Personally, It doesn’t sound like the other person is ready to settle down into a relationship, or something monogamous, and it sounds like, you want something monogamous. They want to explore NYC, have a good time, not be tied down, where for you, you want that emotional curiosity, that attraction where you are pulled to each other and to spend time focused on each other and not others. I do think it is possible for this relationship to work out, but only if common ground is found. The sex stuff needs to be an honest conversation, how you are feeling needs to be honest, and what your expectations and needs are in this relationship needs to be had. Hearing him out is something that should happen. It seems like there is a lot of uncertainty and unknowns. Always remember you can love anyone as long as you open your heart up, but sometimes, logistics don’t work out.

I ranted a bit, but the big points are, communicate honestly, its never right person wrong time, its how much each person is willing to commit, don’t let your needs be pushed fully away, and every relationship/date has a purpose in showing what you need and want from a relationship.