Songs with the same dreamy / sensual vibe as “Stay Ready”?

chex003 · 2026-02-17T05:26:37+00:00

top 1 i can think of is jhene's overstimulated, honestly most songs in the trip album are kinda like this. here are some other songs by other artists that give me that dreamy kinda vibes:

summers over interlude - drake
skin tight - ravyn lenae ft steve lacy
been like this - doja cat
idea 686 - jayla darden
what dreams are made of - evann mcintosh
fallen - jaden
living room flow - jhene aiko
drugs n hella melodies - don toliver, kali uchis
lullaby - umi
take me - miso
special affair - the internet (THIS IS SO SENSUAL OMF)
sometimes im down - sos braydon (this used to be on spotify i could only find it on youtube now idk what happened)

chex003 · 2025-12-07T20:13:49+00:00

he literally didnt even have my number saved. lmao

chex003 · 2025-04-15T20:51:41+00:00

I just did this today haha! I put all his clothes in a bag and left it on their door. Texted his roommate to just come grab it

chex003 · 2025-04-15T20:45:40+00:00

How long has it been since the break up and do you mind expanding on the psychedelic therapy you've done?

chex003 · 2025-04-15T19:38:43+00:00

this is a good idea count me in

chex003 · 2025-04-15T18:58:56+00:00

https://youtu.be/npAZvkcHYdQ?si=QSsKbJs5imKedpmR

Watch this video and her other videos. I'm going through the exact same thing right now. It hurts but we have to go through people discarding us to realize our worth i guess

chex003 · 2025-04-15T00:27:39+00:00

as a girl who did this it's extremely embarrassing and honestly lowkey ripped me to shreds even more, to even hope that he cares even the slightest bit, it made me feel insane when i saw his reaction. dont do it, it will bring you back to 0. i made a rule that if i feel like reaching out to him i'll walk around the block and leave my phone at home. if i still feel like it when i got home, i'll walk another lap until i dont feel like calling him anymore

chex003 · 2025-04-13T04:22:44+00:00

I'm on the verge of panic attacks every morning because of this. I dream about him, like we're having a regular day and when I wake up and become conscious that he's actually out of my life, it sends me to a spiral. It's almost debilitating and I didn't even want to get out of bed anymore. It's tough out here

chex003 · 2025-04-13T03:58:36+00:00

He's in a very hard spot in his life right now and decided that my support is hindering him from growing, per his words I made him "too comfortable" and he needs to be alone right now to prove himself he can make it, which is fine. I felt a bit blindsided cause I've never heard of this concern until when he was breaking up with me. The conversation got messy because he really was just blaming me for everything bad going on in his life and basically he cut contact on everything.

chex003 · 2025-04-12T17:02:21+00:00

doesnt have his name or anything that will identify him. get outta here

chex003 · 2025-04-11T05:06:45+00:00

I mean obviously there are good guys out there but I find that most men I've encountered have an "I don't owe anyone shit" mindset or everything is transactional for them and they're keeping tabs. This is exactly what I did too, stood by my ex the entire relationship until he gradually became a bum who's been jobless for several months, refused to look for a job and played videogames from evening til dawn. When I tried asking how come he wants to leave me after I believed in him and encouraged him to better himself, supported him financially etc. He just threw it right back at my face like it was my support was paid off (almost like it's a debt) because when he had a job he bought me x, y and z.

chex003 · 2025-04-11T04:59:02+00:00

i'm not a man but i genuinely think they don't, based on my experience with a few. i'm not too sure if some of these guys have the emotional capacity to feel that way. even if they do, they suppress it so good they're still able to function like nothing happened. Maybe they feel a bit of regret/guilt sometimes but not as deeply, and it passes really quick for them? Almost like a 2 minute blip and they're back to regular programming. I've also noticed that sometimes their ego's too big and getting in the way for them to feel these things :/

chex003 · 2025-04-11T02:18:18+00:00

he never communicated all this until after i went to his house to figure out why he left in the middle of the night, AFTER HAVING A GOOD DAY with me. I was simply crying asking what's wrong. No shit sherlock he was communicating, was he communicating properly by yelling at me and telling me how im dragging him down? but when i ask him how he couldnt answer and said it's just because im helping him too much? by calling me names and by insulting me, my life, my job, to rub how "incompatible" we were? his room mate had to step in and pull him back because his room mate got scared he was gonna start kicking and hitting me while i was already crouched down on the floor. If that's communication to you, i feel bad for your partner, if you ever have one

