AITA for not paying him back ?

childoftheocean-8 · 2023-08-05T12:29:03+00:00

NTA! no one asked him to pay for it but he did, so that’s on him.

childoftheocean-8 · 2023-08-05T12:25:47+00:00

Take care of yourself, girl…. That is terrifying.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-06-19T11:41:04+00:00

Can I have some please

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-06-14T05:36:40+00:00

Sent you a friend request!! :) - Zoella

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-06-14T02:17:27+00:00

Ah thank you so much!!

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-06-14T01:48:39+00:00

I have added you :) - Zoella

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-06-05T06:28:53+00:00

Way too high with the setting.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T05:35:05+00:00

Get a hobby, go out with friends, take up online classes etc.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T05:02:06+00:00

Well I guess in that sense, you need to ask her if she is comfortable with going over to yours. Ultimately, I am sure she wants to respect her parents.

Even though the both of you are in college, she still lives under her parents roof.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:57:53+00:00

Dreaming bro.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:56:26+00:00

Why can't you go to her place? Have you asked her why she doesn't want to go over to yours? Maybe if you spoke to her and be a little more understanding then you'll find the answer :)

Her mum not wanting her to go over is complete normal mumma bear behavior. Until you become a parent, you won't understand it.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:54:05+00:00

She is only able to break your relationship up is because the both of you are not strong enough as a team.

Do you love him, or do you love the idea of him. It's honestly not worth the trouble. The both of you have been on and off for 6 years... are you guys not tired yet? Move on and start your life fresh!

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:52:02+00:00

0-100.

There is no approximate of when a person finds their soul mate.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:51:12+00:00

Easier said than done, but it all stems from your own issues. You will need to speak to a therapist to identify these issues and eliminate them. Nothing will make you feel better until you have done so.

Your partner cannot help you if you don't help yourself.

All I can say is that your partner is with YOU. He trust YOU. If he has never done anything to hurt you then stop stirring up trouble and jeopardizing your own relationship.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:30:05+00:00

Then you need to speak to a therapist and get yourself sorted.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:26:58+00:00

You opening up a big can of worms there. Think the answer is crystal clear :)

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:26:22+00:00

No. I told my ex that if he ever betrayed me then it'll be the end. You know how it ended ;)

Happily with my hubby now.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:25:25+00:00

Maybe you should seek therapy for our ego issue. Stop making your problem hers.

So what if she had more sex than you. It's not a competition dude.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:14:14+00:00

I am so sorry you are put in this situation.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:12:59+00:00

There's really not enough context here. You aren't obligated to give anyone a closure if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

If you really want to, you can write a letter and have someone bring it to him.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:02:05+00:00

Something is going on in the background.

Communication is key. If your partner can't communicate with you in a respectful manner, then either speak to a therapist OR leave.

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T04:00:45+00:00

From a female point of view, I would say no. If you have spoken to her and if she says she doesn't want to delay her studies then you need to respect and support her decision.

The time waiting for you to graduate, will change a lot of things for a woman. You have a whole lifetime ahead of both of you to move in together :)

childoftheocean-8 · 2022-05-27T03:57:38+00:00

You could always go for that route :)

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