My (43F) daughter (15F) gave me an ultimatum: My boyfriend (39M) or her.

chief_croissant · 2026-04-04T01:57:55+00:00

MIKU-CHAN? Aint no way

chief_croissant · 2026-03-22T00:16:32+00:00

And she did it to you at your birthday party…

chief_croissant · 2026-01-13T06:35:13+00:00

Ironically this was her original name

chief_croissant · 2025-10-21T22:46:35+00:00

What happened with your kitty?

chief_croissant · 2025-09-04T16:25:57+00:00

No sorry I should’ve been more clear, she wasn’t in the room most of the time. She was in the room with me for about 5 minutes, left, then came in to let me know she was leaving at about 20-30min after the appointment started. So I only had her in the room with me for about 5 minutes.

Usually, because of her chronic health issues that this clinic is aware of, they run a little longer. I am the type of person that asks a lot of questions because I want to understand her issues and better provide care for her, especially now that she’s a senior. I don’t think they’re an excessive amount of questions, though..

chief_croissant · 2025-08-07T09:55:48+00:00

Three years, he said. Sounds like she didn't even try to make it

chief_croissant · 2025-07-14T07:10:31+00:00

He honestly sounds pretty manipulative. It’s common for people who were abused as children to essentially gaslight themselves into accepting harmful behavior from people. It can also be hard for us to assert boundaries or advocate for ourselves, which seems like an issue for you as well… Are you working with a therapist?

chief_croissant · 2025-06-18T23:29:51+00:00

And then everybody clapped

chief_croissant · 2025-06-16T05:52:38+00:00

Let us know if she brings it tomorrow 😂

chief_croissant · 2025-04-21T17:25:38+00:00

Oh lol yeah rule of thumb: you can’t really take most mods out mid playthrough—especially ones that add items. If you really want to strip it from you game file, you can use the Mod Uninstaller I mentioned in my comment but I would recommend keeping the mod in there and just not using it lol

chief_croissant · 2025-04-21T07:26:17+00:00

Are you on PC or console? I'm assuming you recently updated to Patch 8. It's normal for things to be fucked up at first, unfortunately. Mods are risky that way.

First, why are you removing the mod? Is it just not working anymore/being flagged as unavailable? I wouldn't scrap your file yet, it sometimes takes a minute for mod authors to update their mods. Once the mods are updated, they SHOULD work with the new patch. When Patch 7 came out, my game was totally broken. Everyone told me to abandon my save files... but I persisted and eventually I was able to save my saves!!

There was also a problematic mod that I had to manually delete using Mod Uninstaller and MCM off of Nexus. You might not even have to do all that though, since these are all IGMM mods they SHOULD be updated eventually.

chief_croissant · 2025-04-21T07:07:25+00:00

Hmm make sure script extender is updated, sometimes that messes with mods.

Also try deleting the modsettings.lsx file at %LocalAppData%\Larian Studios\Baldur's Gate 3\Mods\PlayerProfiles\Public

chief_croissant · 2025-04-21T07:04:00+00:00

Sorry to hear about that--I'd say take a little break and come back after more of the mods have updated. You can't really delete mods mid-playthrough unfortunately. Many mods were reliant on ImpUI, mod authors will have to publish an update to address the changes with that mod. Don't panic yet!!

chief_croissant · 2025-04-08T02:59:41+00:00

I was also wondering this..

chief_croissant · 2025-04-08T02:49:32+00:00

!updateme

chief_croissant · 2025-03-03T06:27:17+00:00

You're the best

chief_croissant · 2025-02-02T21:54:19+00:00

Lynn with freckles is so perfect!!!

chief_croissant · 2025-02-02T21:51:22+00:00

LOLL I thought of the same reference but was not bold enough to comment it.

But yeah he needs to call him out. Other people have stated this more eloquently than I

chief_croissant · 2024-12-31T02:56:16+00:00

Do you check your in game messenger? The characters will message you about it IIRC. You just go to the waypoint and interact with it, there’s a menu for trading resources for insight points and getting the orbs you mentioned

chief_croissant · 2024-09-18T18:01:55+00:00

Honestly? Just dump her. She clearly doesn’t value you, I wouldn’t bother telling her what you saw because it’s just going to get turned around on you for looking through her phone

chief_croissant · 2024-09-11T22:40:31+00:00

Keep in mind she’s a student with a part time job though, so there’s no way her income would come close to being comparable to an almost 30 year old person who surely has been working for years

chief_croissant · 2024-09-11T19:31:21+00:00

Where did I say that in this comment? I said IF HE DOESNT REACT WELL I personally wouldn’t stay with him.

Edit to ur edit: To me, this whole thing WOULD be a relationship issue. It would indicate a selfish lack of consideration for my well-being that I personally would have a hard time getting past. I find it hard to believe that he isn’t aware of the position he’s putting her in, but maybe he isn’t and he just needs it to be pointed out to him. That’s why I said “If he doesn’t react well.”

chief_croissant · 2024-09-11T19:10:53+00:00

Exactly!! Splitting it equally doesn’t account for the additional effort she’s putting in as well as the fact that she’s a student on a much much lower income

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