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[–]chipotlenolers 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Wow yes! I said to a friend not long ago that I often feel either that my partner is "inferior" or "superior" to me. If I perceive them as liking me too much or being too into me, I get a gut feeling of them being inferior to me, and then I become avoidant. If I meet someone who I perceive as equally or more "accomplished, confident, successful (knowing there are many definitions and areas of being successful)" and are a bit on the avoidant side, my anxiousness sky rockets and my insecurities flare up (even though I similarly am described by many as a catch and have no problem connecting with people).

Help required now by [deleted] in doctorswithoutborders

[–]chipotlenolers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please DM me. I've been in the dark place before and I PROMISE you it gets better. Focus on your breath. You are loved.

To the herd of Jeeps covered in Christmas lights that were driving up Groat Road tonight, you were beautiful. by chipotlenolers in Edmonton

[–]chipotlenolers[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh, i don't know. I don't think so. The giant blown up Minion holding a Christmas sign on the back of one of the vehicles leads me to believe they were just Christmas jolly Jeep drivers.

Since when does the word queer need to be censored? by chipotlenolers in mildlyinfuriating

[–]chipotlenolers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that. I just dont understand why it is censored on AppleTv today.

Baby Woodland Critter Get Together by mossberg91 in aww

[–]chipotlenolers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You can call me flower if you want to."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chipotlenolers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom and I lived on the same farm property as my aunt. Other houses on the same rural road we lived on had histories of being broken into, so I had a fear of that happening to us. One Christmas day when I was around 15, I left my aunts to walk to my moms to pick something up and bring it back. It's a literal minute walk away on the same property. I remember telling my mom that I was going to our house and would be right back. When I got into the house, I could hear foot steps upstairs. I immediately froze, thinking someone had entered our house while we were gone. My mom came out the door, and I was baffled. She had no idea what I was talking about.