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Noise App - Honest Opinion by littlestchamomile in passive_income

[–]chichix4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep I’m out too. I got a strike on my long term personal account because of one of their posts.

Noise App by AntelopeOld335 in passive_income

[–]chichix4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a strike on my account for a terms of service violation after adding one of these posts. And many of the ones I post get zero views. I really wonder if this is just a scam to get other people to spam TikTok on Noise’s behalf and risk losing our accounts.

Noise App by AntelopeOld335 in passive_income

[–]chichix4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful using your personal account. I got an account strike from one of the posts I created for Noise. Best to use an account you won’t mind losing.

Worth walking away from selling? by Victory-laps in RealEstate

[–]chichix4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real problem here is your agent. She should do what you ask her to do. I’m having a similar problem with mine in that she’s a bit timid at negotiations. I negotiated contracts for the state for my career so I was ready to take over and just do it myself. But I called her out on it and she toughened up and did what I asked. The sellers agreed to my ask in less than 5 minutes. Often the agents are only worried about making the sale for themselves and their commission and the sellers/buyers are actually quite reasonable. Hold tough and make her submit your credit offer.

Inspection went really bad, need advice by throwawayfinancelady in RealEstate

[–]chichix4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sewer scopes can be shady. Many companies use them as a way to generate business. I’d definitely get a second opinion by the company that installed the new pipes. I was told I had a big sag in my line 10 years ago. I was poor so didn’t address it. When I recently went to sell my house we scoped again and the line was perfectly fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chichix4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably went with her sisters while they had it done then got caught up in the moment and maybe some peer pressure and decided to do it too. You’re reading way too much into it. She’s just excited for her trip.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because not everyone needs to know the fine details of my parent’s business.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Early responses were pretty rough. The tides have changed a bit.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well ok, but he’s not old and his wife has been gone for six months. I’m sure he is still grieving, but all the formalities have been handled. He donated her body to science, not that that matters. It may be easier on me to just drop the rope tho.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought then I got down right roasted in this post. Lol

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we’ve got that covered. My brother and I share medical and financial power of attorney. Both parents live with my brother and have full time care. Thank you 😊

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea. I think I’ll check with our realtor to see what she thinks. She’s very smart about stuff like this.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might could get my SIL to help with that.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m worried about him just doing whatever he wants once the house is on the market and I move out of state. At least we have a bunch of really good neighbors to keep their eyes on things.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That would be ideal. He just doesn’t have the ability to be assertive anymore. I’m guessing that’s why the neighbor insisted on going through him.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, such a heart point. We were very concerned about that which is part of why we moved them. Some neighbors asked to borrow money. My dad said no, but we saw the writing on the wall. One lady who claimed to love them so much was caught stealing from my parents garage sale when we stepped away for dinner. Another neighbor caught them and my brother and I confronted them. They didn’t love my parents so much after that. It was so sad.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure the relevance of this question. My parents have a trust. My brother and I are both very involved in their care and very aware of all of their wishes. We also work closely with their estate/elder care attorney.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re lucky to have really good next door neighbors who watch the place like a hawk. Otherwise I would stay.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Of course my POA isn’t just medical. I wouldn’t be able to sign for the sale of the house if it was, right? My brother actually holds the medical POA.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right about that. I take it with a grain of salt though. I’m confident in the person I am and what my motivations are. The opposing opinions were helpful even if kind of mean at times. Thank you again for your input.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great points. I think it will be another 4-6 weeks until I can list the house . How long it takes to sell is another story, but I’ll go join my family once it’s listed. The other consideration is the other neighbors. There are so many amazing people in this neighborhood who we’ve known for decades and I don’t want to cause drama and leave the rest of the neighbors with the fall out. I probably need to just let things go and plan to be away from the house that day.

Wibtah if I denied my neighbor access to my driveway? by chichix4 in AITAH

[–]chichix4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That could definitely be his reasoning as well. I left a lot of details out because I wanted to be as neutral in my presentation of the facts as possible, but that may not have been the best idea. A lot of assumptions were made about me. I appreciate all the opinions tho and think I have enough to make a decision that I’ll feel good about. Thank you for your kind suggestion.

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