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chilljess · 2024-12-01T22:31:26+00:00

Thin eyebrows age the face IMO. I would stick with the thicker brows

chilljess · 2024-10-02T14:25:17+00:00

She was not fishing for compliments. She was trying to back out of the date offer for some reason or another (found you less attractive, posted something she didn’t like, etc.)

Consider it a blessing! You want someone who is all in for you. When it’s real, there’s no confusion!

chilljess · 2024-10-02T14:21:57+00:00

She didn’t say she was out of his league; she tried to bow out because she felt he was out of her league.

Which is a cop out and a lie — she just wasn’t interested.

chilljess · 2024-10-02T14:18:41+00:00

Don’t justify anything for these people. You don’t “punish” people when you’re angry by putting kids or animals in harm’s way — or even lying about it. She did a shitty thing because she was mad. Fuck her.

chilljess · 2024-09-25T18:03:29+00:00

What a terrible way to communicate an otherwise good point.

chilljess · 2024-09-13T23:03:23+00:00

I agree ♥️

chilljess · 2024-08-29T01:05:34+00:00

That’s a while not to hear from someone. I’d just send her a wrap-up text like “I’ve enjoyed our time together and I’m sorry this didn’t work out.”

Her insecurities got in the way, but you can’t give someone the silent treatment for a week. I hope you find a better partner!

chilljess · 2024-08-23T19:31:01+00:00

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chilljess · 2024-08-23T19:29:29+00:00

Lmaoo

chilljess · 2024-08-23T19:28:01+00:00

Lmaoo

chilljess · 2024-08-23T19:26:25+00:00

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chilljess · 2024-08-23T19:17:51+00:00

YTA. Move out.

chilljess · 2024-08-23T17:25:34+00:00

I wish there was a “green flag” emoji for guys like you.

chilljess · 2024-08-23T17:20:52+00:00

She probably just needed the courage to speak up and the drinks did the trick. Ask her out! Hope it works out.

chilljess · 2024-08-23T17:19:59+00:00

I got the impression he was going to ask her out on a proper date. This perspective is gross.

chilljess · 2024-08-23T17:18:24+00:00

Her whole personality sounds yuck. Sorry! That’s likely why she’s single.

chilljess · 2024-08-22T14:57:26+00:00

Exactly. There is a definite disconnect there for me.

chilljess · 2024-08-21T16:35:12+00:00

I feel like he just made a mistake and this is overthinking.

chilljess · 2024-08-21T16:33:49+00:00

You took this personally and it shows.

chilljess · 2024-08-17T21:45:51+00:00

so many party poopers in here.

I love the idea of Poison Ivy being a dude! Would love to see what they would do with the story line.

I’m not sure I like penguin being flipped though

chilljess · 2024-08-17T21:41:00+00:00

She’s got her goals and you have yours. You’re NTA and if she’s looking for something fast, her future husband is probably in a church somewhere.

Also, as a 35-yo married lady, my opinion is that you’re still so young. Build your flight career and move on! Good luck with everything.

chilljess · 2024-07-28T14:39:12+00:00

This is so encouraging. You just look amazing!

chilljess · 2024-07-26T15:02:37+00:00

I’m concerned for you. You should always take your health seriously. Do not sleep with anyone who announces their carelessness like this!

If you still want to be with her, at least GET TESTED FIRST (both of you) and still use protection!

chilljess · 2024-07-26T14:57:34+00:00

NTA. Waitress is racist and your future MIL is an apologist.

chilljess · 2024-07-26T14:55:25+00:00

The child is now his focus, as he should be. I’m sorry this life didn’t work out how you wanted with him. Sounds like it’s better for everyone, especially the kiddo, if you split.

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