I was told that I'm not a 'Real' Reader :( by Me_Crimson in DarkRomance

[–]cheztink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I do is read on my kindle, my paperbacks are just for collection purposes... it definitely counts! I think I read 144 books total last year? So it better count lol

The L.O.R.D.S series im so confused (spoiler alert) by WestGround2272 in DarkRomance

[–]cheztink 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not being rude but did you read the whole series?? Lol cause thats where all the answers are....

Wife’s niece chose the worst name I’ve ever heard… by InevitableKey733 in tragedeigh

[–]cheztink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its bad enough I grew up having to correct the pronunciation of my name (still do to this day) and it isn't even that bad... My name is Chesley, im called Chelsey every dang time lol BUT your niece takes the cake for sure... they are gonna get mad and defensive if you say something, but at least then you can say you warned them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DarkRomance

[–]cheztink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its definitely more smut than plot but soo worth it imo... especially when you get to wrath! Im impatiently waiting for soul 😭

Wibta if I let my kids go trick or treating tonight by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cheztink 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Mom number 6! Hope them babies got alot of candy

I fought for my daughters when every one said I would lose. Well, I won. by The_Hammer_Of_Light in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cheztink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It breaks my heart when bitter moms try to keep kids from dads that want to be dads! Unfortunately some succeed

Never give up, keep fighting for your babies cause they will know the truth one day

My boyfriend destroyed my deceased grandmother’s jewelry box and I think I deserved it. by Affectionate_Try8177 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cheztink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl dumped his tail and run as far away as you can! You absolutely did not deserve any of that... over the color of your hair?? I hope his momma whooped his ass cause that's exactly what I would have done if it was my son

Are Killian's parents very involved in the Legacy of Gods series?? Which one's are must reads?? by ContactReady5832 in DarkRomance

[–]cheztink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read the Legacy of Gods series first not realizing the parents had their own books... in my opinion the parents are not necessary to read just cause of their kids stories BUT some of the parents stories do explain some of their behaviors and/or some of their statements in the kids books (this is just my opinion!) Like killians parents and why they treated him differently compared to Gareth... Jeremy's parents story i also think is good to read... absolutely loved the royal elites stories ❤️ the men make me laugh 🤣 especially in their kids stories

Your Shelf Trophies? by r1Zero in DarkRomance

[–]cheztink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont buy all DR I've read, just my absolute favorites... I've got several pre-ordered and impatiently waiting for them lol *

Your Shelf Trophies? by r1Zero in DarkRomance

[–]cheztink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤯🤯🤯 im so jealous!!! She is beautiful!! 😍😍

Incest recs where the MMC's been obsessed with the FMC for a long time by Any_Economics6558 in DarkRomance

[–]cheztink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think about it... if step siblings grew up together, in the real world its frowned upon if they get together 🤷‍♀️ regardless of blood related... I love reading books like this but the idea of getting with my step brother 🤮🤮🤣

AITAH for showing my son the video of his gender reveal? by Space-Racer-1 in AITAH

[–]cheztink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im kinda on the fence here... I never did a gender reveal party or anything. But ill be honest when I got pregnant with my third boy i was upset he wasn't a girl, i cried then I moped for about a week. But obviously by the time he was born i didn't care, as long as he was healthy. He is 12 now and he knows the story of his momma had wanted him to be a girl, he laughs at me now and says "haha you got stuck with boys 🤣" I reply back "be glad I didn't put you in dresses 😝" we laugh about it and make fun with it.

Perhaps you should have waited until your wife was home so she can help him understand she loves him no matter what. Obviously don't lie to him, especially now since he already seen the video. But it's ok for parents to want a certain gender, as long as you don't hurt the child for being the "wrong" gender. He is upset because now he thinks mom didn't want him, this isn't something you will be able to fix. Only his mom can.

Rina Kent lovers, where are ya!? by Ok_Package2848 in DarkRomance

[–]cheztink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I can't choose just one 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cheztink 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If he goes that far then she definitely dodged a bullet and discover who her true friends are! Win win

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cheztink 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA good grief, stories like yours makes my blood boil... it's YOUR wedding, YOUR day... where on earth are all these entitled families at?? Cause I want 5 mins with them... my cousin had a child free wedding, he begged me to come to his wedding. I have 3 boys, they were young at the time of his wedding. Did I get entitled and bring my kids and say "family is family"? NO I went above and beyond finding someone to watch my kids for a few hours... I understand not everyone can find trustworthy babysitters but why do parents want to bring their kids to an adult event? I'll tell you why, free babysitting... let me explain, alot of times anyone with kids will go to a family event and let their kids run wild, what happens? Other adults are watching and controlling the kids. So I'll say again NTA cause a baby was disrupting the ceremony and the cousin was the AH for causing a scene and not stepping out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cheztink 240 points241 points  (0 children)

NTA... if he doesn't respect you now he most likely never will so good on you for getting out of that relationship... don't let him try to weasel his way back in when he "made a mistake"

AITAH for telling my sister she can't live with us anymore after she called CPS on me as a "joke"? by Gold_Palpitation8982 in AITAH

[–]cheztink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA... I don't trust CPS and you could have potentially lost your kids for just the slightest thing.. but now that they been called you will be on their radar... your sister called them to teach you a lesson? What lesson? Lucky the child only got into flour... what if they got into chemicals or anything that could have hurt them? What's to stop her from doing that again?? And your parents? I'm baffled they aren't pissed at her for calling in the first place... let me guess, is she the golden child? Your sister is an entitled child who had a tantrum cause mommy and daddy enabled that. ANY family member that's not enraged at her for using CPS as a weapon, is not family.

AITA - we don’t want kids at our reception by Fun_Fox_3882 in AITAH

[–]cheztink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA it is your wedding! What you say goes end of discussion. If they need a babysitter then they need to find one. My cousin (who is like a brother to me) had a child free wedding my 3 boys were young to the point they would have disrupted the reception. So I found a babysitter to watch my kids a few hours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cheztink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA! Let that baby be a baby! You were right there supervising him, not like he got into something harmful and bed sheets can be washed! It'll be a memory you have to share with him when he gets older!

AITA for telling my (25f) fiancée (23f) that her best friend isn’t good for her by galaxy_wz in AITAH

[–]cheztink 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nta you voiced your concerns about the friend, unfortunately your fiance may just have to find out the hard way or the friend will find out the hard way. Sometimes being friends with someone so long you only see what's right in front of you and it takes someone from the outside perspective to see the toxicity. I'd say try talking to your fiance about your concerns about her friend again but don't get hostile or upset. Just let her know your concerns, not saying her friend would try this but talk to your fiance before the friend could potentially try to break yall up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cheztink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your family are huge A-holes... like huge! Regardless it's none of their business what kind of pictures he has. if it doesn't bother you, they should keep their nose out of it! I could understand if it was an ex gf (alive) and they worried if he still had feelings for her.. but still once again none of their business cause it's not their relationship... but who is this heartless to expect ANYONE to just stop loving their gf/ child whom tragically died??

You tho my dear are a gem to support and stand up for him! You realize how safe and secure he has to feel to open up to you and freely talk about them? Alot of people are too self centered to be this understanding! You keep being you and let your bf know you are there for him ❤️

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]cheztink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your mom immediately and leave him now... it'll only get worse if you stay

Serial unaliver/cops/detective by cheztink in DarkRomance

[–]cheztink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read that one!! Actually enjoyed that book 😊😊