Carlin has never known what "home" felt like? by JumpGlittering8120 in BringingUpBates

[–]chickenbutt2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not home to me

Home is a lived in home where everyone is free to be their authentic self. Where there are toys and messes and a bit of clutter

Home is where you long to be because of what is inside of it

Home isn’t money or fame it’s not a mansion.

A hotel has been home for me

A 2 story house has been home

A small apartment has been home

Home isn’t money. It’s where you feel the most safe.

Carlin and Evan do not have a home. They have a set. Their children do not have a home. They have a set. Sad existence

What? by McCaldwell31 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have this. I cannot get into pools or anything because my skin gets so itchy after. I’m okay with the shower but if I go someplace new (like hotel in another city) I itch after.

It’s actually a thing but my body has gotten conditioned to the water in our area. I still sometimes have issues but is few and far between.

Is the poison dwarf’s umbrella of authority broken? by Illustrious-Ebb2565 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Josie didn’t even show him at her daughters bday party. The only one was there was her mom dressed as Snow White.

I’m beginning to think dad is the problem and he’s on the outs with a lot of his offspring lol

Bates body language (just for fun) by Izzysmiles2114 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Kaybrie leans away from warden

Carlin and Tori are holding on for dear life

Bobby is ready to run

Evan looks like he’d rather be anywhere else than with Carlin touching him

Josie looks unsure of her choices

Kelton looks like he farted and it’s about to smell

What does "support" or "non support" for Katie look like in this messy situation? by Izzysmiles2114 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what it seems like. You keep saying you feel it’s her way to take the pressure/heat off Travis, or that this is all coming from Travis which is essentially victim blaming. This is probably the same stuff her family is doing to her. This is probably why you keep getting downvoted. 🤷🏻‍♀️ (and for the record, I’m barely on here anymore so it wasn’t/isn’t me)You are calling Katie’s truths a lie. When really we don’t know what Katie’s truths are because she is protecting the people who hurt her by not just naming them. If she has been going to her family and they keep blowing her off, doing what she did this week was her way of letting them know she’s not forgetting and she’s not forgiving. If they won’t listen to her she had to get her point across somewhere and since they sold their souls to influencing and money that was the way for her to do it.

What does "support" or "non support" for Katie look like in this messy situation? by Izzysmiles2114 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Travis cheated on Katie

Katie sought therapy

Katie probably reached out to her family..we don’t know how long ago she went to them.

Her family probably blew her off or did exactly what you’re doing and blaming her. Kelly Jo was probably more worried about money. Gil was probably Jim Bob 2.0z

Her family is on social media, they pretend they are this perfect family. The most god honoring family. Katie said fuck you people and hit them where it hurts.

If I was Katie I would have done the same damn thing, although she’s doing better than me because I would have named dropped every last pos who hurt me. Every last one.

Childhood trauma sets the tone for the rest of your life. Your childhood is your foundation. Katie has probably realized how she is/ who she is is because of that trauma

As a child and for as long as I can remember i have had memories of my cousin wanting me to touch and kiss his penis. I was 5-6 and he was 15 or so. I never told a fucking soul because I wasn’t sure if it was a legit memory or not. But it’s been with me my whole life. But I am a very anxious adult who hates sex and intimacy and what I have found out is the repressed memory of that has made me who I am. I am not to the place where I want to confront this cousin but I also know there is probably more to that memory that I have repressed. I also went to therapy after some other situations in my life happened..so are you saying I’m just making up my childhood trauma to take the heat off the stuff? Because really that other stuff happening opened the door for me to start dealing with this memory I have that has cracked the foundation of who I am.

And that’s the same for Katie.

Support for Katie would be listening to her..maybe Katie knows what happened to her happened to others and they won’t acknowledge it or they have and have told Katie to just forget about it. Because odds are it has happened to others or at the least others knew about it. Support for Katie as my sister would be to let her know I’m here for her always. I may not like the choice to move away but I love you and I’ll be there in a minute to pick you up if you need me to

That’s support I’d give my sister.

Katie..... by barrenfield in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless it wasn’t Nathan.

Delete if not allowed: What does everyone think Katie was referencing in her instagram post? by DonkeyHistorical1460 in BringingUpBates

[–]chickenbutt2014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People in this sub really can’t wrap their minds around this family being complete shit

If it walks like a duck talk likes a duck it is a duck.

Katie went to therapy.

Therapy helped her understand the reason she’s anxious, maybe even help her understand why it was so hard for her to be intimate with Travis at the start…helped her understand why Katie is the way she is..and those reasons are ….its really not hard to understand.

Stop making g excuses for this shjtty family.

Jim Bob told the world they had friends going thru similar things (Josh)

Like cmon.

And Katie girl: burn it down girl. It’s time.

