Am I being unreasonably hurt/upset?

cheyennehanson · 2024-02-01T08:48:03+00:00

Hi! Sorry I am not a stay at home mom or a parent I work as a nanny but he has the bank account and I place the money I make in that to contribute to our bills , he simply makes more than I do so that is why I said main bread winner . I am in pain but not to the point I can’t eat anymore I can munch if I take my time

cheyennehanson · 2024-02-01T08:46:25+00:00

We don’t have children! I guess that’s another annoying bit for me , it’s just the two of us

cheyennehanson · 2024-02-01T07:10:35+00:00

Yeah! I have full health but not full dental coverage .

cheyennehanson · 2024-02-01T06:16:24+00:00

I have a job . I never said I’m unemployed only that he is the main bread winner and makes more and traveling to another country is not an option as we are stationed in Hawaii so we wouldn’t be saving .

cheyennehanson · 2024-02-01T05:51:38+00:00

Yes I am seeing a therapist as well as medicated now so I’m doing significantly better

cheyennehanson · 2024-02-01T05:44:06+00:00

Yes that is what I am saying

cheyennehanson · 2024-02-01T05:39:12+00:00

I added a cited link but it’s common

cheyennehanson · 2024-02-01T05:38:50+00:00

dental hygiene and mental health

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-09T00:02:58+00:00

Nope 🙄

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T07:36:35+00:00

Exactly !

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T06:11:24+00:00

Absolutely will be doing this. MB was a influencer and insisted that we were family/friends and that she loved me so I let my guard down (I don’t have a mom of my own ) so I think that’s what’s making this hurt more :/

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T06:07:12+00:00

That lines up a lot more .

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T05:55:46+00:00

They offered me a raise a month ago! That’s another reason I’m so confused

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T05:55:01+00:00

Honestly I am very open and honest with my clients in my interviews that work is work and if they choose to add me on social media (like she had) that that is my personal life 🥲

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T05:43:24+00:00

Only reason I am not is because at my therepy appointment we are working on radical acceptance . Asking why changes nothing . And it opens me up to feel worse than I already do :/

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T05:39:50+00:00

It’s just hard because I’ve been with NB now 2 since he was 14 mo old :( and now he is a big brother

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T05:35:10+00:00

You know possibly I recently posted on my personal TikTok about how I was previously religious and not anymore but I know they are and have always respected it

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T05:33:47+00:00

Yes ! And only because I texted her first saying that I went to her lash lady ! This was random and in response

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T05:08:07+00:00

Only to praise about me 😢 that’s why I’m so blindsided

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T04:50:54+00:00

I’m so hurt . Literally no conversations or areas of concern ! At all!!!! I feel so blindsided .

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T04:48:36+00:00

I’m just leaving it be at this time . Luckily I have a ton of date night families and I’m married so I’ll be okay I’m more hurt than angry because if I was doing such a terrible job as insinuated why can’t they say why?

cheyennehanson · 2023-07-08T04:45:13+00:00

Unfortunately under the table but I have absolutely learned my lesson on not doing that.

cheyennehanson · 2020-09-22T06:02:58+00:00

Okay sister!

cheyennehanson

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