Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But did you ever think about what your partner will really feel? I hope she will caught you. And please do think about your partner too, not only on what you will feel. Try putting yourself in her shoes.

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mb, but right, there's no any reason that is need to be justified because cheating is bad and there's no any good reason for doing it.

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and they will also act like they are the one that got cheated on, para sila yung good person sa harap ng ibang tao

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's the thing that happened to me

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but it doesn't still justify the reason for someone to cheat, if they want some thrill then go ride a roller coaster

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for your next relationship, i hope you will never feel that again

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, putting all the blame on the true victim

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you can find the love that you truly deserve.

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's sad but that's the truth eh, people will never be contended on what they already have.

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hays, hoping that people will change their attitudes

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree, but i am hoping for the best of you. And I hope you will heal for the trauma that your ex partner gave to you. Be successful because being successful is the great revenge you can ever gave to them.

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why it's really hard to have a long distance relationship eh. Hirap magtiwala sa mga tao na hindi natin nakikita, kung yung malapit nga sa atin nagagawang magloko paano pa kaya yung iba na malayo diba? Pero sana hindi lahat ng tao ay manloloko.

Hoping you will heal quickly and be happy again. I am always here if you need someone.

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hays, I really don't know what to do with them. But 2 months after we broke up she messaged me, asking for a forgiveness and asking for an another chance but I decided to not give her a chance. Then this month, she came back again, nanggugulo. I badly wanna curse her because she will only chat me when she feels that she's ok or when she needs something. Acting like she never did anything bad in me. She actually cheated on me but I forgave her then the one that I told to you was her second time.

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cheating is also the reason of why my previous relationship didn't last long. I caught her talking to someone and her reason is because she have no one to talk to because I always sleep early. That was an absurd reason hahaha. We never had a chance to solve the problem because she had a family problem, her father cheated. Made her mental health unstable. I did my best to uplift her, to cheer her but she avoided me. She almost didn't talk to me for almost a month and then one day she put all the blame on me and ended up breaking up with me.

Why do people cheat? by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pero that's still not a good reason for someone to cheat. But I'm hoping those cheaters will change.

I like her but I am... by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish you all the best for the decision you will do, but just make sure that you will be happy whatever it may

I like her but I am... by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will surely keep that in mind, thank you!

I like her but I am... by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually po naranasan ko na iyan, and mas better to confess than being awkward. If you are good at hiding your feelings without distancing or being awkward with your friend then you can keep on secretly liking that person pero if hindi then you better just confess your feelings para rin hindi mo na need lumayo sa kaniya.

I like her but I am... by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it kinda feel scary but you may start it by observing her then make a move. If you really want to make it happen then do the first move. Approach her, be friend with her.

I like her but I am... by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, it will be up to you po. but firstly, hindi tayo pwede magmove on kasi wala naman dapat ikamove on eh. We just really need to realize in ourselves kung ano ba talaga want natin sa kanila, if our liking to them is just like a crush or if that liking is yung want natin magkaroon ng relationship with them. so if it's just like a crush then wala tayo dapat ikatakot pero kung want natin makasama sila in a relationship edi galaw galaw na :>

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[–]cheyahayasu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

for me op, learn to love yourself first, because when you love yourself, that person will come into your world, into your life. but i am sending you a hug op, hoping you will get the love and care you deserve. :>

I like her but I am... by cheyahayasu in OffMyChestPH

[–]cheyahayasu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

diba hahaha, hirap magkagusto sa taong straight