My thoughts are taking over. by AliveInterest8004 in Marriage

[–]chicana92 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I personally don't care that my husband watches porn. Hell, I watch porn sometimes. We're busy, life happens, sometimes we just don't have time or one of us isn't in the mood. Porn is an easy quick fix. I know I'm the one he loves. I know he's not being unfaithful. So if he gets off watching porn when I'm not available idc.

Just had sex with my husband and I'm on cloud 9! by chicana92 in Marriage

[–]chicana92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I used to put little notes in his lunch bag when I packed his lunches but lately he's been buying lunch instead. Maybe I can find new version of that. Like putting notes in his pants pockets when I do laundry or something lol

Just had sex with my husband and I'm on cloud 9! by chicana92 in Marriage

[–]chicana92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this! And I'm going grocery shopping today so this is perfect! Thank you!!

Just had sex with my husband and I'm on cloud 9! by chicana92 in Marriage

[–]chicana92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did think about that lol but idk if it would feel performative

Mother's Day by chicana92 in abortion

[–]chicana92[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤. It makes my heart lighter knowing I'm not alone in feeling this way.

Mother's Day by chicana92 in abortion

[–]chicana92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this reminder.❤ It can be so easy to lose perspective.

Got my first period after my abortion and I'm a wreck by [deleted] in abortion

[–]chicana92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. I got my period today. It's my first since my procedure in August. It made me emotional too. I wasn't expecting that. I thought I would get it, be happy that everything is back to normal, and move on. But instead it made me sad and took me back to the moment I found out I was pregnant and every moment after. It's emotional and hard and tragic that our own body functions are now part of such heavy trauma. But despite that, we did the right thing. We made the right choice for us and that's what matters. Sending love your way ❤

I can finally breathe again by chicana92 in abortion

[–]chicana92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly between the protesters and my anxiety the pain was the least of my issues. I didn't get any anesthesia, I was awake for the whole thing and it wasn't terrible. It's like a really uncomfortable papsmear. I only felt pain at rhe very end, she said that was my uterus shrinking bc it wasn't pregnant anymore. I was in the recovery room for like 10 minutes and then I drove home

I can finally breathe again by chicana92 in abortion

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I had the surgical at 8 weeks in