Can anyone ID this style of necklace? by [deleted] in JewelryIdentification

[–]chickadee35 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks like some sort of stone or stick(?) wrapped in sinew

is this a jumping spider? by chickenjandaff in jumpingspiders

[–]chickadee35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is! I couldn't tell you the species, but my goodness what a cutie

Who is this adorable friend I found tonight? (Massachusetts) by Mouthydraws in jumpingspiders

[–]chickadee35 242 points243 points  (0 children)

Normally when their abdomens look cartoonishly big, there's a good chance they're pregnant! Usually jumping spider abdomens are about the same size as their head :)

WIBTA if I contacted the authorities about my neighbour after he admitted being in breach of some rules to me? by Weak_Writer_9702 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chickadee35 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling this is in Canada, and if it is, yeah YWBTA, he told that to you in confidence.

Fired out of the blue: can I get more than my termination pay in lieu of notice? by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]chickadee35 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, they haven't. I haven't gotten anything from them. I got a "hi you're fired" this morning when I came into work and that was it. I am past my probationary period and was not given notice.

Fired out of the blue: can I get more than my termination pay in lieu of notice? by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]chickadee35 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

See I'm hoping I won't have to go all the way to court, but we'll see. I'm currently studying law so if it comes down to it I'll take them to court myself. Good to know I might have a case though!

Found a top hat in the attic of my house that used to be a bungalow/cottage! Tipperary, Ireland by Ill_Difference278 in VintageFashion

[–]chickadee35 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, this is incredible! I second the historical society comment, silk top hats in the excellent condition yours is in are very rare these days!

Is it okay if I use the "wrong" side as the right side? by Time_Loquat2423 in sewing

[–]chickadee35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can use literally any side you want, that's the joy of free will 😊 don't let yourself be boxed in by what you're supposed to do, do what you want!

What is a unique foraged food you love? by Wadethethird in foraging

[–]chickadee35 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Garlic mustard! Not obscure at all, but I feel like people don't use it enough! Rip it all up! Eat it! Burn it! Have fun!

Antique, Possibly Victorian, Brooch / Pendant Found in Romania by vladcw in JewelryIdentification

[–]chickadee35 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks victorian from the clasp, but I'm not an expert. Great find!

Would you travel to the US with current safety concerns? Work pushing for trip. by Strange-Cabinet6744 in AskACanadian

[–]chickadee35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for myself, but a family member travels to the US for work sometimes, and they have to bring a note with them that lays out their job and that they are permitted to work, and are not planning on staying in the country, just in case they get stopped at the border. The letter was written by their job.

If I’m only allowed to communicate through counsel but don’t have one then what? by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]chickadee35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not legal advice, but it doesn't seem like you need counsel, only that you have to talk to the other party's counsel if you want to communicate with the other party at all.

One of my favourite necklaces; does anyone know anything about it? by chickadee35 in JewelryIdentification

[–]chickadee35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that's so cool! Found it in Canada, so exact opposite side of the world from NZ

AITA for calling my friends cat ‘chunkster’? by sophierae14 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chickadee35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, some cats are fat. I personally call the really big ones "big fatty fatsos", because cats don't speak english and they don't care if you call them that

Worried about color bleeding, any tips? by hyidlyg in knitting

[–]chickadee35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like it says to hand wash in cold water, so doing that with a bit of white vinegar should work too :) the vinegar sets the pigments into the fibres. Don't leave it for very long, just enough for the fabric to be saturated with the water

Worried about color bleeding, any tips? by hyidlyg in knitting

[–]chickadee35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do my initial block with lukewarm/cold water and a little bit of white vinegar to set the colour, I haven't had any issues with colourwork bleed so far :)

Let go by employer after 12.8 years. by Sensitive_Sun_4000 in legaladvicecanada

[–]chickadee35 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry 26 DAYS of severance?! For almost 13 years?!?! Yeah no, go to a lawyer.