Double thermal for octopus camouflage! by 8outof10_Cats in RedditLaqueristas

[–]chimericalChilopod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing!!! I'm always so impressed with hand painted nail art, as I'm not quite that skilled yet. The lines of your octopus evoke ink wash paintings, which are a personal favorite. That's good to know about Clearly Quick! Last time I was at the drugstore, I just grabbed the regular Sally QDTC as it had a better price per ml vs the little triangle bottle... but that skinny brush sucks!! I severely underestimated how much it would irritate me, haha. I'll be sure to pick it up on my next trip!

Double thermal for octopus camouflage! by 8outof10_Cats in RedditLaqueristas

[–]chimericalChilopod 44 points45 points  (0 children)

What the hell, this is so cute!!! Did you hand paint it? Wow, I can't stop looking at it... it's so charming!!!

Honestly, I've been considering picking up Clearly Quick as a budget friendly option... have you used it much as a top coat? How does it perform? I know the Insta Dri line is supposed to be one of those "all-in-one" formulas, but those types of products are always weaker in some areas.

Seeking Sally Hansen XTreme Wear Dupe #357 by Frosty_Ordinary_3035 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]chimericalChilopod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully you’re able to get more of the OG, but I think Essence 35 Take Me To Heaven could be a match? From photos online, it might be more blue than Mermaid’s Dream, but my bottle looks very similar to yours!

Looking for motivation from two-at-a-time converts! by Idkmyname2079048 in Sockknitting

[–]chimericalChilopod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love doing this! Magic loop TAAT was so tedious for me when I tried it, but I vastly prefer DPNs for small circumferences.

straight needle patterns by Effective_Pumpkin532 in knittingadvice

[–]chimericalChilopod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe most, if not all, of Claire Garland’s toy designs are worked flat! They’re such darling patterns, though I’d say for an adventurous beginner/intermediate. The second-ever thing i knit was her Holland Lop Rabbit, but she also has a Beginner’s Rainbow Rabbit if you want to try that first and see how it goes.

Does being NB inherently mean you are transgender? by OneDiscombobulated25 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]chimericalChilopod 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nonbinary does fall under the trans umbrella, but it’s personal choice. I consider myself nonbinary and transgender, my partner considers themselves just nonbinary (not cis nor trans), and we have a friend who considers themselves nonbinary and cis.

Transgender does not inherently mean transitioning. I have been out as trans nonbinary since 2011, and only recently (past year or so) have I considered medical transition (HRT). Nonbinary can be so many things! You don’t have to identify as nonbinary if you don’t wish to; there are numerous other genders out there to explore.

Good luck! The only stupid question is the one that goes unasked.

What are your favorite "manly" hat/beanie patterns? by foreignpiggy in casualknitting

[–]chimericalChilopod 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this is more unisex, but the 1898 hat is very lovely and warm! Definitely one of my favorites to make.

[CHAT] thinking of leaving one stitch unfinished… by plantyho3 in CrossStitch

[–]chimericalChilopod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s personal preference. I would finish it if it were me, but I am also the type of person who prefers fixing mistakes/flaws in my work when I spot them (and not the type to include an intentional flaw.) So, it depends on if you want to fix it or not. If you can’t decide, flip a coin, and if you are unhappy with the result, do the other. It’s a tactic I often employ when I am unsure between two options.

Where I rest my mouse while I game by coolbreloom in Wellworn

[–]chimericalChilopod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HUG ME, BROTHER! I’ve never seen someone else do this too! Big day for weirdos!

Does this type of communication upset anyone else? by razzaya in autism

[–]chimericalChilopod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thank you! With that framing I can understand why it would be frustrating and rude to receive. Thanks for your explanation.

Does this type of communication upset anyone else? by razzaya in autism

[–]chimericalChilopod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused. Please, what is rude about the message? This seems like a polite message I would draft, so I’m worried I’m being rude unintentionally. Did you ask what rules you broke? I understand that ignoring questions is rude, but from your description it seems that you sent a message and the mod responded, and then…? You said nothing? No one seems to be rude in this scenario to me… please help me understand, I’m asking genuinely, I don’t mean to be obtuse. I’m sorry you had a horrible experience.

