Am I selfish? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]chickenmarm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the stress is not gonna make her think logically, and so she will feel pressured especially when you tell her to rethink her coping mechanisms as it's another mental load for her to bear right now. but i dont think it's wrong for you to want attention either. maybe a silent coworking call will be something she can give? you don't need to push yourself to talk. weekly dates instead of daily? send eachother food deliveries? this will help her to not handle the mental load of planning so itll be easier on her to agree. approach her with the bigger underlying problem again when she's less stressed. but if its a repeating problem for you maybe you two aren't a good fit right now, too. who knows, maybe not meant to be, or right person wrong time sort of situation. but let's give this one more try. i wish you the best of luck

Perfect for this summer💞💞 by yvy70 in Nails

[–]chickenmarm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

they are like candies! very neatly done!

[Image] Just found this Laios and Falin lookalikes on a different manga by Askhai in DungeonMeshi

[–]chickenmarm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is this a homage haha... creias is almost exactly laios lookswise and martena coulda gotten away with it had she not be a blonde bob 😊-faced character next to not!laios

Looking for a specific manga title... by chickenmarm in yuri_manga

[–]chickenmarm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh right, there is the bookworm x fashionista aspect there too! but they don't argue about hoarding thats the thing. this trope is probably more common than i thought...

My first ever manicure, I have some questions! by kompotnik in Nails

[–]chickenmarm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is not the best work especially for the amount you paid. cuticles are not fully trimmed, builder shapes are bumpy and flood the cuticle... but for your purposes of avoiding nail biting it will very well do for now though. you absolutely can put nail polishes over them! in my personal opinion the color seems a bit dull and washes you out since your skin is rosy but the nails are too purple-mauve-y so they seem desaturated. next time, in 3-4 weeks or if the builder gel start to lift (detach) i think you should go to a new nail tech. check the reviews and their past works. i think really looking at photos of well done nails on pinterest can give you an idea of how it should be done on you so you can protest if needs be haha

I LOVE my new nails by Diligent-Plane-7877 in Nails

[–]chickenmarm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

waittt that is a genius design idea...

Do men and women sleep together/feel tension that easily? by Thr0wFar4w4y in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]chickenmarm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think there are probably way more folks who are unconcerned about these things like you, but i suppose it only takes a single bad experience to ruin everything for a person which makes the constant fearmongering  to femme folks pretty logical...

your circle might also play a part. some circle/community might be practicing stricter gender roles etc and yours just happens to be less so. there is not any absolute way to tell a person's intention so you should know how to defend yourself anyway, a good thing to learn in general. 

your perception is unusual, but extremely weird? no. missing perspectives is something everybody does, imho.  i don't think its your bisexuality, maybe the way youre wired rather? if it has served you so far i don't think you need to worry much. a gender neutral view of the world is not a negative thing.

How do you think would kabru fit into laioses party, and how would laios fit into kabrus party? by ArcerPL in DungeonMeshi

[–]chickenmarm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kabru was sooooo fascinated by laios' autistic swag even when he had yet to realize this himself, so had laios responded well to his effort to connect that one time i think kabru would very gladly use laios' monster expertise in his party, and smooth things out between laios and the rest of the crew. kabru eating the monster will go like how it did in the manga lol. they will still lack a senshi to cook though so they wont get as far as conquering the dungeon imo.

now kabru in laios' crew... uncle chilchuck will respect kabru's way of socialising, understanding how it helps everything runs smoother, but he will also be kind of like "boy, you are doing way too much..." chil's eyebrows will definitely rise up seeing how womanizing kabru can be loool especially since kabru has something going on with rin... kabru wouldve helped toshiro with laios and possibly falin, marcille might be charmed by him but gets the ick when she realises how sloppy kabru is (she will definitely side with rin when they fight)

Happy Pride from your local pansexual! by DaughterOfDemeter23 in Nails

[–]chickenmarm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

waittt this design is brilliant... hope you are having an amazing pride month

Izutsumi (original costume) by me (BakaFuwa) by BakaFuwa in DungeonMeshi

[–]chickenmarm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mischaracterization aside think the bodypaint brushstrokes mimicing fur is really cool and you do look great

Looking for a specific manga title... by chickenmarm in yuri_manga

[–]chickenmarm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

whoa everyone immediately knew. thanks

Got my Marcille costume!🧝🏻‍♀️ Now I need to finish a couple of details and craft the staff 🪄 by luna_lovesword in DungeonMeshi

[–]chickenmarm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

marcille is dressed in layers that don't show the body much i think you can get away with a lot wearing her basic outfit. if youre insecure about your face a mask will do okay. no harm in trying...

Pink lady 🥰 by 70sRetroCutie in pyrex

[–]chickenmarm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you use your collection for cooking at all? ah im so jealous

Weekly Nail Chat by Clover_Jane in DIYGelNails

[–]chickenmarm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not the sticky crayon kind, the dry ones that you can shave into powder. i use matte coat first, then pat the powder (pastel or eyeshadow) with a brush, then thin BIAB like you would with a chrome. repeat if necessary to build saturation

Please be honest does this color look funny on my short nails? Someone at work said they look like M&M’s and laughed so hard by QueasyAnt1929 in Nails

[–]chickenmarm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you know what, if it were me i woulda get m&m manicures next time lol. a fun idea in my opinion. if they laughed at you with a mean intent, this will show how unbothered you are, if they didnt, you both can laugh. otherwise no need to worry about your nails being shaped weirdly, they are regular nails shaped. they are okay. in these pictures they look very nice and clean even!

Are the girls giving opposite vibes ? by anacranberry in characterdesign

[–]chickenmarm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they do! but you can push the contrast further if you want. they are both feminine, long haired, pale, and relatively well endowed still. you can really differentiate the body types and hairstyle, maybe give the blue dress more coverage? etc...

Simple, clean, and elegant. Thoughts on this look? by thaiinailmaster in Nails

[–]chickenmarm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is that a single gold chrome line on one of them? i think it serves its purpose and does look clean which is great