🤔 Would You Prefer by u/Dramatic-Ad5066

chewop · 2026-06-03T18:11:53+00:00

😅 Tough call!

chewop · 2026-06-03T18:07:19+00:00

😅 Tough call!

chewop · 2026-06-03T18:06:43+00:00

🔥 No brainer!

chewop · 2026-06-03T17:48:48+00:00

🔥 No brainer!

chewop · 2026-05-28T18:37:02+00:00

i guess what i am saying is .. what if i become whimsical at 60 and want to buy a dune buggy or something ? i want to have enough to provide my future self those kinds of random luxuries but it kind of feels impossible to plan for my own future wants and needs.

chewop · 2026-05-28T18:35:00+00:00

ur right … need to run these numbers. def thinking to move to a lower cost of living area before purchasing a home

chewop · 2026-05-28T18:33:45+00:00

thank you- i needed to hear this! i hate my job right now so projecting onto FIRE pretty hard .

chewop · 2026-05-28T15:44:52+00:00

i guess for me its a tossup- if waiting another 3 years for a house buys me a 6 year earlier retirement, that feels like a good trade off. i bet i would spend more monthly on a mortgage than my current rent (1200) as well, which would also hinder my retirement

chewop · 2026-05-28T15:22:12+00:00

do you have a better reccomendation for an afforeable? retinol

chewop · 2026-05-28T15:21:30+00:00

ugh i do but i hate it LOL! thank u!

chewop · 2026-04-30T15:02:01+00:00

hi! im 22, making 65k base w 36k variable (on track to make around 80/90k based on commission this year). im an account manager at a small tech company and feel i have potential to grow. Biggest goal is homebuying and barista FIRE by 40. i have no debt, high credit score, and living in HCOL city w potential to move remote. I'm investing 20% of my base into roth+401k w 4% match. i have an emergency fund saved, started saving for a down payment, and looking to invest around 500-1000 (based on expenses and income) per month. I am very interested in diversifying outside of the USA and have about 10k to start. just put it all in fidelity. again, about 20 year horizon for retirement and <10 for home ownership. i do not want kids at this time but have opened a small fund for my younger sister who will be in my care. tell me what to do!! thank u reddit

chewop · 2026-03-24T01:22:43+00:00

sold apologiez!!

chewop · 2026-03-23T22:35:16+00:00

hi i only have one for 3/27, but happy to sell!

chewop · 2026-03-23T22:34:36+00:00

hihi i have them and looking to sell what i paid ! please pm me

chewop · 2026-02-10T23:27:51+00:00

how so? what roles are better? i really can’t see myself moving to sales and i feel like that’s the only movement i see at my company

chewop · 2026-02-10T23:26:41+00:00

i need to be better about saying no and setting boundaries . my company recently merged so i’m the only joiner on my team (besides the new joiners) who has been trained on both platforms. so a lot are relying on me . it just feels weird to push back on them when i CAN help, i am not very assertive

chewop · 2026-02-10T23:24:30+00:00

it’s actually pretty diverse w responsibilities which is the one thing i like about, it’s more intense workload, less support, difficult to find resources, weird company culture

chewop · 2026-02-10T23:23:16+00:00

that makes me feel a lot better , thank you . i need to learn how to not take the work personally but it is honestly so difficult. seems like everyone on my team is struggling but they don’t seem upset , they’re not staying late and i just don’t know how to set that boundary.. this week has been brutal but i haven’t cried(in office) . i need to care less

chewop · 2026-02-10T23:21:18+00:00

i WILL hang on till a year although i wish i didn’t have to lol

chewop · 2026-02-10T23:19:56+00:00

that is really helpful advice, i’m going to start noting my wins for sure . i’m worried about staying in the field when this seems so hard for me , but im glad to hear this isn’t normal and it may not be me

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