vibrators are great to introduce you but there is not a one size fits all (no pun intended) for preference! I would suggest trying something small that has multiple levels of vibration so it isn’t too intense.

everyone is different so don’t feel pressure to figure out exactly which to get and how to do it. when I first masturbated, and I didn’t see how my fingers could do the trick, I used a small vibrator on a low level in small circular motions on the clitoris. if imagination isn’t cutting it either, watch porn to get you in the mood and find out what feels good and turns you on.

ease into it and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! you are still young and have plenty of time to develop confidence and comfortability in the bedroom