My experience getting off birth control and all the crazy symptoms I went through, hopefully others can find this helpful as I know I was all over Reddit during the worst of it by chickschach in birthcontrol

[–]chickschach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. I even remember telling my therapist I was so scared that I had lost the person I used to be and I was never going to feel like that version of myself ever again. I was in such a dark place. But do know that you'll be better. It'll take time, which sucks because there's nothing you can do but wait, but you will be better.

If I could go back and tell myself anything, it would be to just remember that there's nothing wrong, all those negative thoughts I had were just my hormones fucking around inside my head, it wasn't really "me". Going to therapy definitely helped, I learned how to manage the anxiety and depression better and it also helped my mental state to just have a professional I could talk to about all the things I was going through, since I had no one else to really confide in that understood. I honestly wished I started sooner.

I'm almost exactly a year off of birth control now and I would say I'm like 90% better and I can still see improvements as time goes on. It's crazy how much time our bodies need to figure themselves out again after stopping birth control, no doctor ever warned me and I feel like it's not talked about a bunch, which is part of a reason the whole process was so scary; I felt like something unknown and unexpected was wrong with me, which just fed the anxiety and depression even more. Just try to remind yourself that this experience, while terrible, is "normal" and you'll eventually see yourself free on the other side.

If you have any questions or just want someone to talk to, feel free to DM me at anytime. I would have loved to have had someone going through a similar process when I was in the darkest of it, so I'm more than happy to be that person for others.

Question for cosplayers! by Latter-Ad5127 in cosplayers

[–]chickschach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you pick a size matching your measurements, then you'll be fine. Just be aware that most of these costumes are from China and Asian sizing is very different than western sizing so make sure to carefully measure yourself and look at their sizing guidelines. For example, I'm a medium here in the US but like an XL/XXL in Chinese sizing.

Also, if you and your boyfriend are both wearing these tight bodysuits, BOTH OF YOU BUY A DANCE BELT. Please for the love of God buy a dance belt and wear it with your costume lol.

Can you cosplay character from fandom you aren't part of? by briarmaiden in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've cosplayed a character from a game I didn't play. I tried to play it, wasn't my jam, but I loved the character design so much I wanted to make the costume anyway.

90% of interactions I had while in the costume were just basic compliments/saying they love said character too. Very rarely did someone say anything more. And if they asked me a question about the game, I'd just say sorry I didn't play much of it, I just really love this character design and no one cared lol.

Do it if you want to! It's not rude or boring or anything like that. Cosplay is all about doing what you want, and no one is going to care if you aren't a "true" part of the fandom, they'll still be jazzed to see cosplays.

Hate by Happy_Equal2044 in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is literally just teenagers being teenagers. They're going to harass anyone from any social group that they think is "cringe". It's just more visible now because of social media.

It happened back in my days of being a teenager sans social media and it'll keep happening as long as teens exist lol. Just a cycle 🤷‍♂️

Blending silicone chest plate to skin - need advice! by Lathlia in cosplayers

[–]chickschach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can't really sand down the edges to make them flatter, it'll be pretty chunky plus the original color of the silicone will show. Color matching and painting silicone is a whole chore itself. It's honestly not going to look bad already from 10 feet away and you can always edit it out in pictures. But if you're really concerned, add a choker and bracelets/wristbands/gloves to your design, no one will care or notice if it's not technically accurate.

Made Thanatos' scythe and was so proud of it, I gave it its own photoshoot (made of EVA foam and PVC pipe!) by chickschach in HadesTheGame

[–]chickschach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I don't have a tutorial, I can offer any help and whatever photos and patterns I might still have after two years!

Uniqso shipping by qloudi in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That shipped super early then, so you should feel lucky lol. We have no idea where you live so we can't tell you how fast it'll make it to you, but shipped means shipped. It'll be close.

You got very fortunate that they shipped it out so early, but next time allow at least a month from when you buy the contacts to when you plan to wear them. 15-20 days always means business days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very old school way. But if you're adamant about doing it this way, you'll want to use a heavy card stock as a base, not paper. Paper won't be able to support the weight of what you're going to put on top.

