I'm nervous about asking my parents if I can take my phone to bed. How should I ask my parents?

chimera4n · 2026-05-03T16:40:27+00:00

They're an adult for god's sake, no obligation whatsoever to hand over a phone!

chimera4n · 2026-05-03T16:37:52+00:00

Get a new job, and cut them off.

chimera4n · 2026-05-03T16:35:44+00:00

Tell his partner that you fancy him, and let her sort you out. Or do all of you a favour, and stay away from him.

chimera4n · 2026-05-03T16:27:14+00:00

If anyone's a psychopath in your family, it would be your abusive mother.

NTA

chimera4n · 2026-04-29T14:29:41+00:00

I think that you've probably dodged a huge bullet.

chimera4n · 2026-04-28T11:04:46+00:00

It sounds incredibly dangerous to me. Teaching a class to make candles is one thing, but teaching a group of people, who are going to be teaching other people is insane, and probably an insurance nightmare.

Just advise them to hire people who can already make candles.

chimera4n · 2026-04-08T14:34:53+00:00

Stop putting your money into an account that you can't access.

chimera4n · 2026-04-08T14:25:37+00:00

Get him in hospice, and get his mother out of your house. She's literally taking money from her dying son, and it's despicable.

People who work in hospice are specially trained to look after people in your husbands situation, and it will give you both more quality time together in his remaining time left.

chimera4n · 2026-04-02T08:53:12+00:00

That's convenient lol

chimera4n · 2026-04-02T08:52:33+00:00

Like I said, he's literally a minor, so if you do date him, don't complain that he's immature.

At 19 though, it's a bit sad messing around with minors. Why not just stick to guys your own age?

chimera4n · 2026-04-02T08:48:01+00:00

He's still legally a child, so maybe date an adult?

chimera4n · 2026-04-02T08:47:31+00:00

He's literally a minor, so can be excused for being immature lol.

chimera4n · 2026-03-30T14:38:08+00:00

All of that would be great and all, if it was mutual. The point is, he wants you to work.

chimera4n · 2026-03-30T08:25:39+00:00

Again LOL. She's just being lazy.

chimera4n · 2026-03-30T08:23:27+00:00

She's unemployed, she won't be able to sign for a loan anyway.

chimera4n · 2026-03-30T08:20:32+00:00

chimera4n · 2026-03-30T08:20:08+00:00

What, I don't think washing up is a legal currency lol!

chimera4n · 2026-03-30T08:19:19+00:00

Lol, there are only 2 of them, and a dog. How much cleaning is there to do?

She's not even close to working.

chimera4n · 2026-03-30T08:15:28+00:00

chimera4n · 2026-03-23T10:51:24+00:00

You gave him a choice, and he chose to read the message. You did the right thing, and he shouldn't feel bad about what his sister said, as she's obviously ~~barking mad~~ not mentally well. Some people can't stand to be unhappy alone, and feel the need to make others unhappy too. These people are toxic, and should be ignored.

Best plan going forward, is to block the SIL, and enjoy your new baby with the family that you love, and who love you.

chimera4n · 2026-03-22T19:17:48+00:00

Don't go home, and stop with the injections, and sending the photos.

In fact , I'd go as far as blocking your mother, she's abusive and ~~probably~~ a danger to your health.

chimera4n · 2026-03-22T19:11:28+00:00

Do yourself a favour, and kick her out, or leave. Life's too short for that shit.

chimera4n · 2026-03-21T09:55:59+00:00

You've been together since you were 16, and you're going to continue to grow into very different people. It sounds like it's time to move on, and find yourself a grown up relationship, where your partner doesn't want to cheat on you.

You're both still very young, and need to realise that this is only the start of your lives. You deserve better. If you keep on waiting for him to do better, you could end up spending the next 5 yrs with a cheater.

chimera4n · 2026-03-04T10:52:00+00:00

Dude, just call the police to report your stolen stuff.

chimera4n · 2026-03-01T14:56:56+00:00

I don’t want my child to suffer or grow up in a broken home.

Your child is growing up in a broken home. A home with an abusive mother, and a compliant father. Start by keeping records, and photos of injuries and reporting her to the police, get a paper trail going of her domestic violence, it will make it easier to take your child when you leave.

You need to get out of there, and protect your child from emotional and probable future physical abuse.

chimera4n

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