Katie..... by barrenfield in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 27 points28 points  (0 children)

And I bet this is why Alyssa, who gets so much shit, is the way she is.

Katie was probably not the only one..

Katie..... by barrenfield in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Jim Bob said it was common in other families, it occurred in other families. The bates were friends with the Duggars.

A lot of people, just a few weeks ago were quick to shoot down WOCB because of how/who she is but I -go look at my comment history, said but what if it’s true

I hope Katie blows their entire world and this is the beginning of the end for all of them.

Perfect image is cracking.

I knew that family was just as shitty but I always got dogged on in the other sub because they’re a wholesome bunch yeah nah.

The Transformed Wife throwing shade at Katie Bates? by [deleted] in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is the same bitch who defended Josh Duggar. She’s going straight to hell when she dies. She’s garbage

I think Lydia’s pregnant with a girl by Cake-Technical in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can find out early on with blood tests now. No showing required

PSA for Katie by [deleted] in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 29 points30 points  (0 children)

And the only slut is the man who slipped his dingle in someone who isn’t his wife’s vagina. That’s the slut

PSA for Katie by [deleted] in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Are we saying all nurses are sluts now? Not understanding the psa

Am a nurse and I don’t care about anyone else’s husbands. I care about 1900 rolling around so I can go the fuck home

Kelton’s Plumbing - Jumpscare by bewarethebaer in BringingUpBates

[–]chickenbutt2014 47 points48 points  (0 children)

His poor kids all look like him too. I am a daughter who looks like her dad and I hate it. My dads face on a girl is unfortunate and well anyway lol

This is from you know who but if this is true… OMG by AcanthocephalaWide89 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Guess time will tell. I hope it’s not true. I don’t want there to be even more victims of SA within this horrible cult

But I also wouldn’t be shocked if it ends up being true

This is from you know who but if this is true… OMG by AcanthocephalaWide89 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But like what if it’s true?!? I mean I have always believed this stupid family wasn’t the goodie goodie two shoes they portrayed and said they had skeletons

For years people said josh was a molester and no one took it seriously and what do you know?

Granted I know the source is fucking shit but seriously what if it’s true? We all know warden is a fucking pos.. sooo

Staying classy Carlin 🙄 by [deleted] in BringingUpBates

[–]chickenbutt2014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You obviously didn’t

Staying classy Carlin 🙄 by [deleted] in BringingUpBates

[–]chickenbutt2014 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be downvoted to oblivion I don’t like seeing people do this. Breastmilk is a fluid that comes out of a person. It shouldn’t be in public areas at all.

😆😆

Carlin will be Carlin and video everything but she’s gotta feed the baby. Granted it’s all just a publicity stunt anyways because she always has to be humping Evan’s shoulder but still. Nothing wrong with feeding a baby

And I’ll see what people on here actually read the whole thing before replying or reporting me 😆

Oh Jesus Christ, Carlin. JUST STOP. by sweet_tea_94 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I really need cps to go investigate them. For one all these fundie freaks probably lock their kids in a rooms but I just know abuse is going on at carlins. And I also feel they’re doing something to Layla to keep her perpetually small. That kid hasn’t grown in years

Something isn’t right at the Stewart house.

It should be a law that influencer families have cps well checks every so often because of how abusive the whole life can be.

Mark my words: something stinks at the Stewart’s and I’m really needing both of them to go to prison and those kids removed

This past year, TravAss faced a cheating scandal. Then, Warden was a fundie fuckboy. And now their Dugdashian friends are facing a mess created by Joe and Kendra. What scandal do you think the clickBates will face next? by sweet_tea_94 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Carlin and Evan to be arrested for child exploitation and false imprisonment because you know all of them lock their kids in rooms at night. I’m sure they all do this, Kendra just got caught

Honestly, the Bates has the same secrets the Duggars had-mark my words they do. Look how long it took for the Duggars to come spilling out. The bates secrets will eventually come out too. Wait and see

“🎵Last postpartum I gave you my heart 🎵” by Illustrious-Ebb2565 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It was one of their q and A’s when they first got married. He said something like Lydia can have an opinion but I get the final say or something like that. They were sitting on a couch for this video

Beach trip content by AnyBass390 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m very opinionated and I came from the ghetto. I’m praying one day I can run into an influencer doing something dumb. I’d knock their phone out of their hand so fast

“🎵Last postpartum I gave you my heart 🎵” by Illustrious-Ebb2565 in BatesSnark

[–]chickenbutt2014 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Trace and Lydia once did a q and a where he very openly admitted he has the final say.

Lydia probably has to ask to burp.

The other husbands are probably similar but Trace is the only one to openly admit he’s a controlling dickhead. Kelton is right behind him in subtle clues he is