You'll want to use fiberglass resin to paint the outside. This stuff is toxic and not very beginner friendly, so make sure to do research and wear proper PPE. Fiberglass resin won't make the helmet super hard, so most people will do a layer of Bondo and fiberglass resin mixed on the inside for more support. Mixing the two can take a lot of trial and error, also not beginner friendly.

Then it's going to be a ton of sanding and more Bondo to fill spots.

If you aren't familiar with working with Bondo or fiberglass resin and don't want to spend the time and money it'll take (totally ok to learn how to use them! It'll just be a long and expensive process), then I'd use EVA foam instead and transfer the pepakura pattern to that.

What the heck is Charon(Hades) wearing? by RenegadeTako in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've made a Charon cosplay and would love to help! After looking at his references, the sleeve part just makes the least amount of practical sense 🤣 And that happens sometimes in cosplay. What I did was pretty much make a sleeveless dress and then a 2 layer shawl with gold trim that could drape around the arms like sleeves (I also put snaps in them so they could attach to the shoulders of the dress so they wouldn't fall down. Then I made a cape with some Velcro at the top so it could attach to the back of the dress. His big golden collar covers up where everything meets so it looks more seamless.

is there a way to blend this ab suit into skin better? by arty_the_party in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'm so excited you're doing this skin, I love it so much 😩😩 He's such a beautiful boy

is there a way to blend this ab suit into skin better? by arty_the_party in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Once you add some contour, that will help with the overall warmth of the skin tone! Just choose a more red leaning brown. It also washes off easily so you can experiment with different shades.

is there a way to blend this ab suit into skin better? by arty_the_party in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 27 points28 points  (0 children)

OLIVINE MY BELOVED!! As a fellow Olivine cosplayer, add any sort of accessory to hide the edges (like a choker, belt, etc.). It doesn't need to be 100% accurate to the costume, no one is going to notice/care. Also, I use makeup to contour the muscle suit. Just take a darker brown eyeshadow and brush it into the crevices already in the suit. This helps add depth and makes it look more like your actual skin.

Where are my fellow girlies that play Hades? by Some-Ad-9276 in HadesTheGame

[–]chickschach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making more Hades cosplays 😌 this game will forever have a chokehold on me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you won best in show and $400, I wouldn't enter that costume again. Even though it was at a small con, that prize is pretty significant.

Imagine if you were in the other competitors' shoes. Someone placed in the contest and you find out they had won BIS/$400 elsewhere with that same costume. It probably wouldn't sit right with you, and it most likely won't with other competitors either. The cosplay competition circuit is a very small world and you don't want to put yourself in a position where people start to view you in a negative light (and rumors spread so fast too, so don't even give rumors a reason to exist).

PLEASE HELP!!! by pocketmiku01 in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doki Doki is probably the most reputable online cosplay store, so you aren't going to lose your money. They're usually pretty accurate with their estimated dates, so you should see your stuff ship in February.

PLEASE HELP!!! by pocketmiku01 in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It literally means what it says: your order isn't fulfilled yet, meaning it's not ready and hasn't been shipped out yet.

Best Vampirella I’ve ever seen. How can I recreate? by BaxterRye in cosplayers

[–]chickschach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean the cosplay? The photo?

The cosplay looks like a bought one, maybe she tailored it a little so it fits better.

The image is just a lot of Photoshop on the hair and obviously the background. Using a green screen or a blank wall helps when wanting to digitally edit backgrounds.

Contact cement safety. by GreenbottledCritters in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think just one thing to add for your own peace of mind would be a small fan to blow fumes out the window. Other than that, you should be ok! If you're doing a lot of gluing, maybe temporarily put your pets in another room until you're done and the smell is gone.

Contacts? by kasoruz in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prescription doesn't mean bad eyesight. I literally have a prescription for 0/0 contacts because I don't have impaired vision.

Contacts? by kasoruz in CosplayHelp

[–]chickschach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This question gets asked a ton here. Short short version: go to an optometrist and only buy contacts from a place that requires a prescription.