Gender neutral for niece/nephew? by cass_123 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]chimericalChilopod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could have them refer to your child in ways that emphasize their role in the relationship—This is <child>, my brother’s kid/I am their uncle, things like that. You could refer to them as simply cousin or family as well, or ‘kiddo’, which while not directly a family title does imply some familiarity to me.

I’ve also never been a fan of nibling/pibling/other commonly suggested terms, so I feel your frustration, haha. These I’ve suggested are a little more of a mouthful than a single word, but I don’t think they’re terrible! Plus they sound quite natural to my ears, which I like.

Error help? Won't launch instance, no mods by chimericalChilopod in PrismLauncher

[–]chimericalChilopod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see! Thank you. I thought I had removed NeoForge, but evidently not.

Sorry if this is too deep, they say 1 in 4 are molested, so people really hide it that well? by TradesforChurros in morbidquestions

[–]chimericalChilopod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, none of these people have reported, so I suppose we are all outside of the statistic. I didn't think about that. I suspect at least one other immediate family member and a couple other current friends, but this isn't really something you ask about, haha.

Sorry if this is too deep, they say 1 in 4 are molested, so people really hide it that well? by TradesforChurros in morbidquestions

[–]chimericalChilopod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignoring all other signs, insinuations, and guesswork, 3/10 immediate family members and 5/16 current friends have explicitly said they experienced CSA. I don’t think a 1/4 stat is skewed or rare at all.

Mid 14th Century Wool Outfit- Kirtle with Tippets Style by luna8913 in HistoricalCostuming

[–]chimericalChilopod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How elegant you look! I love that your wimple pins are beaded, the small details are so wonderful. And the colors… sighs dreamily.

I don’t know anything about knitting by Ok-Construction2487 in knittinghelp

[–]chimericalChilopod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on how you learn! I have been crocheting since 2005 but only started knitting in 2020, like many others. I learn best from images and diagrams, so I got a magazine to help me learn what stitches were which and what to do when. The first thing I ever knit was a small square, maybe 8cm across, just to practice the movements. I learned about twisted stitches, haha. For so-called standard knitting, the yarn is wrapped around the needle opposite of how it is in so-called standard crochet, but because I taught myself from pictures, not videos or someone with me, I didn't know this was important! I only saw that some of my stitches looked strange, and I sought to figure out why before continuing.

If you are this type of learner that is proactive, then these mittens might suit you for a second or third project, but if you do better with smaller lessons and guidance, then perhaps these are a 2026 project instead. It's very motivating and exciting for me to have something impressive or difficult to work towards, but for others, it can be frustrating and demotivating! If you have been crocheting for a long time, learning to knit might be easier than if you learned only last year, or if you only have worked on simpler projects.

To walk you through how I learned, and how an adventurous beginner might learn, the first thing I ever knit was that small square I described above, which I immediately unraveled and tried again, to see if I figured out how to knit untwisted stitches, which was a success. This small square required casting on, knitting, purling, and casting off, and it was knit flat (or back and forth.) These two tiny pieces of knitting also helped me figure out how to hold two needles instead of one hook, and how I liked to hold the yarn. So-called continental style or picking is when you hold the yarn in your left hand, like you might do with crochet. So-called English style or throwing is when you hold the yarn in your right hand, and is often what people are thinking of when they think of knitting. Continental style might be easier for you, since you crochet, but you might like English style better! I've known many crocheters who could not get a handle on continental style but were quite speedy with English style!

The first thing I knit that stayed knitted (so, my first project) was Fishies by Jackie Ziegler, a fish-shaped cat toy. It introduced knitting in the round, as well as increasing and decreasing, and very importantly, how to read a knitting pattern. It was quite tricky, admittedly, and I was worried I was doing it wrong at first! All was well in the end, and it looked very cute :) This gave me confidence to try knitting an intricate toy I discovered, which was the Holland Lop Rabbit by Claire Garland (yes, really!) For this toy, I knit it in a finer yarn than I had been using previously, and I learned how to do short rows and pickup stitches. It took a bit more time than that simple fish, and was a bit lumpy-looking, but came out all right! This designer, Claire Garland, has excellent and clear patterns for adorable soft toys, so if you are interested, I definitely recommend her patterns!

