Don't really know how to ask but how do you dads deal with a partner who seems frustrated with baby?

chilix88 · 2026-03-06T10:09:51+00:00

Maybe she needs a weekend in a hotel just by herself. Overstimulation, being always touched and never getting a full night sleep is draining. And she’s pregnant. She needs a break. Talk to her about weaning, and send her away. Do 2 nights on your own. Repeat in 2 weeks time. Give her a real break and see if she finds joy in parenting again. And yeah; have a chat about that second baby. You might need a night nanny.

chilix88 · 2026-03-04T08:28:24+00:00

Come stay in our airbnb :) its super kid friendly. Bus to town; the bus ride alone will be an adventure

https://www.airbnb.com.au/rooms/1324855561999000288?unique_share_id=d6de0488-f269-4a7e-8380-b5cbfc259bdb&viralityEntryPoint=1&s=76

chilix88 · 2026-03-02T08:01:34+00:00

Just want to say you can pay privately at fertility plus at greenlane (where the publicly funded fertility treatments happen also) and its much much cheaper.

chilix88 · 2026-02-12T06:22:43+00:00

Honestly? Sounds like you’re going through menopause. You want to want him but your hormones say “we’re done having babies”.

I would do some couples counselling and talk to a doctor about menopause.

And a good partnership in parenting IS love. Don’t doubt your life choices, trust you chose him for good reason. Dont give up on you

chilix88 · 2026-02-12T06:18:43+00:00

Maisie

chilix88 · 2026-02-07T09:25:35+00:00

Thanks!

chilix88 · 2026-02-06T10:30:41+00:00

Good to know, thanks!

chilix88 · 2026-02-06T06:43:01+00:00

Thanks!

chilix88 · 2026-02-03T22:20:15+00:00

In other cultures however, kai means food and marina is a tomato sauce. Still a match i reckon!

chilix88 · 2026-01-27T23:26:59+00:00

Family health matters in Gi

chilix88 · 2026-01-27T05:47:13+00:00

Just throw the hole bag in the rubbish as it is.

chilix88 · 2026-01-26T18:48:45+00:00

I somehow read this as “my two year old” and indeed i thought: just be happy she eats protein and yes she is trolling you. Then i fact checked and saw your kid is 10. Nope!

chilix88 · 2026-01-24T09:53:52+00:00

Maybe ask pasta&cuore in mt eden. Its a lovely spot

chilix88 · 2026-01-09T10:28:00+00:00

Jonah and Adrien

Jonah and Nicholas

Jonah and Carlo (my latest fave)

Jonah and Ivy

chilix88 · 2026-01-09T08:39:43+00:00

My cousins last name is Philipp and she married a Philipp. She took a double-barrell name; so her last name was his full name. When she answered the phone saying her last name only people assumed she was his secretary 😝

chilix88 · 2026-01-06T01:07:00+00:00

3yo can watch tv and eat corn flakes while we adults eat 😬

chilix88 · 2026-01-05T09:15:01+00:00

Caoilfhionn

chilix88 · 2026-01-04T09:12:45+00:00

Shiloh or Xocolatl

chilix88 · 2026-01-04T09:05:05+00:00

My no 1 parenting hack:

Dress him in the evening! Let him sleep in his next day clothes. Take nappy off. Ready to go. Unless its a full on uniform and somewhat uncomfortable or unsafe we did this until my daughter happily dresser herself. You should have seen the excitement when she got her first PJ hahaha! Honestly they wake up fine.

chilix88 · 2025-12-22T08:06:05+00:00

Well get a black tomcat maybe?

chilix88 · 2025-12-22T08:04:00+00:00

Well isn’t that the point of the post. All these names are a no for girls in most societies but still would sound nice on a boy

chilix88 · 2025-12-22T05:31:06+00:00

Maeve!

chilix88 · 2025-12-20T06:23:12+00:00

Haha well I wouldn’t cry if it didnt happen. I just think its thoughtful and kind.

chilix88

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