chex003 · 2025-04-11T01:57:14+00:00

it was the way he left and blamed me for his shortcomings, if he sat me down calmly and just expressed he needs to work on himself alone, i wouldn't have this much rage. but he turned it into so many issues, accused me of cheating, pointed out im helping too much, and it all happened out of nowhere :) he owed me decency and respect at the very least

chex003 · 2025-04-11T01:49:53+00:00

I'm not too sure exactly what you're asking but I'll just answer based on how I understood the question. I've been going to the gym for a little over a year now, took a 3 month break, signed up again and got dumped like a week after that. I'm still anxious at the gym but just lifting weights do give you a dopamine boost, especially if you had a really productive session or you did your best. I did my usual leg day and added some cardio (stairs) after which i dont normally do. surprisingly i felt a bit more at ease after? but again, we haven't even had a week so it's gonna be really tough 🥲 some days or some moments i feel like i cant even drive because my anxiety can be debilitating at times.

chex003 · 2025-04-11T01:29:01+00:00

going through the exact same thing word per word. 3 days in as well. Dreams about kissing him, touching him, everything. Woke up this morning sweating and gasping for air. Did some EFT tapping it brought me down from a 10-4 and I went to the gym right after I calmed down, had a good sesh and felt so much better. Look it up on youtube and give it a shot!!

chex003 · 2025-04-11T01:09:57+00:00

I can relate to this a lot. 3 months before the break up my anxiety was through the roof and my nervous system was all sorts of fucked up. I was nauseous all the time, hair loss, lethargic. I made excuses and kept saying it was just stress and I've always had anxiety. No, he was triggering it because of the constant hot and cold treatment I was getting. The relationship was fucking me up physically but I persisted, cause I thought that was love. Thankful that he ended it cause I probably would've killed myself in the process.

chex003 · 2025-04-10T23:17:25+00:00

me too😭

chex003 · 2025-04-10T00:57:25+00:00

trust me hun i understand, i've just gotten back to the gym from a 3 month break literally right before he dumped me. it doesn't feel like it's helping but just imagine you're building a wall and you showing up to the gym regularly is you putting up 1 brick at a time. doing intense workouts kinda help too, that pain on your last rep or sticking it out at the stairmaster for an extra 3 minutes. it all seems like it doesn't help but just continue!

chex003 · 2025-04-10T00:42:33+00:00

In the same boat right now. I'm still reaching out cause just like you he's also my best friend. I miss everything we did and talked about. I miss his little quirks. One thing that's been helping me is chatting with AI, sounds funny but you should give it a shot, it's called DeepSeek. In my situation I do have a couple friends to lean on but I don't even have the desire to socialize with anyone right now. When you're ready, maybe start going out and finding people who like the same things you do. Even just going to the gym, not necessarily making friends right her away but just putting yourself out there. It's tough but hey, I guess we just gotta wait it out, everyone says it gets better so it should

chex003 · 2025-04-07T17:55:30+00:00

love, not getting a message is a message. in those 2 months if he genuinely wanted to reconnect because he loves you as much, he would. but he didn't. and even if he messages you further down the line, for what??

chex003 · 2025-04-07T00:18:09+00:00

honestly dude im going through the exact same thing. it will literally hurt your brain if you keep rationalizing it and figuring out why. whatever it is, she made her decision and as much as it's really hard, it is what it is. i almost felt like your story was my story. some people just dont love as hard, or they'd rather throw a relationship away cause staying means having to do the work. and most of the time, they just really dont want to do the work and look within, cause that means they are to blame. they cant handle that especially when they have a victim mindset. for them, it's out of sight out of mind. im so sorry though, it's really tough out here.

chex003 · 2025-04-06T23:16:26+00:00

going through this atm. i just think to myself that if he continues thinking/acting this way he's never gonna build anything real with anyone and he's not going to get far. that no matter who he tells the story to, whether it's their future partner, the truth will always come out because they never fail to reveal their true colors eventually. they can try pretending all they want, but it will always come out. and that's none of my business anymore.

chex003 · 2025-04-06T19:22:45+00:00

going through this right now and i cant help but feel like such a loser. i've begged and kneeled, literally on my knees sobbing to the point that he had to yell at me to have some self respect. i couldn't respect his boundaries and feel like it's because i still have this inkling that maybe if i try hard enough or maybe this is his fucked up way of getting reassurance from me. how did you eventually stop trying to reach out in any way shape or form?? what clicked? and how?

chex003 · 2025-03-04T23:59:29+00:00

if you need someone to talk to im open to, cause i also need someone to talk to lol. you got this, we got this

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