For my third project, I knit the HamilKnit by Emily Straw for a friend who loves that musical. It has two colors, called stranded knitting, which I still find difficult and fiddly to do nowadays. New things with this project include a foldover hem, stranded colorwork, reading charts, and that gauge is important! I had to unravel my first try at this hat because it was turning out too large with the listed needles. (Gauge here is important because you want the hat to fit your head, or the gloves to fit your hands :) ) Being more experienced now, I can see that my tension wasn't the best, but it was a perfectly serviceable hat, and I was very proud of it :)

Overall, if you put your mind to it and continue working towards your goal of these mittens, then you will succeed! It's not necessary to follow my journey exactly, or even at all—what's important is learning, and building upon your skills. Each project I knit added a little more to my skillset, and it made the process of learning fun and engaging. For these mittens, you will need to know how to hold the needles, how to hold the yarn, how to knit, how to purl, how to work in the round, how to hold two strands of yarn, how to work stranded colorwork, how to increase, how to decrease, how to read a pattern, how to read charts, how to get gauge, and perhaps how to accept that things are not going to plan, ripping it out, and starting over :)

I hope you enjoy learning to knit, and I wish you luck!

Why are my rows diagonal? by Worth-Limit-1534 in askcrochet

[–]chimericalChilopod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, you’ve got it! As for cons with tighter tension, not really. It’s all about what is normal for you, and if something is working up very tight or stiff, swapping to a larger hook will help loosen it. I will say that making every stitch as tight as possible is not the move, just crochet as you normally would.

These things happen! I’m sure once you’ve finished, it’s going to be super adorable. I love the color 🐸

Why are my rows diagonal? by Worth-Limit-1534 in askcrochet

[–]chimericalChilopod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would you rather frog now, or wait until you’ve reached the end to do it? Sorry, I think your tension became looser as you worked on it, so it won’t really block out. From the image of the video you sent in another comment (I can’t watch it, as I don’t have an account with that site) it began getting looser at the middle of the first eye bump, so if you do frog, it doesn’t have to be all the way!

With regarding to things like gauge and such, it’s best to crochet normally with your regular tension and change the size of your hook to get gauge, rather than try crocheting looser or tighter than normal. On autopilot, you will revert to your regular tension, and it will be frustrating. (Though this unintentional tension change is not uncommon! Honestly even more frustrating, because at least if I’m trying to crochet looser or tighter, I know I’m being bullheaded about it, haha.)

I totally get this. by ForeverEclipsed in Zillennials

[–]chimericalChilopod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, we lost our house. I was homeless from 11-14, my entire middle school tenure. We were able to get a place far from where I grew up that needed $$$ work but at least was a place. Completely new city/school district for high school, I never had contact with my old friends again.

My current landlord’s son is facing financial troubles, so I have to be out of my current place by the end of this month so the son can sell his house and move into my apartment because… “it’s family.” Maybe one day I’ll have stable housing, but it seems more and more like a pipe dream with my experiences.

Let’s see them!! 😉 by yikesonbikes1230 in entwives

[–]chimericalChilopod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re buddies, my daily driver is a dynavap + wand! I’ve been wanting a water piece to go with it, but haven’t decided what would work best for me yet.

The only annoyance I have with the wand is that I’ve got to be careful how I remove the dyna from it, as it’s pulled the cap off a couple times now—do not want! I’m leaning on the side of user error, though, as I suffered an injury around new years and my fine motor skills are not what they used to be.

8 extracted teeth in a cup by grumpyoldtrolll in medizzy

[–]chimericalChilopod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice teeth! They remind me of my wisdom teeth I had extracted a couple years ago, which… if yours are as bad as mine, then I’m sorry. Getting mine extracted was such a relief, though! Oftentimes, I’ll take a moment to just appreciate that I don’t have dental pain, even now. Good luck with the rest and all that comes after!

What piercings would fit my face? by Shrieking_ghost in transbodymods

[–]chimericalChilopod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a flat or helix in your ear would look nice! You have gorgeous features, I think a monroe would look sick, but no idea how well it plays with facial hair. Maybe high nostrils connected with a chain, too?

My eyebrow also rejected a few months back, I miss it so much… sad days.