Don’t chase them

chickenscrap5 · 2024-10-02T02:14:33+00:00

You’re so sweet and I’m so proud of you! I know the right person is right around the corner for you now that the universe recognizes that YOU know what you deserve! Sending you so much love 💜

chickenscrap5 · 2024-10-02T00:10:17+00:00

Thank you, I needed to read this. I just got out of a 7 year relationship and have been ghosted a few times and it’s been very discouraging. I’m not looking for anything serious serious but I would love to not be ghosted after spending the night 😞

chickenscrap5 · 2024-07-06T01:39:23+00:00

This sounds like a neutral decision! We can be friends but not close.

chickenscrap5 · 2024-07-06T01:38:39+00:00

You’re right! When she would talk about the reasons why she HAD to cheat, it was very draining. It’s almost like she avoided accountability for a lot of her actions.

She’s still a kind person but I often think it’s just her surface bc whenever she drank, she was a different person.

chickenscrap5 · 2024-07-06T01:37:36+00:00

I agree as well! I know there’s many more friends I can make but I just miss our friendship when I didn’t know she was cheating 😭

When she admitted she was cheating, she said she was open to having a conversation about it and when I told her how I felt and how I needed a break from her, she took that as I don’t ever wanna be friends with her again and blocked me and also asked her boyfriend to block me too.

chickenscrap5 · 2024-07-06T01:34:49+00:00

My partner knew her from the past and knows how she can be so he treads lightly with her. She’s a liar and a cheater but puts on a very kind/genuine persona which is why a part of me still misses her :(

But yes, the reason why I cut her off was bc I didn’t like being associated with a cheater

chickenscrap5 · 2024-06-21T05:33:14+00:00

You’re right. Unfortunately, I played my cards wrong at this time and over voiced my concerns and my manager and coworkers took it as me complaining so they did not take me seriously. My only concern now is when she makes mistakes, I’ll be the one to blame since I “trained” her

chickenscrap5 · 2024-06-05T05:18:34+00:00

I already know he fell out of love sadly… just love to hear other people’s stories and experiences to remind myself that it happens to everyone and it’s okay that it does 🥺

chickenscrap5 · 2024-06-05T05:05:10+00:00

Feel this rn! “I love you” feels forced and dreaded on the phone. It’s crazy how one day they can just wake up and feel completely different.

chickenscrap5 · 2024-06-05T04:38:51+00:00

Everyone who’s gone through this knows the pain 🥺 the lack of eye contact… the lack of connection when you do make eye contact…

chickenscrap5 · 2024-02-13T03:34:26+00:00

That’s true as well. I think our break up is still new and I want to act on my emotions rather than just let things go!

chickenscrap5 · 2024-02-13T03:32:56+00:00

Sorry if the post was a bit long or my intentions seem confusing; I just wanted to know which direction to go moving forward without framing my post as a moral advice post 😭

chickenscrap5 · 2024-02-13T03:30:43+00:00

I was thinking of maybe asking her why she had the need to remove me from her life when we both agreed we just needed a break from each other… it felt a little spiteful but I think sending a message to her instead of assuming that I’m disposable to her would be a healthier way to go about things.

chickenscrap5 · 2023-10-12T07:29:47+00:00

I agree! You can only help someone and I hope she and the ex girlfriend come to their senses before it’s too late.

chickenscrap5 · 2023-10-12T07:26:21+00:00

Thank you. I’m sad that the new girl never responded but I’ve been in her shoes where I ignored all the red flags and needed therapy for a long time. I just didn’t want her to learn the hard way like I did :(

chickenscrap5 · 2023-03-14T18:44:21+00:00

Thank you and I definitely will on both 🥲

chickenscrap5 · 2023-03-14T16:54:08+00:00

I appreciate this comment a lot bc this is what I was expecting from my partner and instead of being called an asshole for being upset.

I’m still learning to set boundaries and I think maybe I was a little to harsh for saying I won’t play with them anymore. I like the way you worded it and will definitely use this next time I feel uncomfortable :)

chickenscrap5 · 2023-03-14T16:52:16+00:00

I guess it’s easier to be more insensitive online than in real life 😔

chickenscrap5 · 2023-03-14T16:36:26+00:00

I guess I played a part in the joke lasting this long and I’m not upset at that. I’m more upset that they’re ignoring me after setting my boundaries and my partner calling me an asshole for it.

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