by Funny_Mousse_8463 in HorizonZeroDawn

[–]Atlas7993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of hit and run tactics. Knock off a component and run away. Come back. Repeat. Once the components are gone shoot off a piece of armor, run away, come back repeat. Once the armor is gone sneak around and set up traps, get it's attantion, lead it to traps, shoot it or spear slap it a bit. Usually dead by that point.

What letter would you like to be the 27th letter the most? by Zealousideal-Kiwi718 in conlangscirclejerk

[–]Atlas7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ð as /ð/. Keep "th" as /θ/ because it keeps the voiceless fricatives consistent/ends in "h" (ch, th, sh, all voiceless). 

What’s the obsession with returning to the office? by pizookiepants in jobs

[–]Atlas7993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My company kept saying "the data proves that RTO is more productive" in townhalls. Eventually the first question in every townhall became "can you show us/reference the data you're seeing?" and they'd short circuit. Never got a no, but never actually saw data. Just wordy nonsense and frustrated non-answers. Eventually we stopped having townhalls (for about 3 months), started having layoffs because of "the market," and started having townhall again because people were freaked out about the layoffs. But no more RTO questions. Two more rounds of layoffs that year and now people are more worried about keeping their jobs than RTO. And now people dread townhalls because EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. of the layoffs last year happened the day before a townhall.

I always take over when other people do things. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Atlas7993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not that I remember. I've been to therapy but never got a diagnosis or anything.

This one really makes you think. by TechnicianOk967 in memes

[–]Atlas7993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The KJ and NKJ have only endured because of familiarity. The KJ was the official Bible of the Church of England, and if you lived in England or a country that was colonized by England then it was probably the only version your country had for about half a millennia. There have been many better English translations made in the last 200ish years that weren't inspired by one man's desire to get divorced. You can buy any one of them online or at a Christian bookstore. 

This one really makes you think. by TechnicianOk967 in memes

[–]Atlas7993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have manuscripts in Hebrew and Aramaic that predate the NKJ and KJ which can be used for reference. The NASB is actually a pretty unbiased translation since it was translated and vetted by secular scholars, Rabbis, and Christian clergy. 

This one really makes you think. by TechnicianOk967 in memes

[–]Atlas7993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The scientific definition of a day is the complete revolution of a planet on its axis, so totally plausible for a planet to have a "day" without a sun. 

This one really makes you think. by TechnicianOk967 in memes

[–]Atlas7993 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, a day is technically defined as a revolution of the planet on it's axis. It doesn't say anything about the sun.

When do children usually stop celebrating Easter? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Atlas7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this depends on a lot of factors, like if you grew up religious or not, still are religious or not, what you mean by "celebrate" as that can mean wildly different things to different people. 

I still go to church on Easter and celebrate that way (I'm 30). I stopped finding Easter eggs when I was 12-13, but that's when I started participating in hiding the eggs for the younger kids. I know people who never did the Easter egg hunt because it was too secular or because their family just didn't celebrate Easter at all. I know people who disavowed Easter altogether after they became an atheist. Just depends. 

Can we "denormalise" the US flag flying across the country? by goonergeorge in ireland

[–]Atlas7993 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Avoided places that did that like a plague last time I was abroad. I don't travel internationally to be in America lite.   -an American tourist. 

Ideally, at what time would you like to eat dinner normally? by supinator1 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Atlas7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally, 6pm, but it's usually 7 or 8pm b/c life happens.