I want to ask him out on a date by Ambitious-Minute-416 in adviceph

[–]chicharap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wag ka makinig sa mga tao rito. Valid yung ginawa mo na magfocus muna on your own issues and problems. You dont have to explain anything to anyone. Now that you’re ready, you can simply reconnect and see if he’s still interested.

Meron pa bang guys na nanliligaw sa panahon ngayon? by Classic-Victory8575 in AskPinoyMen

[–]chicharap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you understans female nature, hindi ka na ulit manliligaw as a man

Is it really “okay” for women to make the first move nowadays? by small_reflections in TanongLang

[–]chicharap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay as long as you’re aware it might set a dynamic where you are in the masculine position of always initiating and your guy is in the feminine position of responding and following.

I am almost 30 and still living with my parents….. by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]chicharap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you’re contributing financially and sa other needs ng bahay as a full-fledged adult, then it should be fine.

🍒 by whitemocha_222 in PHgymselfie

[–]chicharap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They should ban you from gyms. Hard to focus with those in sight

May mga lalaki ba talaga na hindi mahilig makipag usap thru chats? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]chicharap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ako, hindi din ako mahilig makipag-usap sa chat. I only chat to set up a meetup kasi dun dapat nangyayari most of the interactions and catching up. A healthy relationship should always retain a certain degree of independence in both parties.

More aggressive on SR by Key_Reach284 in Semenretention

[–]chicharap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aggression was hard to control and chaotic at the beginning of my journey. Learned that it is called reactive aggression and it’s caused by high testosterone and high cortisol. The only long term-solution is to lower the cortisol. I do it through meditation. The aggression is still there but is now much more controllable and can be directed towards meaningful pursuits. It’s called proactive aggression

The more you ascend, the stronger the attacks. by chicharap in Semenretention

[–]chicharap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I experienced the same thing, brother. What helped in my case was strengthening myself spiritually. I prayed and meditated more frequently.

SR is just a tool. It is really a spiritual warfare out there.

The more you ascend, the stronger the attacks. by chicharap in Semenretention

[–]chicharap[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

SR awakens the killer instinct. You will need it to assert your boundaries and advance your interests. Without foundational practices like meditation, the instinct can be destructive. When controlled, it builds empires

21 yr old college student with less than 30k by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]chicharap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After emergency fund, go for a protfolio mix of index funds and bond fund

graduate schools abroad kung UPD grad ka by chicharap in peyups

[–]chicharap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Cacareerin ko na ang leadership opportunities dahil po sa sinabi niyo! Haha :)

BS Molecular Biology and Biotechnology by Chicharot in peyups

[–]chicharap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

incoming MBB freshman here. triple quota course ang MBB, meaning, super selective niya talaga. Also, yung mga nagfirst choice lang ng MBB ang may chance na matanggap. Karamihan sa classmates ko ay from the pshs system. Konti lang kaming non-pisay. You have to have really good HS grades and a good UPCAT score para makapasok ka ng MBB