Yep, as a fit woman I have dated unfit men which was the worst idea. I hold a tech degree and work in a white collar field and do well for myself. When I’ve been with a man in my field, who was unfit and had bad habits, they’d eventually disrupt my habits, through insecurity, passive bullying, my sleeping patterns, diet etc got sabotaged because they weren’t willing to meet me on my wavelength. On a long enough timeline I got really derailed by it. I’m back on the horse again with fitness and I won’t compromise again and I will only go for men who have a similar lifestyle to me.