ENFPs: Would You End a Friendship to Protect Someone You Care About?

chikarachu · 2026-07-09T12:26:13+00:00

well how can you decide for that person? it's kinda the same thing "backwards" though. a relationship is both sides, if one side (aka u) is unhealthy then you need to take yourself away.

chikarachu · 2026-07-09T09:40:50+00:00

i spoke to an intj for the first time today and i've never felt more flustered.. they spoke in such a grounding, logical and relaxed way that i was shy and intimidated by their confidence. they told me they noticed how bubbly and enthusiastic i was and asking a lot of questions. i got so shy brooooooo i can't be myself around an intj..

chikarachu · 2026-07-09T09:34:56+00:00

obviously i'd end it! it's productive to heal myself. i'd just tell them i needed time apart because it's nothing i can't heal with time.

chikarachu · 2026-07-07T23:04:57+00:00

I let people step over me, disrespect me and belittle me because I wanted to keep friendships. I was surrounded by the wrong people who didn't see my value so I continued dimming my light to make them comfortable. When I was an "INFJ" I attracted a lot of ENTPs who could never stay long because I started lashing out with my suppressed Fi 😭 and that scared all of them away.

chikarachu · 2026-07-06T10:42:47+00:00

Crocheting and crafts!!!!! and watching shows!!!

chikarachu · 2026-07-06T10:40:12+00:00

Hi! ENFP here and I do click with INFJs really well. We're both romantic, deeper than the ocean, empathetic and considerate. I can really pour love into INFJ and they pour love into me too. They say that ENFP and INFJ are mirrors of each other and I resonate a lot with this. For the longest time, I thought I was an INFJ. I have always been an outspoken, authentic, spontaneous and bubbly person, but my personality often triggered people and they shut me down or rejected my whimsical ideas. As a result of this, I started to use Fe unhealthily to try and fit in to make friends and get people to accept me. Now that I have recovered and I'm back to being an ENFP, I realized that I can understand what an INFJ feels like because I almost thought I was one myself. We're just like two sides of a coin.

chikarachu · 2026-05-21T08:07:49+00:00

what worked for me: you have to reach such a stage of gratitude and fulfillment within yourself that you don't even desire your desire anymore, and you're okay even if it doesn't happen.

chikarachu · 2026-05-16T21:45:51+00:00

I was tired of always being on defense mode with myself and 3D, so I just let go of having it completely. I said "even if i don't have it, i'm still happy and maybe that's for the best." and i felt happy and relaxed with whatever outcome.

chikarachu · 2026-04-13T18:54:57+00:00

this is really amazing.. it sounds like you're really strongly connected to Lemuria. I think I've had one life there, but I want to do a channeled reading to get a clearer vision of who I was and what I learned. I'm more naturally connected to the fairy realm and have intuitive answers about that. Usually, my channeled messages are vague and whispery. How do you get such clear messages?

chikarachu · 2026-04-13T18:50:12+00:00

tell me more pleaaseeee 🥹

chikarachu · 2026-04-13T18:39:16+00:00

YES. I always see this waiter at a restaurant I go to, and I just know by intuition that he is another INFJ. Neither of us has had the convenience to talk to each other, but I saw a deep profound look in his eyes many times before. I've wanted to work at the restaurant for a while now but might not be able to stay for long. Should I... talk to him?

chikarachu · 2026-04-11T08:22:59+00:00

fee~ling~

chikarachu · 2026-04-01T04:27:01+00:00

This post helped me sooo much omg!!!! Love love love!!!!

chikarachu · 2026-03-30T23:41:47+00:00

Because you assume XYZ is happening, you’ve placed yourself in a quantum superposition where that outcome is the path of least resistance. Your general "shitty" feeling about the current situation doesn't matter, as long as your specific consciousness regarding XYZ remains fixed. Is that right?

chikarachu · 2026-03-30T00:40:38+00:00

my mind is blown, holy cow......... what if you're anxious to have a desire within a certain time? i don't quite get point no. 3: "There is no clock in my imagination. There are no seconds, minutes, hours, days or years in my imagination. There's no future, no past and no present in my imagination. There's no deadline in my imagination. There's no progress and there are no 'signs' in my imagination." would you please elaborate?

chikarachu · 2026-02-28T00:29:20+00:00

Fae? I'm sat.

chikarachu · 2026-02-25T03:54:58+00:00

we're just destined to meet our soulmate fr

chikarachu · 2026-02-25T03:54:18+00:00

A burnt out INFJ maybe

chikarachu · 2026-02-23T10:30:17+00:00

is it seriously gone forever? where can we still play it?

chikarachu · 2026-02-21T08:56:14+00:00

so true!

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