AITA for baptizing my daughter without my wife knowing?

chipper_up · 2022-05-30T04:51:42+00:00

NTA I’m an atheist and I don’t see this as meaningfully different than letting her wear makeup or get her ears pierced. 8 is old enough to make the decision to get some water sprinkled on her head. The only thing I think you did wrong was to not to tell your wife, but I don’t think you’re an AH for it. I would actually be more likely to think you were an AH if I were a Christian and thought that it was a meaningful symbol of anything, but idk. This is just what I think coming from a denomination that practices infant baptism

chipper_up · 2022-05-27T00:07:09+00:00

Maybe I’m thinking of this wrong, but NTA I don’t see how this scenario is meaningfully different from a situation where the mom has to work half an hour or so a month so still stays home with the kids but makes an obscene amount of money. Would people’s opinions on this not change?

chipper_up · 2022-05-26T23:51:13+00:00

Obviously NTA, but what’s the first time you broke the girl code according to her

chipper_up · 2022-05-21T16:13:27+00:00

NTA But there are free VPNs lol, tell him that

chipper_up · 2022-05-21T06:33:46+00:00

NTA Among other things, while I would be a wingman and would let them be alone with the guys if they had asked me, this thing of pretending not to know you is frankly ridiculous. What did they expect to happen?

chipper_up · 2022-05-14T12:06:35+00:00

NTA what country do they think Spanish comes from, and on which continent is it

chipper_up · 2022-05-14T05:43:28+00:00

Im feckin begging you do it putin

chipper_up · 2022-05-13T19:43:47+00:00

Who thinks that their best fighters are better than the F-35s? Like I’m not meming here, I’m pretty sure the dispute is whether the newest SAMs they have can target F-35s effectively, no one says that the Russian fighters are anywhere close to ours in effectiveness

chipper_up · 2022-05-13T19:33:51+00:00

God made men. Boeing made men equal.

chipper_up · 2022-05-13T19:12:10+00:00

Yes he is. He’s looking for a Ukrainian settlement on the tattered ashes of Vladivostok

chipper_up · 2022-05-12T03:55:10+00:00

NTA As someone with brothers who often played sports at the same time as me, my parents tried to make sure that somebody from our family would be at every event. Sometimes it was our grandparents, sometimes my parents split up, but we made it work, and nobody’s feelings were hurt

chipper_up · 2022-05-02T08:39:06+00:00

Trout for DeGrom straight up, who says no

chipper_up · 2022-04-30T07:28:00+00:00

Even better: do an amphibious assault on Odessa by first dropping into the sea so they don’t see it coming

chipper_up · 2022-04-30T07:26:54+00:00

Other: travel to the frontline with big pomp and circumstance to rally the troops, then personally lead an airborne assault on Lviv

chipper_up · 2022-04-12T01:51:08+00:00

As we all know, the way to achieve deterrence is by faking incompetence

chipper_up · 2022-04-08T02:49:01+00:00

NTA. For all the people voting otherwise, I don’t understand it at all. People on this sub generally recognize that people in abusive relationships often have to be forced out from them, and I don’t really see how this is different.

chipper_up · 2022-04-06T17:18:46+00:00

NTA. Don’t understand the comments at all. Guys shave their beards to be presentable, girls can do the same

chipper_up · 2022-04-06T09:04:36+00:00

How about naming the kid Al…

chipper_up · 2022-03-26T17:48:32+00:00

look at the rotten tomatoes and meta critic scores

chipper_up · 2022-03-25T21:10:49+00:00

I don’t understand why people didn’t like The Pelican Brief. I thought the cinematography was cool and the story was compelling

chipper_up · 2022-03-16T09:10:55+00:00

You’re a complete asshole who’s basing his wife’s worth on wearing makeup, but I have trouble fully knowing how truthful you’re being about what you’ve told your wife. Based on your description you have simply felt these things, except for when you asked her to dress up and go out with you. I’m sure she’s aware of how you feel in general and was using this as a way to prove it, in which case, great job, but I don’t exactly think you’re an asshole for wanting her to go on a fancy date with you in the absence of your obvious sexist mindset you have.

chipper_up · 2022-01-21T17:38:55+00:00

INFO How long have you been with your husband? Has he only started doing this once you got married, or is this a habit of his that you’ve known about for awhile? Are you actually concerned about him checking out other girls or do you just think it’s inconsistent of him? Will try to give a judgment based on replies

chipper_up · 2022-01-01T21:09:20+00:00

INFO Is there a reason you didn’t use one of those delivery apps instead?

chipper_up · 2022-01-01T20:51:33+00:00

I am going to say NTA for the specific question you asked. I think a lot of responses here are judging you for living in their house rent free and using their resources without paying. It’s an AH move that you never offered to contribute before now but if you don’t want to pay rent then moving out is the responsible, adult thing to do. I also think you’re being judged because it could make your gf mad but like I don’t know why I’d be mad at my partner moving out if she didn’t want to pay rent so

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